Marriage without parent's approval Ft Nasboi | Honest Bunch Podcast - S3Ep5

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marriage

now if we go by the definition if we also review our law Union between a man and a woman two consensus those who are observing outside Nigeria their own definition two consenting adults, man and woman, but there are many things that come into play in this, so in Nigeria, for example, they have the committee of friends your friends will go and bring the details I said I didn't get up you can't get Ashley that's the clothes the material where we said the ABI the family in an epic in fact some weddings now you don't have to consider them wear a suit, the people who will collect the money for you are already waiting, those of us who cook and make sure you eat, already waiting, those who are planning your own wedding, by yourself, so you'll just be present there one day, but there's a lot to go into. planning before the main day and some people say that if you do it without the blessing of your family, say redo it, not in all cases, but in most cases, so today we ask you a very Important: Will you continue with a union that is a

marriage

if your family says a resounding no, they said no, no, no, no, they simply said, you said no, you ask reasons, they give you reasons and they tell you no, you will proceed and what their reason is, and they know that the family knows it. better, oh, family knows better, so my mother and father just wake up.

I said this guy, I don't want you to marry him, yeah, okay, I'm going to say, okay, mommy, no, okay, let's give a scenario, for example, okay, okay, not normally. family without father mother who just tells you no without a reason it could be in our right and in our place in the past if you want to get married and address it in English that means you go to different options about that person the family the background so you can't just wake up and say I don't want you to my person he is tall or he shot or his father says there must be a reason why I said what is his reason whatever the reason whatever the reason is will you move on?

The only thing that can keep me from marrying someone is if he's a murderer, he's fine, so you know what, let's use, let's use an example. Now there was an incident that um went viral on social media, although you know there weren't too many details about it so you couldn't see exactly which popular blog shared the information and the idea was that you knew the person involved in an popular Nigerian DJ according to the The story that the family is against him marrying a particular lady, it can now be seen from the comments that many people shared that perhaps they received news from someone who is considered as a spiritual guide to the family, for example, let's say.

Maybe you know a pastor or a religious leader, someone will respect the person you say more than wait to see this, don't keep waiting, you see, I'm waiting for us, thank you from family to spiritual guide, family, so yeah, what, for example, like in the The middleman likes your research and I know you are in parts of Igbo land because of the OSU caste system. Some people say that this person comes from a long line of people who are considered to know some kind of way in our society and we are not. I don't want you to do anything with that person maybe when you love the person and you feel that this person is compatible for your family your family for your family God look at the long line call Luke say you know with interest in everything you know Go to walk, you know?

Will they take this too far? The real fact, let's get it down. Not you, boy. Mina, baby, you can't. I'm going to meet your mom. Your mom. Look me in the eyes first and you don't like me because it happens. You can just not. Like me, I greet them, she looked at me with contempt and every day I try to impress her and she see that she doesn't like me Baba, don't marry you, so not liking someone, does it really make the person a bad person? person? Don't know. If you can't convince your mom that she likes me, there must be a reason why she doesn't like the man, marriage is not right, it's not today, I won't marry you, you gave me, this is another direction, right? right?, this is not the real address. so this particular time, if you know, marry me, I don't know what I'll do with you because no one is me to do it with you, nor my mom, for any reason, so when I do it, she won't give me a big hit on my head , you understand why I make a joke about marrying a new girl, my mom is Delta, Robo, precisely, yes, so it didn't hit me too much, you understand, but now I turned 30.

I wait for her if the girl is not a Marine. I will go ahead with the marriage because because I love this person my mother does not live her life, you understand and I am going to live my life may God forgive me my mother can die at any moment immediately after she does not leave Mercy, she will 80 ago. she is 70 she is 90. I am moving on with my marriage and my life, you understand what happened now if you really force me not to marry this good evil woman, come make me go find a stupid Yoruba game, understand the context that people don't have it.

Stupid, make me leave the good and bad woman because she says she won't make me marry a Yoruba person. I can't break up with this stupid Yoruba person. You understand that our marriage is no joke now. I mean, don't wait. I see this woman now. where I won't settle don't be my mom you understand if I don't see happiness here my mom knows this person now I'm going to live with the person you understand so I don't mind waiting my mother thinks everything my owner go meet my mom say mommy and the person I won't marry me so you understand you don't raise a child and I mean you raise if you believe you say you don't raise me right you assume you believe in me you say I guess there's no waiting I'm going to choose , but sometimes, uh, um, I'm going to try not to talk too much, but I think sometimes they give you that chance to talk, say, wait, old man, sit down C, if you like me, young people don't.

I don't understand, I have arguments with my mother, right, my mother is my mother, she is in, she is not old, she is 50 50 exactly my mother's perception of life was totally different for me, but I am not 30 years old for this age, but I feel that I say I have more experiences than my mother you understand that it is not a crime nothing said because person you know figures experiences if I give you money do not give my money to the shepherds because that is what you know how to do you always understand No, I am not saying that God is not God, it is not his religion, it will be seen every time I give you money, there is a pastor to whom you are going to give money for something, you can't pray according to people, right?

Please God mommy you can't pay offering in church you can't pay your tithes you can't praise God as praise to God stop sharing the money I give you to pastors all the time all in the name of trying to pray for you for something trying how many people give you and give money to Jesus to pray for them understand these things but I understand what they say God I understand what religion is I understand that I can pray to my my God I understand that I I can pay my tithes I feel paid by offering I don't need pass the same thing to two hundred thousand one hundred thousand yes, that's what my mother does even when I sit down with my mother and explain these things to her, do you know what she says?

It will be a small choice, you understand and guess what she is the one who is wrong, she is the one I insist that she is the one who is wrong, she does not need to give money to a man of God to pray for the different, oh yes, in the extent possible. since I agree with that point that she doesn't need to give money to any person to pray for us, but then I'm not saying, I'm not saying, don't give money to pastors, that's not what I'm saying, but my mother . is that person that if you tell him that you have to buy this makes you pray for your choice you know that my mother is dead this is what I think we must establish that, as you have explained, you have lived a certain The age in which your mother did not was able to live her life experience is the difference, definitely, the difference, definitely, but I think it's important that we all agree that everything mom does and everything you do comes from a place of love.

I know I'm far away. I'm aware, so my point is that because of this place of love where you come from, you understand that our mothers make mistakes, but you feel that no one agrees, you understand, you don't say This thing called Love, they make people very vulnerable , you understand, you go, you are going to do anything, so if you tell you, now say that my mother, another kind person died, you understand that you need to buy something good and cow, make us pray that you pick it up, so, personally , I feel like saying that she doesn't even believe in God himself, um, I have died in the mouths of men of God, I'm sorry sir, okay, okay, so we already know that our

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s, African

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s, are used to this particular thing, they always try to get involved in our personal lives, yeah, that's totally it. okay but when now they tell me oh don't marry this particular person I need to know your reason what is the reason good reason I need to know your reasons sorry I'm still talking sorry I know you' We're done if the reason is good oh okay , this particular person, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, and she is showing me that I am seeing evidence, okay, I will back up a little bit and if the reason is because some pastor told you that an Imam told him. you who oh you can't get married I can't marry this person a spiritual father told you that you can't marry this person because they said your lives are not compatible blah blah blah blah, I won't do it, I will marry that person until Now as I love the person and I also know that these African parents what they do if you go ahead with the marriage will make your life difficult in a situation where you love me and want to spend the rest of your life with me. and your mother doesn't like an entrepreneur hey CI, sorry hey, no, no, no, that's the efficient one, excuse me, your parents, they punish, then they see that things really happen online, thenThey say they get divorced, this, this device, ah, celebrities, it's not like I said it all. the moment like marriage is with the Internet where people got divorced there are not many come to marriages we still they come from ourselves how many marriages how many people get divorced they don't get divorced they do we still return go to our house move to our task because she says people from your house lost my house so i wanted to say something about this sorry for the question.questions I know someone who didn't get married because of her graduation in her area people didn't really like her for some reason Maybe she doesn't greet them or they just feel like she's family.

I'm going to go in there now. um, the people who wanted to marry her came and asked about her unfortunately, the person they asked now her person will only be carrying that gift, to keep in mind, she gave the guys a seat and it was over. God bless you. Now let me get in there, beg newbie because When I said Idrisa is from my own place, I exactly mean something in the US age. You don't ask your friends, you don't ask Interesting Neighbors in the Village complex compound. God bless you, don't even ask those wives and cousins ​​in the Village. those are not the people you saw, you go with the elders, keep in mind that you are not asking about that girl, yes, families have bad eggs, what if you are going to marry the bad eggs, especially the person with the What do you want to get married is the bad egg?

I want to say something. I'm trying really hard not to get into personal stories and experiences. Something like this was filmed. They tell me: "Tell me, if I'm going to get married, you know, at the University on Saturday, if I'm going to get married." I will kill your mother. I'm like starting where she talks in her own space, she's probably right, maybe experiences or maybe her own mother or maybe her sister or something you understand, but to me he didn't end the relationship. They had. Imagined alone with the wife, you go home, but the truth is that people really have these conversations.

People say they can never marry someone who is their first child. Some actually say they can't marry someone who may not be a college student. graduate who does not have a master's degree everyone with their reservation as I said the main issue is me and you do not agree so we will not marry Mike I and you do not agree with one Maria I know I and you I conquer you are going home why Do you understand what happens if your mom can't give you a very good, very strong one, you know what, so I'm waiting for examples, I still never get them, let's talk now about what you consider valid, for example, if your butt you liked this now I should say so that the person does not meet your requirements, for example, maybe you have a genotype.

You will be at peace, foreigner because I think she had a younger brother if she was right then the wildlife, you say the boy married a person or something, maybe one of her brothers got married so the person knew they allowed him understand anyone, so I feel like there's a story for that, okay, so we have a problem, okay, so I now I now now I will be your son, yeah. You listen to me it's not about the evil woman it's about the woman I feel bad I feel married Yoruba woman I let you enter my house our parents need to understand many things so with this smarter than our parents I'm sorry you understand normal thing that We don't know how to understand say mommy is not the person not to be evil I remember when I was during the day in Abuja um well, it doesn't matter Ruth for church why do they go to church why do they go when you did choir, why are they quiet?

You know, the cable. I was on cable at the time. I made the cable. So she comes from Gumby from Gumbi State. Mom gets something she should be doing for Abuja at the time so her and her Friend come now two of them for the ministry will be the job so they needed to do something to fix their retirement or something and I don't remember what it was exactly, but they can't stay at my house, so they can't drink. my house come finish you know before she comes before she comes my mother can't tell me say and where is she from ah not from Gumby's like the external person of my reception I have the most liberal father foreigner immediately Congo foreigner shouldn't say my password again, of course, of how many minutes of waiting a day they should not see.

I hope we have a mind of our own. Say you know she's not sure. My mom later comes over and starts asking me a question. Now you know. walks in the back you have talked, you try to talk to me based on the wait, she talks now and then you leave like two days later, where I can't remember that thing now where my pastor came to call me one day, he came to ask me, I said now for what depending on what you say which one couldn't say that she did the other arm of the church, my pastor can't meet the person where she's been dead, they did it for five years and the guy just got out of their relationship, ah, I see this one girl.

I just come from this relationship say no inogo let me like this wait now say no see let me come to that relationship say she needs at least a year to recover from the breakup I can't look I tell her please talk to my brother okay? I don't give Austin the expense of what's good for about six months, so I was like the healing for her and she came out, I'm sorry, can you come, can you come, I'm sorry, put your head on your shoulders, it was more of a rebound, but it got better. inside that day next Sunday I can't go to root house for girl don't change my name for her phone they are hell of treasure before you want to see idiots when I check her phone it has happened to me twice imagine from the beginning I had heard her Definitely No, no, he was a wonderful human being.

Get my point right six month relationship if it's a six month relationship and you come to me and say bro my guy don't date this girl before you understand and this girl and this girl now. this girl and this girl now I can understand, you get my point, this makes sense, there is an experience somewhere, yes you get it, because of CR this year you want to date, but I'm dating, not because they know someone who dated with her and Nido has said the backstory, you understand, I've been told that the reason she broke up with this man was because this man cheated on him, even that person must be considered, you understand what I'm saying because we know that they don't break up.

You usually understand what I'm saying, like I'm not saying I'm leaving the relationship. I'm not saying I'll leave the relationship, but to give me a reason to be important again, I should be bothered by this line because of the way you talk. so now this is what he talks about so you know what I'm saying because you heard what's the only thing we don't agree with pastors, who are you? My brother was saying that you didn't have a mind of your own, you understand. now this thing now now where do you connect this with other people where you look right now is the people when it is said that your pastor will tell you say this guy is not the man for you no, it is possible no, my pastor is a human being? my pastor's funeral not only like this girl many people at the top one at the top radio where we don't talk you know well don't bring up that topic when my pastor said I should say more than that person your pastor says person who hasn't said it yet done Tell me now, so my parents have told me something.

I'm not going to go into too much detail. Listen everyone. Listen. This does not mean this place. I'm about to mention that they have wonderful people there. In my opinion. Ovarian state. They have one. I have friends who are from Owerri who are beautiful, sensible people who are married and their relationship, their marriage is working perfectly well, but I remember my dad telling me, "Whatever you have, you have it now, there are some people who They will say, “ah people.” from aguata people from this part of anambra say they don't marry them but i guess forget this 50 times waiting on what you are about to see happen yes you know why you know he is trying to be nice but what? it is?

It is possible that, for example, when someone says, but what I am saying is, it is possible that because of this, when the person does not speak, your way of thinking and your approach towards them will start to change, you will influence some things. where you know they see before and it's like an accusation because he can't be, you can't tell, you can't start looking at everything, every place they come, they turn to me the way they've been, they talk and they leave . Go ahead with them is your task, but that's not what's in the back of your mind now, when that person comes to show character, remember she's on Netflix, now this girl understands that she's black or a dude.

I did it within the film. Sorry, she's black in London, something in London and then and the other girl, I mean this guy, this guy is white, um, I've forgotten his name, wonderful actor, you understand, yeah, the guy Jonah Jonah is white. , they both adapt and then love each other. he dies but this guy dad they give the guy hell so it was a problem now they both can't say even I didn't say our parents don't let this work now where am I going with this? He now goes to his parents whenever. He said think about the well being of your children and your well being for Forefront now after you realize say then you were wrong now the two parents can't come together I can't say look at us these people love themselves now most Nigerian parents I will never agree that they are wrong, never, ever, so there are some situations, yes, some things that happened where I didn't like you, maybe now we became very close, maybe five years later and I start to say ah , when?

I saw you first I didn't like you yes yes it happens no some mothers who once they see that girl say I like it I don't like this girl you don't live with them you have stayed with her forever oh about something however, if the family makes a normal person, eh, look, I'm not saying, I'm not saying, I will 100 accept what my mom says, but I will accept what my mom says, I will, it's like every prophecy, no, no, it's like every prophecy that I das I'm not going to leave it in the background no, I'll put the avocado in my mind I'll do what I want to do but I'll do it I'll see what they think of none of us let me help you with an example, yes, let me say that it's not really an example, but my way of thinking if I follow the man, come into the house, mom, know like me, I'm not just thinking about us living as husband and wife, God forbid anything happens, delivery room. your heart, your husband, if something happened to that son, dad, go see hell because the family does not accept you from the first day, come down like you, that family goes, he goes with your son, I think this is happening to the ladies, I can't tell.

How many people have seen me or who have become rich in that way this happened to you now you will see where the problem is most of the time it is like a man who marries three wives if the house is scattered you are to blame now it is like the boy If you don't sit down protect the woman where you are married you are the problem exactly those guys you see most of the guys you don't marry the girl they say I'm going to listen to it my mother they talk about me they say I will be mommy's boy no, my mom Loves Me.

I love my mom. It doesn't mean you can come to my house and control my house. You won't do that. I married my wife. I am the Lord of my house. I will protect my wife. I will protect my family. but when most guys fail now I say your mom will come to your house your mom leaves they talk trash about your wife in front of you you're not going to talk it's not cheap he's not going to do anything right so let's settle, let's settle , I think First of all, we agree. Some people's personal opinion may come from a biased place.

She has given us the example of someone who tells you: "Oh, you know that when we met I didn't like you?" There are people who say that. Initially I used to think that you were arrogant or that you were a snob or that you were just getting to know yourself, so it's important to note that you can't come to that conclusion if you don't know the person at least on a personal level to be able to judge the number. two that's why I said something that's why I said something about experiences yes, for example, my dad and my mom their age not their age my age not my age level of exposure level of understanding of everything that they are different now what he has insisted is the the fact that you tell me you say that you are not like the person let me go live with this person now give me a reason there is some reason there is some reason that can make me leave me can I make you look at someone who does and say no it's not going to be so easy so easy but what are the reasons I swear because if I don't love a woman like that now my personal thing no one fixed me ah foreigner unless it's bad for me to say you and my girlfriend in your circle you understand it, but if I grow up it's possible that I can't introduce it to my friend and then, over time, we run the day, but you know, for school, for university, it didn't happen to me, so go ahead.

I this for the University this door does not choose for the University almost all of the concerts for the school the boys come to become Tech Guru come to make the University itself for the boy come to block each of them so that they do not talk to the boy don't even know how to say she dated the boy she contacted the boy with says ah before deleting says relationship don't delete until marriage ah I say no I pronounced marriage I say aunt then go beforethen clean go to the boy says in fact after the boy don't stress too much Senator Dubai, then go clean my boy, buy Moto and then go to Dubai now they can't come back from G from one or two G from hanging on the guy.

I can't know, say ah, almost everyone, we're supposed to go to the wedding. where they pass don't clean it again so this thing now this one time this particular instance this game every day this is a question for everyone I womanize around human eyes for a long time yes and finally we know the good blood of Jesus so I don't humanize for a long time and then suddenly sometimes I feel like seeing a womanizer uh I feel like sometimes she doesn't smoke in the Warriors or whatever so for me when you don't matter come to decide to settle, I can I'm not saying I want to settle for this game, so now she can't listen to my past. understand foreign the truth is the truth is that you see me as a DSO yes, I get a beep if the baby and I do the wrong things I can't figure out, okay, say Oh, this is how they approach me, don't clean up the foreign foreign baby because the truth is he doesn't get anything while they're hanging out with my boy where she goes, we're not going to remember.

I will answer your question. I'll let you know when to ask the question. Okay, wait, it will never be the same again. because every time there are not two foreigners of your friends like hundreds of people you don't know in my relationship in my relationship in my relationship I have never talked about the existence of the person because now I see that I imagine too much ask me then, how was it? Your last boyfriend is not immediate you yeah, okay, so, um, your last boyfriend, how was he? I hope you enjoyed the sex, okay, wait, I hope you had hope that this sex was good, yes, you can do it very exclusively, you compare me and your ex who?

No, come on honey, no, but people have these conversations, that's why we fight because I never want to talk about it, respect me, we can't be talking about it five years before we met you. I came out, ah no, I won't understand you. wait now five years before i met you i dated hm now i met you on a different platform we're dating maybe we've dated for two years and then somehow i know i'm like ah hm can't call me like i said they do i've been dead this guy I'll be honest with you let me be honest with you hm he's like my brother I swear I'll cancel that relationship you can't um Let me give an example now let me let me choose me it's not easy let me choose me then um I was dating this girl I was madly in love with the girl okay then they they think they loved me sometimes I was so in love with this girl you know what I'm saying because I when I loved I made life stupid for everyone so I was stupidly in love so that's when the phone went to a street maybe You could expect who won the sessions with the most sessions weights.

I'm going to tell the guy who said, "It's okay, baby." Okay, you know, yeah, let me finish the call and then shoot, so if you finish that call, yeah, if you finish this score about an hour before bed, she just said, I want to hear you breathe. I put on the vest. I almost used my caterpillar head, so she couldn't mention a guy, so don't clean up before and even the guys see the chat and the guys see the chat. I've met the guy twice. The law exists. I never finished the juice. One day we will do it. go to the movies go see the movie see the guy who got beat up hey what's up hulk to me?

I'll seem hopelessly in love with her oh I couldn't do anything so forget about this I guess I think the relationship can't continue is if It's not just about how they feel about it if for example from what they've seen , for all you know, any indication that could be harmful to you, you could talk to them seriously, but if not, just say: I don't like Yoruba for example I know evil people that I don't like, so you shouldn't do anything with them, it's a problem, one last line like I always tell people you understand, if you're smart, we didn't know ourselves, I feel like we know ourselves. you know how to say that you are moving you know how to say that you did it very smart you don't claim to be a brilliant person so I always tell people say these stupid people where are they among us today they are going to become parents that's all I have to see myself no I do Think about people, women are who your sons advise, so I think this is a good place, this is a good place to end and, as we mentioned from the beginning, life lessons, more things from the last when we say good boy, don't talk.

It's important to keep in mind that you know some people when, if you looked at them today, you could beg yourself. I think about content creators. um, not all opinions should influence your action, so number two, um, heads. Generations are different, yes, because your parents can be. They lived during the Civil War and they see some things from their personal experience or maybe when moving from one part of Nigeria to another they see some things that they cannot generalize about, maybe a group of people will come one day and force them to leave their Kids, it is your personal relationship with this person that would influence your actions, as long as it is good for you, you are happy, and you can handle this situation.

I also want to say something, this part is very, very important for the Igbo community uh. If you know, if you're from the eastern part of the country now, this is very, see you tomorrow, the OSU thing, now you want to marry someone, so what you can do is go and check like every US like both. They have said that they will go and find. I don't know that his family is an outcast. Now the only question I always ask is parents, if you are a father to your future father or if you will be a father tomorrow. now the question you should ask yourself these outcasts wouldn't they call people they call you okay I say outcasts and have you ever wondered why they became outcasts now?

Because I believe that most of our Traditions are born from the selfish interest of a person who will gain power. for example, the example is this tradition. I don't know if you see the bedroom. I think they still do it when they say that if the older brother dies, my younger brother will have a wife. Yes, they still do. I think in some places. I'm not sure I can't believe people now one person will get the power before we don't introduce that law in the promotion get that law you don't come here now your control say okay why this Emoji is not for get married, um, it may never happen again did you ask why the king killed them?

What did they understand? So I think we need to start asking questions. reason why they died okay if it happened that this happened the wait can happen now so if you marry their cousin they live in ibadan because they can marry from their father and mother side so They do not consider them cousins. I'm saying cousin brother this came on vacation those people have had three children they don't have to go back to the Village again they are still alive the important lesson is to forget what we are saying uh um now we are adults We know what is right and we know what is wrong regardless.

Me, on my own, thank God, someone told me. Oh, this is your cousin and he ended up there and nothing more happened than that, but all I'm saying is all I'm saying. is all I'm saying is if your mom I know some of you who are watching this are going through the center of the pattern that makes it normally special find out the reasons, especially parents, would it be the reason why we do it, but to Sometimes we also put it? in consideration wait, then they talk the most important thing if you are happy and can deal with the situation it is your decision to do the right thing you are going to live with the person spiritual parents wait wait spiritual parents the decision or choice is for two consenting adults always and when they can weather the storm and deal with that situation and not allow anyone to create problems for them.

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