3 Ways to Show Extreme Confidence When You Speak in Public

This is the best method to present yourself with absolute

confidence

in front of any audience and guess what you can start applying it within the next 10 minutes after finishing this video, so I am going to lay out the three steps that Hollywood stars follow

when

Giving a step forward to

public

speak

ing, these three steps will be your next steps, whether you are talking to friends or strangers giving a presentation in class or gathering your work team and stay until the end because I have two. bonuses for you that will boost the concepts you're going to learn today, so here's the lowdown.

First, you need to connect with your friends before facing the audience now to give you the scoop. Watch this clip of Robert Downey Jr and pay. attention to what he does after winning the Robert Downey Jr Award, the opening, connecting with his group before the audience helps him get rid of that IAL stage fright, we all feel it warms him up and makes him strut confidently from the door, watch as Robert first yells at his wife, then looks at their table and vibes with them, it's a power move that

show

s that his group comes first, he's not there to please everyone or worry about what's happening.

Think about him, he is there for his friends and that is why he gives them accessories. You can first watch Vibe himself with Tian Murphy after winning the BAFTA for best actor for Oppenheimer, so if you're about to

speak

in

public

and have your team with you, make sure you interact with them before diving into your Spiel. give them a hug, shake their hand, smile at them or whatever feels natural to get you in the zone, this will put you in the right headspace and you'll flow better

when

you start talking if you don't have friends around.

Identify people in the audience you can talk to before you go on stage. It's easy to start a conversation because you both have something in common. They are both at the same event. The key here is to have at least a little bit of interaction so you don't go up on the frozen stage, a little

confidence

before the

show

works wonders for your performance now if you're getting ready to do a presentation and you have no idea how to win over people. people. This is my top tip: start using your hands when you talk hands play a leading role in projecting confidence they are the first thing our brain registers when we talk to someone new showing your hands signals that you have nothing to hide e.g. look Celan's body language in this clip is showing nerves, but look at the confidence he exudes when he uses his hands to mention his coworkers.

I want to thank Adam Schwweiter David Weber Craig Banky Tom Reed Luke hson to all the Julies who are the best at I want to thank my fellow nominees and Friends that was a rhyme if you're shy start with your hands and watch your confidence grow little by little, and if you want to take your sleight of hand to a higher level, be sure to gesture along with every interesting point you find. Check out this clip of Robert sharing an anecdote about Merill Streep. Merill Streep came over and I wasn't scared, but I felt like I was talking to her and feeling the consistency of the shoulder of her dress, like I was downloading data from her because it was a moment.

Oh, there you are, oh yes, you really are, eh, my God, yes, if you're talking about playing the guitar, imitate playing the guitar with your hands, if you're talking about running, you make a gesture like you're running, you The results will surprise you. Get started by simply making this small change so that you have the warm-up and confidence game now. How can you start things off right? If she watched the Oscars, she would have noticed that none of the winners begin their speeches by introducing themselves or thanking them. To all for the opportunity. The same applies to you if the protocol does not require it.

Never start with a thank you. Ask yourself how can I capture my audience's attention. Robert is a professional at this. Check it out, yeah yeah I took a beta blocker so here goes. To put it very simply, I think Bob Ryan Charles and Mark would join me in welcoming Sterling K to the mix. Another challenger has entered the octagon. Because I? Because right now? Why do things seem to go my way? You can start your speech with a famous quote throw in a thought-provoking question drop a mind-blowing statistic or share a personal story related to your main topic the key is to continue to capture your audience's attention at all times when you are presenting make sure to stick to developing just three ideas no Don't fall into the trap of thinking that the more information you provide, the more interesting you will be.

In fact, it is the opposite. According to Harvard University, people tend to remember only 3 to 5 ideas in a 30-minute presentation; It is better that you remember them. a little to forget a lot, take a sheet of paper and write down your three strongest, most attractive or most sellable arguments and continue talking about them and when it comes time to conclude, make sure your audience knows it. I like to use a line like and finally i' like and deliver the final message. I'll leave two of my favorite TED Talks in the description for you to use as guides.

Now let's delve into two bonuses that will get the best out of you when you speak in public. First, stop stressing about impressing. For them, what they will value most is how comfortable you feel in the spotlight, if you try too hard to project something you are not, your discomfort will be obvious and you will convey it to the audience because emotions are contagious, in other words, no Don't try to be very serious if you're not and don't try to be funny if you're not. Watch as Selan Robert and Emily Blunt introduce themselves and greet the interviewer.

Everyone does it differently depending on their personalities. Killian is an introvert, so he keeps his movements subtle, straight to the point, stands tall, makes eye contact, and smiles slightly. Emily, much warmer, reaches out for a hug and keeps that smile, and Robert, who is the more outgoing one, busts out some dance moves. Hug and play with the crowd, all three present themselves appropriately and feel genuine, that's what you're looking for, just call your friends or family and ask them what they like most about your personality, the more comments the better, so focus on those strengths for Robert.

The example is great for making jokes, especially about yourself. Chris Nolan suggested I try a low-key approach as a last-ditch effort to perhaps resurrect my waning credibility, and Killian prefers to step out of the spotlight and shed light on others. I don't really like to talk. about me, so I'm going to talk about other people, if it's okay with you, find the qualities that make you seem genuine and highlight them in your speech. This is so important that one of the modules of my Super Conversations course focuses exclusively on helping. My clients develop a charming personality that highlights their strengths and vulnerabilities to connect with people.

Now move on to the next bonus that has to do with your image. Your image is key when it comes to public speaking. People judge you by how you dress, especially if you are in the center of attention, depending on the formality of the event, you may not need to wear a suit, but it is al

ways

crucial to look clean, elegant and professional or, if you are simply dating interesting people or friends you want to impress, wear your best dress to impress. As the saying goes, when you look good, you feel good, the secret is to strike a balance between feeling comfortable and dressing a little over the top, and a quick and easy way to do this is with the colors you choose, the colors They say a lot about your personality if you want to project Authority and power choose black if you want to convey credibility choose brown if you are looking for peace and Tranquility White is your color if you want to look more sophisticated choose gray and if you are looking to highlight your professionalism prioritize blue here you can see Robert wearing a gray jacket and a black shirt Authority and serenity and here he is with a blue jacket and a pink shirt the blue radiates confidence and pink gentleness now the balls in your court choose the emotion you want to convey with your presentation choose the color that best suits and you will conquer your audience now that you know these three steps and the bonuses here is the most important part the preparation remember public speaking is a skill and practice is the mother of all skills, I hope you can I love it this video, remember that you are amazing, see you in the next one.