Cory and Taylor's Gender Reveal + Vaeda's 1st Birthday & MORE | Teen Mom OG

(upbeat music) - What, Nova? - Where is my sketchbook? - It's upstairs in your bedroom. And do we want to have another one? All these kids need to go to bed like now. So I think VRC had a lot of good advice for you on how to handle your dad and stuff. - Yes, that's probably why it's best that we don't invite him to Vaeda's party. It's the best decision, I'm really sorry, because I'm trying to have hope, I'm tired of hope being destroyed. I'm tired of, you know... I'm over it. -It's sad that you have to come to that conclusion, but...-Anyway, it never ends up working out in my favor, so...-Today is Vaeda's first

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party, and I'm glad Tyler was there. decided not to invite his father. so we can enjoy the day without any drama.

Ready Vaeda? - Vaeda, Vaeda, look at him. ♪ Happy

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to you ♪ ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪ ♪ Happy birthday dear Vaeda ♪ ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪ - Cha cha cha! - Cha Cha Cha! -She wants it so much. - That's right, Nova. I'm not going to let him ruin it. (applause) - It's your birthday. - Eat the cake! Eat the cake! Eat the cake! -Shake it like your life depends on it. - I mean, I would love for you guys to have a little boy, I think that would be really cute. - Me too. - And I told your son, the next one, whether it's a girl or a boy, you're getting ready.

I'm done with three. - Oh God, yes. -How is your father, Ty? -I guess he's here, in Michigan. - Yeah? -Where is he staying? - I don't know. I know nothing. My thing is that I'm trying to figure out the best way to be loving without allowing it. So I feel like at least when I'm enabling is when he's negatively affecting me... If I go to bed thinking are they okay? You know what I mean? - Or worry if they are really where they say they are. - Or have anxiety. Or if they really needed to borrow that money... - That $20 for gas, yeah, whatever.

All those things. That's when I feel good, now I'm negative... Now I worry about an issue that's not even mine. Anything that requires effort on my part is not happening. (upbeat music) - Here it is! Ten, nine, eight, seven, six, five, four, three, two, one! (applause) (upbeat music) - Give me a kiss. Oh Lord. It was a great surprise. I expected to see blue confetti. - I know. - Oh. - You're going to have a little sister! (applause) Say hello, ladybug. -She is a girl. - Hi girl. - Hi girl. ♪We are on top of the world♪ - How is the little one? - She's good.

I'm going to nest all weekend. - Is that even a thing? - It's one thing. - Nesting. - You don't understand because you're... - I don't understand. But there have been a few things that have been on my mind. - Forward. Say it. - There are many changes that are taking place. We're getting an apartment together, so I just want to make sure Cheyenne is comfortable with everything, because I'm sure being at our

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was a little strange for her. You know, Chey always wanted to have

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kids, to have the white picket fence and the house with her husband, and she was really like family. -Yes.-And you know, I don't want her to look like I'm shoving something in her face, because right now it's like all I have is what Cheyenne wanted at some point. -I'm sure she's fine. (soft music) - For everything you need to know about preventing pregnancy and protecting yourself, visit itsyoursexlife.com. (upbeat music) Bentley ended up weighing less than 75 pounds and did very well in the regional wrestling tournament.

She came in third place, so she managed to qualify for the state tournament. ♪ We all look at each other ♪ ♪ Like you looked at your mother ♪ ♪ Then we'll be fine ♪ - So this year Bentley has played football, cross country, golf, baseball, wrestling. I've always liked him to play sports, I mean I played a lot of sports when I was a kid and I know other people have said he does too much, but what else is he going to be doing here running around the neighborhood? - Or play PlayStation. Let's be honest, how many kids are glued to an Xbox or an iPad?

Our toddlers aren't even glued to iPads. - Agree to disagree and raise as we are going to do, because I think we are doing well. - I would definitely agree. - Oh, he too, when he got O's and fours to start the year in those first two tournaments, he remembers writing down a list of goals, one of them was to qualify for the state tournament, because back then it didn't seem at all, like We thought I don't think we're going to be in the state tournament this year. -And then he started cutting weight and he had to fight against it, and you know, for the first two weeks that was...

Ooh, he was a little fighter. He was hungry. But I think he thought, there were many times he said, "I can't do this." "I can't do it, I can't do it, I can't do it." And he found a Mentally he had to make his body work and do things that even he didn't think he could do. You know, he could tell that he felt good enough to fight, but he had no energy in the tank. but he still fought and got third place and will go to the state tournament. Last year, after things in his life really started to go haywire, we know that saved him, mentally. a child, he is the only one who has control. - Yes. - Total control is wrestling.

It's just him on the mat, it's just him putting in the effort in practice, you know what I mean? he can control. I am very grateful, I am very grateful. (upbeat music) - The kids can only be late one

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time before they send me to truancy court. I bought you new shoes. I'm going to try something new and prepare his clothes the night before. So when you wake up you can put your clothes on. I want my mom to be proud of me, so she can't keep failing. So I hope today is a new beginning.

Well, are you ready? - Yes. - Look at us, we're on time. Hurrah! - We never arrive on time. - Yes, I know, we never arrive on time. Seat belt. ♪ Never miss a beat ♪ ♪ Even when my hopes started to fail ♪ - Are you looking forward to school? - Yes. - Yes. - So it's very important that we get to school on time all the time, because lately we've gotten into some trouble. I know life has been pretty hard for all of us, but let's try to work together as a family. And the babysitter is very proud of you for being good at school.

Now let's meet our AR goals, let's bring some books home. I can't read with you tonight because I have work but Dad can, okay? - He is sick. -He can get over it. Be the good children that you are. I love you. I love you Gannon. - Bye, Mom! - Gannon, I said I love you! Well! My God. (phone ringing) - Hello. - Yes, I just dropped the kids off at school and they arrived 10 minutes early and I'm so proud of myself. - That's good, I'm glad you arrived early. You have to do that every day. - Every day.

But we will all make it together, because we will work together as a unit and get our shit together. - Okay bye. - Bye bye.