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Friday Saturday. Then Uwe proposed to me. So I said yes. So I thought, well, well, now we have... I don't drink much alcohol, but we had two or three Ramazzotti. We'll see. Then he came to the store on Monday and said, "I was at the registry office, there was an appointment available." I mean, he was serious about the answer, but he didn't know it would happen so quickly. And if. After another week we were officially engaged. And after one... after 14 days... - Four weeks in total. After 14 days we also attended an Indian wedding. So a wedding ceremony because I was connected to India, also through my work.

Then we enter into that ritual connection. And then we got married in July. And if you look at it like this now, you described that night 40 years ago or when, on the first floor. Everything was already there. And then, after many, many years, they got together. Do you say, “Luckily,” or do you sometimes think, what wonderful years before we could have had? - We see things differently. I don't do it because I think it's important to live every day. And I'm experiencing exactly what... So what I'm experiencing now... I've been experiencing ever since. And that's really enough for me.

Because I live it. - Hmm. But do you think otherwise? Yes, and I have to say it very clearly, not in a way of regret. So “if we had it, it would be different.” Because that wouldn't be fair to my life. Because that was wonderful. But sometimes I was very sad because it was very beautiful. And this beauty would have lasted longer if we had started earlier. Not in relation to that... to my first marriage, which... Well, what we have now seems extraordinary to me. Still, it was good. And that he has a... Well, I also know the mother of his son well.

That was good too. But sometimes I think that this... this... this feeling might have been nice for a few more years. What does this relationship give you? How would you express it in words? So it's definitely good for me. Now when I say "everything" it's a big word, but to me it means family. Because I don't have it that way. On the one hand, he is actually a very good friend. And home. Native city. Exactly. - Home, definitely. Let's go back to what Mr. Jung said. And a place to feel absolutely good. MMM yes. What does love give you?

How comfortable do you feel in this relationship? Then, of course, love gives me everything. And there is actually a mystical term for me. Because maybe I can explain it like this... The moment I saw her for the second time, I had this crazy love... I had this feeling of love right away. And that's how I feel about her, right? We're glad you found each other. And of course, we're fine that the "night coffee" played a small role in this. - Yes. Still my best wishes. Patricia and Uwe Wehrle. Finally... Finally, one more thing. We have already hinted at it, Mr.

Jung. Today we talk about loving relationships, what they give us, but also what it means to let go of love. Two years ago you found your true love. You are an expert. But we have already talked about this sadness here. How are you today? I'm fine today. Two years ago there was also a lot of pain in this program, there is no doubt about that, because we loved each other deeply and it was a mature love. And a miracle happened. During Christmas and New Year's I met a woman who was a widow like me and she was the same age.

We both as a couple knew each other and also valued our deceased partners. The deceased partner has been saved. He could cry with happiness. - Oh it's good. "Love..." "Love and let love." All the best to you. We are all looking forward to it. Miro... We are very happy with you. Thank you very much, Mr. Jung. Thank you very much to all our guests. Again, thank you very much. And...we...will see each other again in a week. Then with the theme: “My body – friend and enemy.” You can also listen to our podcast “Nachtcafé” “The Real Life”.

See you next friday. In your "night coffee." Goodbye and thanks again. Thank you. ROE 2023