10 Minutes For The Next 10 Years Of Your Life | Matthew McConaughey Motivation

I was in Australia for a year and for the first time I was completely alone. I was in a foreign place. I was forced into a great deal of introspection. Existential questions of you know who, what, where, when, why and how. I didn't have a crutch. I didn't have my car I didn't have a girlfriend I didn't have a job I didn't have money I didn't have my parents I didn't have any friends and I was lost in China trying to find a bit of a compass and an anchor and some strange things were happening to me and my relationships with some people. there where I was questioning my own sanity and that moment when I was asked to call someone mom and dad in my chaotic

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and anarchic brain that I was living in at that moment, that was the first hint of real clarity in the that I thought no, that's not open to discussion, all these other weird things that have been happening to me that I've been telling, oh, it must be a cultural thing. difference must be a cultural difference this was something I was culture my ass ben I don't care about the place time whatever that is non-negotiable for me so I said no and it was very clear and it gave me clarity, it gave me some identity and It was an obvious thing to deny, that really helped me with my sanity, something that was so clear to me that it was black and white.

I needed that at that time in my

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it's hard to find those things in life in general, don't trip over

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self. face it because it's going very well don't get nervous don't hug it and keep the pace because the uphill will be there in a minute and you will have to sweat and it will be difficult again it's also about not creating false trauma when it's not necessary and I see Many people do that and I too have fallen and am susceptible to it, drama will come. We all like pleasure over pain, but I think what we sometimes forget is that there is a greater pleasure that can come from going through pain if you go through the resistance and choose the resistance at the right times and push through it, you have a greater, more evolved pleasure on the other side of this look at the world for many of our young people. people live in we are all connected but no one is among us their world is huge they have more reach than any of us but they are more isolated than ever so it is inevitable human nature I bet you I feel it It sounds like myself, my spirit feels Well, I have three kids and a wife, but even I will have a different reaction if you give me a thumbs up for my comment or a thumbs down for the comment you post today that will survive. you are immortal it is permanent you and I are not permanent think about that comment before you click and what you post are you posting something today that you will be looking forward to seeing again? are you posting something today on

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life resume that will write your eulogy after you are gone, that will present you forever when you are gone, think about it, it can affect you and that is why many of our young people live in that world where their emotional feelings about themselves and their own identity is based on your reaction, reactions of strangers, some of them maybe didn't even read or care about what you were actually posting and didn't care about the intention and that can affect you, there is a responsibility to with that world. that millennials live in it, they need to edit and govern themselves with what they allow themselves to be out there, proverbially naked, they will like it.

I'm sure I'll share it with the world. I'll send it to a bunch of strangers and they'll come back to me and let me know who I am. Would I be sitting here right now talking to you about the life I have? I'm pretty sure he would have had some kind of enriched life. I felt satisfied and I felt joy in life if I had been doing something else, but at the same time, from those moments what I can really talk about is that I am brave. I remember things that were deadly in life and that I had reverence for fame. uh, money successful people and suddenly, while I still respected them, instead of looking at them all, they came down to eye level, the world was flat, I could see further, I could see wider, I could see more clearly, you need to have the courage to move forward and that doesn't mean you know that it's not always the most popular decisions to stop doing things just to get along or if you don't agree with them, they will be brave and courageous decisions that you can look in the mirror if it works and let's go, yes, I'm responsible and if they don't work, you go, yes, that's up to me, stop living in limbo, be smart, don't be stupid, don't sink into courage to take more risks, courage to feel uncomfortable with that. fame and being able to go I evolved my questions and I eliminated many things in my life that did not feed me, did not convert me and turned against the real me, I tried to eliminate them, we have to eliminate this thing, this habit that we have. we all have in society right now, which is, I stand up if I put you down, it's fake, there's no return, there's no return on investment in that, we love to analyze problems, well, start analyzing success, start look at and deconstruct your life, your choices, those people.

I'm hanging around in those places when things are going well when I feel like I've finally found a rhythm here and we don't get there by just analyzing our failures and when we're in a rut we should be confident enough to go well. Things are going well and I can't take this for granted. What am I doing? Oh, I prepared more. I had no stress. I mean, join in to get the green light. Start with the simplest. See, get ready for some little pleasures, kids, work, what you do today may matter tomorrow, you can be rewarded for if you do something really well today, you can be rewarded, you can get the green light for it later in life, now look at the definition of success.

We have especially in the United States put fame and money at the top of the ladder so you need to be successful and if you are successful you have your respective peers because you are famous because now you have more money. I have a complete redefinition of selfish, I'm all for selfish, it's also selfless, but it's about cheering yourself up, it's great to be kind to your future self and it's also the best thing for most people, no There is nothing wrong with pursuing the money I love. money there is nothing wrong with fame it is fickle it is famous it is a lover it is not a it is not a wife there is nothing wrong with pursuing it but then we get into this question what I want to be relevant to greatness is to pursue stay in the career commit to the chase to be a better self to be better families communities civilizations and people stay in the chase commit to the chase stay in the race continue to achieve in the pursuit of the unattainable and take steps so I want to evolve, but many times I will feel emotionally insignificant if I don't achieve something.

Sometimes it's good because it's good to achieve. It's good to set a goal. Get what we want. Go after other times. It's like you need to stay still or just stay still. your perpetual motion and move on, don't miss the process to ensure the pursuit of the result, don't let the result tell you, oh now I'm important at the same time, I got much better results when I was stuck the process when I wasn't so worried about the result when the best golfers shoot the best rounds when they tee off 18 thinking they are going to the

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tees someone has to tell them not to stay in the zone in the process and I found that you will get more results.

I fight against it sometimes, making sure to remind myself to stay in it because I can be results-oriented to the extent that I don't feel a sense of importance or real lineage of my identity if I don't. I don't achieve what I want to achieve and I find out later that maybe it wasn't what I needed to achieve anyway, but sometimes I need a measurement. I need to be more patient with myself moving forward. That's really not so. This is part of the process because there is another achievement in the future that you don't even know you are working towards, so take a break, you are in the process, stay in the process, value, values, make a sense of humor your default emotion and remember that you will have thousands of Crises in your life and most of them will never happen.