Men Are Ridiculously Attracted to Women Who Have These 4 Habits

If I ask 100

women

if you want to be pursued by men, 99 of them will say no and the other will probably

have

misunderstood the question. However, if I rephrase the question and say like this, do you want to be chased? him, you meet the big attractive man that you really like a lot, the man that you want to be more affectionate with you, the man that you might want to hear say that you complete me well, then the answers may be different, let's be honest, some

women

find it I would love to be. pursued a little more by the attractive man they are dating or would love to date or by the increasingly disinterested guy they are in a relationship with, but although some of them don't know it, some of their behaviors can prevent it. from chasing her from chasing her from winning her love and her attention and everything else she has to offer so in this video we look at what not to do but also some attractive

habits

that women

have

that make men fight for her attention and that make men chase. them without having to play any games, of course, because they are not sustainable in a long-term relationship anyway and if you don't know me yet my name is I'm an author.

I also use the much more pronounceable pseudonym Brian Knox and First We Need to Talk About Dopamine. Seduction is directly related to dopamine and I think you knew how powerful dopamine is every time you feel the need to open Instagram or Tinder or continue browsing a social media app. do that, he's looking for something, he wants you to feel something, he wants you to achieve something Now, in the early stages of dating a guy, if he's

attracted

to you, then dopamine is going to play a huge role in his desire to get to know you better.

He wants to approach you to kiss you, etc., but don't make the mistake of thinking that dopamine will only play a role when it comes to dating or the early stages of a relationship because dopamine is still important even in a long relationship. long-term relationship if the effect of dopamine wears off, so will your attraction Helen Fisher, a great scientist, discovered that dopamine even plays a very important role when it comes to real and deep love, not just lust or infatuation So how can dopamine continue to play a role after a relationship? After a couple of weeks or months of dating or even a long-term relationship, let me give you a very simple example, let's say a woman buys nice lingerie, you know, those kinds of clothes that her boyfriend or husband really loves and Let's say she uses it. for him right before the magic happens, then that will probably work out great, but what if instead he saw her put on that lingerie in the morning before going to work?

He's not using it for himself so guess how focused he will be during his work day well let me tell you not much his mind will still wander he won't be able to get it out of his head thanks in part to dopamine that's how the mind works even during an important meeting even when your boss would give you a Lamborghini as your new company car your mind may go stupid car it's time to go home but I want to see her again and this is just an example of physical attraction but this also works for emotional attraction now here This is where

habits

come into play.

The studies that Helen Fisher also participated in also showed that to keep the initial flame alive we have to keep alive the habits that existed while we were dating, when attraction and when love began to grow and flirting is huge here and I'll talk about flirting later in the video. I'll even give you some examples because flirting can create that emotional attraction, but dopamine is about to chase us, we chase a certain feeling, now there are habits that women have that give them feelings. that he wants to chase, so feelings are important here, every time a guy chases you or your attention it's because he wants the feeling that it will give him.

Most of what we humans do has to do with feelings, we try to avoid bad feelings and get good feelings, so here are some examples of how you can make a man feel really good. Let's start with a weird one: Have you ever dated a guy and, even though you really liked him, there were things he did or didn't do that made you feel a little uncomfortable? frustrated, so, for example, you meet on a dating app, you match, the conversation starts but then he doesn't ask you out or you've been dating for a long time, you're ready for a relationship, but every time you mention it in some way way o Since he starts making those Matrix movies he moves the bullets out of Dodge, so this is where telling him what you want and need from him comes into play.

Now some women try to solve this by nagging why you never do it or threatening you if we don't start. a relationship soon then I'll be gone, yeah, well this never makes men crave your attention of course, but there's another form of demand without nagging, without nagging, but technically very powerful because it's a demand, it's just one without being needy, why not? Don't you invite me on a date or you don't like me that you would give all the power to? I think it's time for him to do and say why take me on a date of course or if he's too slow to call it a relationship we need to talk about what does my dating profile say, did it say I'm looking for a friend with benefits or B still figuring it out or C looking for a long term relationship?

You can get a lot of points if you do it right these are some silly examples of a fun way to communicate your standards and your needs and if he likes you then these will raise the bar and that challenge will make him feel really good, never forget that this makes him work for achieve it. It makes him feel good. This works because of the dopamine effect, but also because it is a combination of challenge and joy. Here's another one that shows your appreciation when he does something for you. Do you know how a man creates a deep bond with a woman?

Some women. I think that's achieved by sleeping together, but that's obviously not the case, otherwise one night stands would lead to a relationship we know they don't have. A deep bond is created when he not only does things for you, but also when he receives appreciation and respect. and return, so both are necessary to do things for you and then appreciate and respect in return. Now some women get it totally wrong: they're on a first date with a guy they really like and at the end of the date the guy offers to pay. and then they say no, no, we'll split it.

I don't need you to pay for me, of course not, but if you like him, let him do things for you and when he does, tell him you appreciate him. It's that simple, when a man likes you, he craves the importance of your respect, appreciation from you, and women who have a habit of giving that to their guy when he deserves it, will have a much deeper emotional connection. with our guide and the women. Whoever does not do this, the bond will grow, his love will grow, he will crave his attention and love much more and will work harder to be worth it thanks to dopamine.

Here's another good habit, usually when a woman just met a guy. she may want him but she doesn't need him, she was fine without him so if he is her type she can flirt with him a little but she still won't be serious with him and he will feel like she knows that she has the winner. Also, he has to make a good impression, he has to try hard and then he has to keep doing it, but sometimes after a couple of weeks of dating there is a change, at some point she can really fall in love with him and she can start dating. strive. in bigger and bigger efforts and little by little she goes from wanting him to needing him and with that her behavior can also change, she starts to do too much for him to make him happy, maybe she cancels certain hobbies and why she is canceling.

Hobbies, she can get a little needy because suddenly her whole life is built around him, so not only does he not have to put in the effort anymore, he can't, even if he wanted to, she's already doing it all, but It's an easy way to fix. that it is physically impossible to chase something that is chasing us, only one person can chase us at a time, so if you chase a guy all the time, he can't chase you of course, that's why it's so important to create enough space even In Allah long term relationship, how do you do so well?

Don't give up your hobbies and friends to begin with, but also do things that have nothing to do with him, it's when he doesn't get your attention because you're not around that he will start to crave. It's that he has the opportunity to miss you, never being in constant contact with a guy, another big habit is flirting and using playful jokes, that's often part of what creates this park at first, but then when the change of the What I just talked about, happens when you want it. If you need it, flirting is often dismissed, but teasing him a little creates that challenge and dopamine effect even in a long-term relationship and of course it's fun for both people.

Some simple examples are where you would send him a text message. serious question for you and then a little further down in the same message Sushi or pasta tonight or if a guy you met on a dating app would text you, so what do you think about this app? You reply I like it. I met some really interesting people. here and your smiling face or if a guy takes too long to respond to a text message even if he's already your boyfriend look, I knew it Beauty but I don't have a brain, I knew you were going to run out of interesting things to say and then a very important face Faces see that these are some fun ways to communicate and we often do it from the beginning, when we just met someone, when we haven't been on a first date yet, but then we forget about it later in the relationship, while this flirting and playful banter was probably First of all, part of what created the spark in the beginning is also what can keep it alive, so try to give these examples I talked about, that's right, let him work towards it from time to time, show your thanks when you try and stay.

Playful here and there, even when things get serious, especially at that time. Thank you for staying here at the end of this video. I love it when you do that. If you want more, you can find my books on Amazon. Just write Brian Knox. in the search box or visit briannox.com and I hope to see you in another video