Kidnapped brides in Kyrgyzstan | DW Documentary

It happens in Kyrgyzstan once every 40 minutes a woman is

kidnapped

and taken to a man who wants to marry her, often she doesn't even know him. Tamira Rhinebeck OVA herself experienced forced marriage at the age of 18. Damira then managed to escape. She is a. Women's few rights do not count for much in Kyrgyzstan, but Damira will not give up her fight, she continues to help women trying to get out of forced marriages and she does so despite much opposition from local residents and she may hit me , I'm always doing damira Rama Cova travels a lot around Kyrgyzstan she lives near the huge fresh lake about 300 kilometers east of the capital of Kyrgyzstan, Bishkek, from here it is only 150 kilometers to the border with China today the dinar is moving towards a new one at home she is also a victim of forced marriage her name is Erica Chu dinara just left her husband with the mirrors help dinara will live here with her four children there is no bathroom or kitchen this is the only source of heat dinara stayed with her husband for 14 years until she found the courage to leave.

I will continue vfn digging game. I wish I could. It happened in winter. Some men were passing by on a sleigh and asked me if I wanted a ride and I said no, thank you. I'm almost home. Griezmann Iggy a little later two men grabbed me over a sheepskin and took me away Daniela we arrived at a house and they kept me in an empty room there were always people around I was never alone for ten days they didn't even let me use the bathroom alone They didn't want me to run away and my parents didn't want me to come back, they couldn't afford to come look for me, so I stayed, mom, dad, and I said firmly, Nelson.

Suddenly, the husband with money appears, someone in town, they told him, he's very angry, I turn off that camera. but damira doesn't let herself be intimidated around the children's father you should take better care of them it's her fault she doesn't want to live at home she moved out and got a job which she misunderstood me uh cinema hmm no joke your wife doesn't drink and she found a job for keep her children you hit her i will call the police and go to court we have a video that shows how badly you treat your wife and your children dinara does not say a word she is afraid her husband has hit her many times but she stands by her decision to leave him living as a single mother in Kyrgyzstan, Dinara is encouraged to sleep at her sister's house as a precaution.

He was not one of the nicest guys. Here, take my number. That way you can call me in case he gets violent. Do you remember that the next day, Damira? Do many young women who have been

kidnapped

and forced into marriage visit a local cemetery? then they commit suicide there are no official figures what is another clue that you have come in many cases the girls who have been kidnapped see suicide as their only way out is as a form of protest that is why our aid agency focuses on this problem we have even brought the situation to the attention of the United Nations this is not a cultural tradition it is a violation of human rights for those vain goals there in the senior model maybe already ago damira also provides support to my ram she lives in the town of tube She is 23 years old, she has a one-year-old daughter and she doesn't want us to show our faces.

Few women dare to speak openly about their experiences. My Ram 2 was kidnapped and forced to marry the practice known as lock achoo in Kyrgyzstan means taking a young woman and she ran away like so many other women in Kyrgyzstan, my RAM had absolutely nothing to say about it, yes she really was. I worked as a seamstress in a nearby town and of course I didn't know this man, but we met approximately twice. The third time we met, he kidnapped me while I was in Oklahoma, he was 14 years older than me, everyone here knows that men kidnap their future wives, that's how it is.

I used to think that was normal and that's how I would start a family that isn't my own. man, but I couldn't do it right, we have to polish some rules, damira is visiting my ram and other women who suffered a similar fate, but they must be careful in Kyrgyzstan, this type of kidnapping is considered a traditional right of man. although it is officially illegal, but the ban has little effect here in the rural caucus Tom, when we exist with a social policy instigated, we have to help you. I find a better job so she can support her children.

Find him a good apartment. That is important. Marvelous. Jill was also bothering them because you know I bring your documents on Monday or Tuesday. Then at least we can try to request support for your children. Those different opinions since the collapse of the Soviet Union. Islam has regained an important role in Kyrgyzstan. most couples now choose to marry with an imam, not in a registry office. Damira visits the young regional in a minute understands that it is alleged I am looking a little during a discussion in the mosque the imam insists that he does not perform marriage ceremonies involving, but at the same time he is expected to observe local customs.

Hyundai will sit with us and with the whole group, so I look, I will bite a little bit there again. There is a new law in Kyrgyzstan that makes it illegal to kidnap minors for marriage. Mom, bye, shoes and mom, naked mom, Nick, so you should know that your mom would give her consent to such a marriage. Another setup is that she needed help, but if she does, she has committed a crime according to Islamic law in the south. Baby. All the imams of Kyrgyzstan know this, says the Quran. a psychotic person like the one who is not worldly, but this law does nothing to protect women over 18 during this interview, several men enter the mosque and order a mirror to be removed.

She's not exactly popular around here because of our opposition to forced marriages. many local men think that women should remain silent and submissive the mirror has heard such conversations for years no one has reported a single case of kidnapping in this region she is not surprised what the Tapani Manya kissed on the lips the girls are Raised to be obedient and pleasant, they have to do all kinds of jobs for their husbands and families. Elimination is instilled in them from an early age. Yes, a beautiful gift that otaku love and helps explain why women who have been kidnapped don't.

They make them flee due to a lateness factor from Astana Toyota. You can govern things so that the kidnapping continues even though it is illegal. Damira was supposed to interview a police officer about the subject but at the last minute the officer's supervisor canceled the interview. and in those rare cases when a kidnapping is reported, the police almost never take action against them, it is simply a tradition, therefore in a serious rape, the victims basically never go to the police. I need a country with you, it's a gillip bhagavad and when it comes to bride kidnapping, families tend to work things out. between them love would get the role of Nigella, but I will say that it wouldn't be too expensive for them to go to court.

The words I want to say, but the biggest problem is that parents often do nothing to help their kidnapped daughters, it is considered disreputable for a woman to spend a night away from her parents' house, no man would consider then marry her and often the parents don't even want their daughter back. The almost 300 Italian universities do not do this. Her parents don't come for her or come for her and tell her daughter that she has to stay because this is where the imam is and where the wedding will take place. this is musa magnet brianna kia.

The tragedy said in this way that she has to marry the man and the young woman does not have a choice when you visit her like one night, where can she escape to Nebojsa? Anna is afraid and she stays three nights between Chavalla's trilogy shortly after and then she cannot leave because that would disgrace her as a married woman. Animals choose to miss voting days. and being judged by a mouse over Olive Amazon after yatza here damira is shopping for groceries at a local market and is talking to the men about the pickle kidnapping issue, it's illegal there basically violates women's rights.

I'll buy it, but usually men say. They will also kidnap your girlfriend Every year fifteen thousand women are kidnapped and forced to marry in Kyrgyzstan and that is only the official figure you need