Girl Chat: People Who Are Told a Deep Secret Became Physically Burdened By It!

We love hearing

secret

s, but keeping them is actually a different story. Researchers at Tufts University say that

people

who were

told

a

deep

secret

, such as someone's infidelity, felt

physically

burdened

by it, for example, a task like carrying groceries upstairs and walking around. dog required more effort, so the women. Do you think it's fair that

people

put you in a situation by burdening you with their secret? It's the worst feeling in the world when you don't really want to know the dark depths of someone and then you just worry about someone like I'm going to think about what you should do, what's the solution, yeah, who was involved, especially when your mind Is he a little younger?

When I was a kid, Mike, one of my family members who I was very close to, was being unfaithful in his marriage, yes, and I saw it, I understood it well. I didn't want the marriage to break up so I kept it a secret and I wouldn't have advised the

girl

to do the same now, but what I learned Is there a power for some people who can truly free themselves from the burden of that person to not be involved? That's my mom, my mom, she's that person who loves everyone's keys, she's like what you say, what happens, you know, but then.

Then when I'm like mom, don't you feel so guilty now that you know her secret? She's like her no, the bad secret that they give you wrinkles, I don't want wrinkles, you guys really lose sleep over things like that, yeah, you like to see someone. with someone else or just knowing knowing that is profound like a week of grace. I just don't want to know because I'm going to say it, that's the truth, okay, okay, I get it, but what if someone tells you anyway? What if they tell you? You like, if I'm like Lonnie, I'm about to tell you something and you didn't know it, so I go with you and now you know something very dark about me.

I'm like you know I'm going to tell someone. Sit down guys, I have to say a lot of people tend to tell me their stuff because I think because I'm such an open book, I'll tell all my spoilers, my own team, sometimes you guys will tell me, don't tell everyone. Yes, everyone, wait for us, what are your stories, although I am not like a movie, right? And then, because I'm telling them, they see a crazy story, that makes other people want to tell me their crazy stories, and then, because I already have them. So many crazy stories in my own life that I forget about yours passing by that even when other people have said something really heavy to me, I can think about it later and send a little message, well, it doesn't wear on me how The guys are saying that You didn't kill him.

I like your friend. I want to ask, does it depend on the person? Because I know that the attendees had many friends, but you have a core by your side and that starts with your family. My friends aren't even part of the family, so what if it was a dark, heavy secret that had to do with maybe your sister or maybe your mom? You know, okay, that's different, it's my family, okay, so I get it. I like it. I'm thinking. You guys are literally talking like I'm your

girl

friend. I'm not going to let that keep me from sleeping and I'm losing sleep over a chinchilla like they're just secrets in general like one time my niece's teacher called me she was ten at the time and she ended up giving him he wanted hurt her mom's number, my niece gave me my number and then the teacher called me and left this long message about you know, Naomi, she was mean, okay, okay and everything, and you know she's a bright girl, but you know what he needs. a little discipline and all that, so I called Naomi first, let someone catch that man, my mother, every time you know, honey, please don't tell, you know my mommy, I said, you know, she I'll tell your mommy, oh, I don't want to. the burden because she misbehaved at school I'm not that burden for me, but then I called my sister and I said: hey, the teacher calls and blah, blah, blah, to the teacher, I said no, the teacher called and I said, I

told

Naomi.

She was going to call you and tell you so you can handle it, she's not a mom and I told her not to lie to your teachers because it was a teaching moment because she didn't let me get caught up in your mess, okay? that's true, I just want to get caught up in it in the way you forced me to push myself into a corner where I have to lie for you, yeah, either that has that or later when the truth comes out then they reveal it . your name and say well, Adrian knew, oh don't test me, I don't know, random people just come up to me and feel like you have that face, though anything, yeah, you have that biblical face, you know, you just fight a lot. generating all my crazy things because I just like to see you react exactly guys, these are the craziest things I've ever done in my life, yeah, hey, I think it's because sometimes I think maybe I have some great advice to give in return, yeah o I.

Seriously, I'm a non-judgmental person, so I feel like people are comfortable telling me everything, but I don't know either. I am one of those people where I carry people's burdens, so although I welcome you, you know your problems, I assume them as my own because my problem is that I always want to solve it, so when I hear something like saying that a marriage It's not going well, then you know I'll do it. Call as counselors and say, "Hey, you guys should give it to this person so they can figure out how to fix it. Have you ever started Googling Bible verses for them and it's absolutely okay if it helps them?

Is anyone still up for this?" "Yes, but sometimes people just want to." in the ear to listen yeah they don't really want you to fix it they don't even need you so you need to let off steam and know you did the job being a listening ear that's easier said than done ah yeah here I don't care what you want to do to fix it, what did they not want to fix? I hate going after them and I just pray about it, so maybe I don't like trying to help them

physically

, it just doesn't hurt. for me to care, I haven't heard anything that I think will help because it helped me I heard a quote who it was who it was it was Oprah and 50 Cent it was a recent appearance on super soldier super soul on Sunday they said this they said you You can pray and you can worry but You can't do a boat at the same time and then I'll let it go.

I love it Well guys, it's no secret that engaged couples are overwhelmed by their wedding day. I knew about this. I can totally relate, in fact you Madame Moi recently asked the question: should plus ones be reserved only for engaged and married people? Blogger ELISA Rochelle says yes, because weddings can be very expensive for your size and when you start inviting random people, that's ideal for the groom. I don't know about you personally, that adds up if it's like 150,200, that's $75 and you just invited three more people, that's math. What if they get married? That's a lot of money.

Should they be married or engaged in order? being a companion, maybe not being married or engaged, but having been with that person for a while, exactly the most important thing, this is one of the most intimate moments of your life. Yes, no one is a city manager. You know, witnessing something so historic. and so personal, I think of people who are opposed to doing it, okay, I'm not laughing, yes, they said just be a companion as a boyfriend, but as long as you know the person and what the person has been like in your life, it's not something So.

Hey, I have a wedding to go to with someone to look for something strange and the ring, first of all, if you are going to invite someone to your wedding, you should know that they are not bringing anyone to the wedding like again. It should be someone the bride and groom at least know like Frank Spence, she brought Amy with her. I know, delicious, yes, and I know her person and you add something first that is important. Is it okay for me to bring my friend Amy to your wedding? husband, I didn't want to go alone, but I'm usually there, but what I didn't understand is that I meant to mention this, okay, I needed someone in me, this is just me, I'm in I'm in a foreign country.

I know I just wanted someone to be in the room with me. You wouldn't be wrong, but I mean, that's still the idea of, "Okay. I get it. You're single. You don't necessarily want to pass." yourself, yeah, so I'm NOT single when you're a guest, you bring, you buy gifts, you transport, you dress, I think that's to say, and if you trust your friend, you should say, well, you could bring someone because, at the like her. She just said she didn't want to be alone when you go to a wedding. Sometimes when you're single, you don't want to be alone, so you don't want to be with someone who doesn't show up.

Sorry, you will be single in Palli. Be good, boo, you're going to be ready, they were a group of women. I won't be with a group of women, yes, but it's nice to go to a wedding as a single woman without a date, yes, and you might meet your eligible bachelor. It's the best thing he does, that gets the party going again because you're meeting people that you know your friends already approve of us enough to be there. I want a Brain Rod day for the wedding, okay, yes, I cook myself, yes, I did. I didn't bring anyone because I knew I was working on your wedding and then she was bringing someone so I was alone and oh you were there okay weird we were all together it was like it wasn't necessary at all anyways, bang, me too.

I don't want to hate people who are lazy. People say I don't want it. Guess what they might actually be brilliant. Did you know. Thank you. According to research in the Journal of Health Psychology, intelligent people spend more time being lazy than their active counterparts, those who are more active get bored faster and need to be stimulated with external activities, while intelligent and less active people spend more time being lazy. time thinking and drinking, ladies, do you think being lazy is okay, this is it, this is good, interesting, do you think? that being lazy could be a good thing oh yeah, it's lazy I don't like that description I don't think you can is that, what would you think?

Don't you say I'm one of those people but I'm not? lazy person, my thing is that I just get stuck in my head and then I'm exhausted from thinking too well, so it's not that I'm lazy, it's just that where did you say you get exhausted? Do it if you sit there and think about the loner right, you're not lazy, constantly every time I pass by your house, minute, I'm fine, what are you doing? I'm cleaning, yes, you are constantly your life, you are not lazy, no. Ok come on anyway I'm inactive because I think too much so I have to do something to get you out of my head yeah ok I think some people might be quick to use the vague term to insult people.

For example, in my family, if you, as a child, sit down and you're not doing something right away, the parents say, "Oh, he's lazy, he's just lazy," she's not, she's not going to be good. , you will find out later because she is not doing the housework or they are not. they like to do their homework when in reality I think kids need to be stimulated or they need to do something that interests them, like sports or maybe an activity or if it's a task, give them a motivated reason why they should do it, otherwise On the contrary, if we just say that Timmy is lazy because he plays the piano, maybe Timmy doesn't like the piano, maybe Timmy isn't good at the piano, but if you put Timmy in something like science or maybe something that you know inches, it will come up and it will be amazing, Dylan, my cousin, that was the exact Problem like my aunt always likes to cave in different tasks and he never got into it.

She made him play the damn piano when I saw her face. I was like that kid didn't like me. No, so I took him outside. Yes and you. I have to be careful because I advocated for you to soak up the words and start thinking: I'm lazy, you're not lazy. Something is wrong with me or you start to believe that you are not lazy. It's harder for what you call waking up your kids, are you a genius and then they get up and then the changes perform my favorite activity is doing nothing. I love doing nothing.

Look, I'm a genius too. Okay, for example, I like to just relax, lie down and watch TV. I'm the only one? He just likes to relax and watch TV, you know, order some food and relax. I like to think that I am a person who knows that there is a time for everything. In reality, there are people who don't know how to sit still, as if. There are guys who throw each other like honey, would you take a day? and they don't know how to just relax and be still and I think that's actually a great quality, it's very relaxing, yeah, there better be a time and a place. for everything you should be doing that every day all day no, but when the time comes it's okay to be lazy sometimes I can't just this that other part of you you can't sit down I can't be stupid but if you put a glass of alcohol on my side I'll stay there all night