Caroline Flack on the Power of Being Single

Despite all her success at 39, Caroline Flack is portrayed in the press as sad and lonely. I look at the media like you're 30 or 40, 50, you're not sitting down, you don't have kids, and you're pretty much not. Wearing a double outfit and pearls they think you're unhappy somehow I never had the desire to do it I never had that fairy tale I want to meet my prince and I want to settle down So I guess when it comes to relationships I still kind of always put in the work , I wake up in the morning, I go to work, I come home, like my boyfriend did, yeah, you know, and I've never gotten to that point yet and I'm afraid it's going to get too late for what I wanted. going well maybe it would be slower to think about having kids and maybe think about settling down but I've never had that it's never been connected to me true true it's really strange and I feel guilty about it sometimes I feel like maybe I'm

being

selfish so Maybe not, but I don't think you are.

I think you're just

being

you and doing what your heart desires. There has been a point where I said the words: I'll stop working, it's okay, don't go. Because he was going to leave and I said it and I thought that my sister told me: why are you saying that? Yeah, he's sacrificing everything you do for him and I was like, because I really don't want him to go, I don't. to leave but he did, he left yes anyway thank God I didn't quit my job yes yes because I wonder if he didn't leave and you were with him now and you weren't doing your job anymore I wonder how happy you are Would it be yes , I wonder if it would seem like you would be so happy.

Where do you think you get your experiences of what relationships are like or how you would like them to be? I guess just the adults in my life. You know, I definitely knew that I didn't want to be with anyone if they didn't love me and I could see that a lot of people were in loveless marriages, so I definitely knew that I'm not that desperate to be like that. with someone or I'm not that afraid of being alone, um, but yeah, I'm quite romantic, I like it, I mean, I also love the idea of ​​love, I love falling in love, the falling in love part is quite addictive, right? that first, that first romantic feeling, um and then maybe I've never been very good at keeping it going, yeah, yeah, because then it becomes work and that's when all the compromising stuff comes into play, yeah, so do you get bored Naps?

With the same person I don't think I'll get bored, but it's like I never got to the point where three years or more go by, I guess it always ends and then I'm

single

again, I'm happy. again, then you meet someone else and something like that happens and then you start again, yeah, then you start again. Look, I think he's great, I really do, yes I do. I think why not being

single

shouldn't be seen as a sign of Weakness: in reality, when you are alone you are more

power

ful because you don't depend on anyone else, so it is actually more

power

ful to be single and when you are single and happy that is when you feel better. you