Dating Expert Reacts to TODDY SMITH and NATALIE MARIDUENA

Do it, you say honey, kinda good, hello, my name is Anthony Rossano. I am a social and relationship coach. You're probably asking the question with the hills load trainer. Well, guess what. I get that question a million times a day on YouTube. I put it in the comments for you, but today we're going to react to Todd and not Alina and her relationship, or it's Sunny's really catchy accident, but you'll never want to kiss me. Now it is very common for boys and girls to go out, be friends and hug each other. with each other and it's not romantic, it doesn't turn into a relationship, it doesn't even turn into a sexual relationship, this is something that happens when you feel comfortable with the opposite sex, it's not strange to approach them intimate way. with them hugging them, hugging them and not flirting with them, sometimes you spend a drunken night together and end up hanging out, you wake up the next morning and say it was fun, but we never have to do that again. then just stay friends again, that's completely fine, in fact it's honestly so much better than seeing women or women seeing men as completely different species, aliens to you, seeing sex as this huge thing like, oh my god, are we going out?

We are going to marry me. It is much better for men and women to see friends and

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is very similar. This is how relationships begin. Two friends who spend a lot of time together. They know each other so much. like each other so much and eventually they could get a little frisky that it could become casual, they could end up being friends, who knows, and that could end up turning into a relationship in the future because there is a disconnect between men and women who see each other. They are so different from each other that it is difficult for men and women to become friends with each other, real friendships with each other because they always have to do with some type of relationship that goes directly after that, an intimate, exclusive relationship, that goes directly after that, but mature people. who are emotionally mature know that they could strike up a friendship and maybe even flirt and it's okay to not need it to go beyond that and the funny thing is that often happens when you allow it to be a very casual friendship in The beginning is when you don't concentrate both in the possibilities of the future.

Now back to Todd and Natalie. Why can Todd make a video like this? Because Todd is friends with Natalie, they know each other and text each other all the time. The moment you hug each other when you go out together doesn't mean you have to be in a serious relationship. They marry. They are exclusive. All those things. They could just know that we are two friends and that we like being together. They're lying on the couch together, so if Todd wants to make a fun "I'm In Love With You" music video and a song for Natalie, when he does that, there's already the context that those two are good friends, the context that those two really know each other. context of those two hugging each other, so when Natalie hears it, she won't say who is this weird guy who makes a song about me, she knows Todd is a joker, Todd is funny, he's my friend, he would do something like this and he is in love with me. he's attracted to me he wants to be with me I don't take it as if he's just a desperate guy because Todd doesn't create this disconnect between him and women.

Men who do create that disconnect have more trouble

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women. it creates that disconnection between men. You have more problems on dates when you keep things so casual, so relaxed, so friendly, but at the same time openly show your attraction, it never gets awkward, it never gets weird because you're not making it weird, that's why she. she could hear the song, she could laugh at it, she thinks she's cute, she thinks she's adorable and Todd could still act normal with Natalie saying yeah I'm in love with you whatever it's no big deal let's just cuddle there in the sofa, see?

It doesn't have to be awkward and that's where Todd is doing a pretty good job. You have feelings for Natalie. I got really drunk and texted Natalie at like three or four in the morning. I probably read these messages on my phone for a second hello, can I stay with you or not? You break my heart. Okay, you're the worst. I feel like I'm in that room I photographed in with you. Well, look at the reason why Todd can send those texts and everything is fine and Natalie will still like him. It's because Natalie knows that Todd isn't obsessed with Natalie.

Todd isn't going to go cry in a corner if Natalie says no, if Natalie really doesn't like him. Natalie knows that Todd isn't really desperate for her and that's why she communicates in text messages. When clients asked me what I should text her, what I should say, what I should say, it doesn't really matter, women know how you feel under text messages. The same goes for you, women, girls, guys, they know how you really feel underneath those text messages. so I don't care what you should text. I don't really like giving advice over text because in the end what really matters is how relaxed you are about this situation, how needy and desperate you are about the situation, no matter what you do. say no matter how you act, no matter what you send, people will know if you're cool if you're desperate and Natalie might feel for Todd that he really likes her, that he's in love with her, but he's not desperate.

This is what happens when two people are flirting with each other, they are friendly, they like each other and the interest in each other is open, they are able to flirt with each other, half seriously, half jokingly, because they are so comfortable with each other. the other that they can say it, they know that the other person won't judge them for it, so the reason they can flirt openly like this is because they already have this close friend dynamic where they playfully flirt with each other. another, you keep doing that, what could eventually happen is flirting, what do you say baby?

First of all, she totally said, babe. The fact of the matter is when you call someone, babe, that goes beyond friends and that shows that you guys are actually dating each other. they're actually more than just hookups your hands oh wow this is a double chocolate chip cookie I don't know take it cheers it's pretty obvious that Todd and Natalie his dad Ali are actually dating now they're in a relationship , now what? Does that really mean that they're going to be holding hands and getting married next year and everything will be so beautiful and they'll have kids and get a house?

Probably not these days dating and this is what everyone needs to realize, especially when they talk about celebrities and people on YouTube and their relationships, their dating is very different than what it was in the past today, it's not It is necessary to be in a relationship to simply be together. I really don't have to call him anything now, are you guys dating? What has been dating me for a long time? What did a date mean? Date each other now. Things are very different. Things start out as friends and then quietly become something. Any longer and it becomes amorphous, you can't really see where it started and where it ends, so to really call something dating, are they dating in the general sense?

Yes, they are dating, but are they in any official relationship that they are going to be in? Make it Facebook official, kind of thing, no, it doesn't seem like there are two friends who really liked each other, they were hugging each other, they were spending a lot of time together, they were getting physical, that physicality turned into intimacy with them. With each other and dating, they spent more and more time together and now Natalie calls Todd baby, but that doesn't mean they'll hop on a horse and ride off into the sunset like the end of a bad season of The Bachelor. it just means that again there are two friends who like each other, are attracted to each other and like spending time together and like to flirt, that's all it needs to be, it doesn't need to be anything else now, what could? you learn from this because these videos.

I don't want to just talk about gossip here, I want to have practical advice that you can take from these things and what you can learn. They started out as friends and the friendship turned into harmless flirting. each other over and over again when guys and girls don't see each other as awkward they don't see each other as aliens like a completely different species you could get into relationships much easier because you can snuggle up on the couch and watch a movie with your friends together and it doesn't have to mean anything still wait a little bit to see what happens don't expect anything just look at it and appreciate it so it's a good friendship where two people have a harmless flirtation and maybe they hug a little bit and maybe who knows when randomly one night you could hook up you could kiss you could even hug a little what I want you to do is I don't want you to run away with your expectations when you meet someone and you like that person you just see it for what it is, it's a fun friendship in this moment and we're happy to flirt with each other, we're happy to tell each other that we're a little in love with each other and we don't have high expectations for, oh God.

God, she likes me, oh my God, she likes me, oh my God, are we going to have a relationship? She doesn't want to be in a relationship, he doesn't want to be in a relationship, just look at him as he is, there are two of them. people who like each other because in the end in a relationship that's all, they are two people who really like each other thanks for coming today thanks for stopping by here today I make these reaction videos quite frequently I also do analysis of famous people celebrities youtubers and explain why they are so charming.

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