Meeting My Boyfriend's Parents and Family 101 | Brittany Daniel

Hello guys, welcome back to my channel. I'm Brittany Dan, how do I get the host excited. Thank you all very much, don't forget to subscribe and like this video. Don't enjoy it, but I want to talk to you. guys today about something I'm really an expert at growing up. I've had a lot of relationships, let's face it, and I've met a lot of fathers. It sounds really bad from my

parents

and one thing I've never done makes a bad impression so I want to give you parenting tips because the holidays are coming up around Thanksgiving and Christmas and you can invite them to dinner or just to hang out.

meeting

other people's

parents

for the first time. friend or

boyfriend

, so I definitely want to give you the tips and tricks that I use and that work every time.

Disclaimer, there are some crazy parents out there, however, if you use these tips, I think you'll be fine, let's jump right into it. Well, the first thing I do that always works is to smile and talk first, especially if you live in the south. If you're in the south, people's parents don't play when it comes to talking and what that means is saying hello. or greet someone first, especially when you enter someone else's house, where you enter someone else's space, you are the guest, so it is crucial, especially if you are dating a guy or girl in the south, to talk and be extremely friendly to everyone, so what I like to do the most is walk in with a big smile on my face and I like to just say hello to everyone, just do a general hello to everyone, you know, or you can just say hello if They are not as vocal as me.

I'm a social butterfly, I'm not that vocal, just smile and say hi to the whole room and then definitely go up to the mom and wait for her to introduce you, but smile and say hi and see if she hugs, not everyone hugs, but I I'll see if she comes to you then she comes to you and then you hug her, if not then whatever and I usually like to shake the father's hand out of respect and depending on the

family

he can hug too but usually if there is a man in the room. I like to shake their hands just out of respect, so no one gets ideas, believe me, people think it's crazy, so the most important thing is to talk to everyone and be extremely friendly and don't forget to smile.

The second tip that really works and this is just with anyone, even if you're just

meeting

friends or anything, it's a compliment, but make sure it's genuine, don't say you like someone's mom wig or their cooking, yeah you don't like it, don't be fake, just say oh my god, I love your outfit or oh your house is so beautiful, oh my god, you have a beautiful house and you get complements from people, that brings down this wall, they go to walk in and you're going to be like this distant person that goes from tip number one, you don't want to walk in with an attitude, you don't want to walk in with body language and arms crossed and all that, you want to make sure they know. that you are there to have fun, that you want to experience the holiday with them and get to know them as much as possible, so giving them a compliment just breaks that barrier, just show them that it's okay, you're not a threat.

There's no one else here for their ill will when you give a compliment and it's genuine because you can tell if a compliment is genuine or not, let's face it, it's someone, oh your shoes are cute, we really know if it's genuine, so just Give her a genuine compliment if you like her food if you like her shoes whatever oh she smells good your perfume smells amazing make sure you give her a genuine compliment and it always works the third tip is for those over 21. I learned this a little. Kinda the hard way, but don't drink unless you know the vibe, so I'm a turnip queen.

I like my wine. I like my little surf rock. You know, I like to have a good time, but some people's parents are very conservative about drinking alcohol. You'll be surprised to know that many adult children don't drink around their parents, they'll find out what your

boyfriend

or girlfriend or friends are doing, they'll make sure the parents are okay with you drinking and then when you do. if you choose to drink monitor, but if they are a

family

of turnips, then go ahead and climb, but make sure you don't get to slizzard, don't get too drunk, don't go too crazy, you want. make sure you keep your alcohol consumption to a minimum because remember it's a family function not the club unless they're that kind of family then you know do it accordingly but fill out the family seat how they care if if you're very conservative then I wouldn't take a sip because sometimes you know as you get older you become more tolerant, one minute you're fine and the next minute you're in facts that you just want to make sure of. that you are taking control of your alcohol, the fourth tip is to dress appropriately, you don't want anyone's mother or their Sinai family members to approach you or judge you for how you are dressed, even if you are a good person, then a girl who likes to wear her cell phone on her chest and her shorts.

I mean, it's Thanksgiving Christmas. I hope you don't wear shorts, but you know teachers aren't really the occasion to wear thigh-high boots, if you know what I mean, I'll keep going. that for the sexy time save it for the club save it for when you're with this family you want to dress well you want to dress a little conservative because you don't want to be judged from the beginning by your clothes without even getting to know you later if you've been dating for a while that and also make sure your social media is clean, like if you are very cheeky on social media and like to swear and everything you don't want people to find you right away put it on private even if it's just for the end of week even if it's just for the month or whatever make sure it's private so you can monitor who adds you on social media because they're going to look, they're going to judge, especially if you're a new girlfriend, especially if they're territorial with that one. person.

Most of your new boyfriend, people will check social media, so make sure you dress up. appropriately and you want to make sure you put your accounts on private if they're not, just so you don't worry about that initial judgment right away without them actually knowing who you are first, okay, so tip number five is something else in school high school don't be too much about the boy or girl, parents can be very territorial and it's seen as disrespectful now that I'm older on the outside, looking in when I did it before and now seeing it, but he goes to church, he says.

He thinks it's very disrespectful and you know you will have your private time, it's just not at that time, so don't go near him, it's okay to sit next to them, it's okay, but you don't want to sit on his lap. I don't want to be kissing in front of everyone like having your private time you have your private time and just being with the family like being his friend at that moment you are his girlfriend but be his friend more just have fun with everyone you don't want to focus only on him and you never know how their mother can certainly be very territorial especially mothers and sisters and sometimes fathers and brothers so you want to make sure they don't focus on that if you know what I mean they focus on you and in knowing yourself as a person instead of judging yourself because you're totally focused on that person because moms and dads will know what it was like for something small, something in tip number six is ​​a Also, this is so funny because I saw it on Instagram.

I forget what the boy's name is. He is very funny. He does all this love and hip hop stuff, but he mentioned his ex coming to Thanksgiving or Christmas dinner or just showing up in general. Do you ever feel threatened if that ex comes over, it's very hard not to, but you should always stay calm if you have a problem, tell him after Thanksgiving dinner or whatever environment there is around his family, it's not the time. to expose your attitude. What you want to do is keep it classy, ​​keep it cute, you don't have to talk to her, you can, if it was me, I would just say hello because you don't want to seem like you're threatened by that person and you don't want to make it seem like you know you don't know your place like their girlfriend you're their girlfriend you're their boyfriend if the ex shows up they're probably not very good with family and you just carry on That's right but you have to remember who you're with and then the other person doesn't so keep it classy keep it cute and keep it moving, but no, no, don't make a scene at Thanksgiving dinner.

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