Full Episode- Drew Vs. Drew: Double Dipping

but you are upset by the comments. I mean, she appears under the photos. You know, I see two problems here. I see recent actions on your part that have triggered long-standing issues of mistrust that I believe lay dormant for several years between the two of you. "But these recent actions have just triggered them again and here's the problem you're going to have when there's a problem in the relationship if your default is for the other person to not be a saint." They will never get anywhere because all they are going to do is keep doing things to hurt each other because the other person is not a saint and when they have had a change that actually happened in the relationship in this long time. term marriage and you actually because people try to stay and work things out and how they do it, they go through the long difficult process of forgiveness and they go through that difficult process of forgiveness that is combined with something else and it is a behavioral change. because that's what people really need to see to start trusting each other again.

You know, I said this before. Trust is lost in buckets and gained in drops, so it's the little everyday things that What you do is when you earn the trust of another person, but when that trust is broken again, what is the message? of text you sent to your cousin that was a cube? The message she saw on Facebook was another bucket, so now it's day to... day of drops and trying to get it back again, but that's what it takes, it takes that kind of work, but there's a limited amount of trust that you are going to lose and the marriage is over because without that basis you are not going to allow it and I know that you want to look, you want to snoop, you want to look around you and what is happening is that you have to come to a point , if you want to stay in the marriage, you have to get to the point where you don't feel like you have to do that to relax and be happy because you will always be searching and you will always be searching.

You both have a lot of time and history invested. This and it's not an easy decision, it's something you have to think about a lot, but you can't publicly undermine and shame your wife in the middle of all this, so the choice is really yours as to what you're going to choose. do to move forward and you will try to communicate with each other and decide if you are going to give up the behavior that is hurting your wife, it has to stop, there is no middle ground and the same applies to you, you have to decide, can you really trust on your husband again because if you can't and you will continue to feel like you have to dig, search and look, then you are not going to be happy.

I now have an aftercare specialist who is ready to talk to him. Two of you and I would love for you to talk to this person more because it's been 23 years, you've had beautiful children together and it's a difficult process, but it will take forgiveness and communication. , and I want you to talk to this specialist. about how they can move forward, good luck to both of them, I think their verdict was excellent, I agree with it 100 and it's been 23 years and we have a lot to work on I still think the verdict was fair, uh, she doesn't let.

I go out a lot, I want to, I wanted to go out, but it's been a long road and 20 years is a long time, so there's a lot of things that I think weren't said, I just need to do better when it comes to some of my things. Things from social media and I realize what I have at home.