S02 Ep22- Being [Present] Is a Game Changer | Curious Universe:Cassy Summers

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. Like some people, for them it's like their career, their business, like they're in it, don't miss a beat, they say I'm going to achieve everything I can. There's a hundred thousand percent in your business, Brown, but then in your world of relationships, like they can't be

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, you have relationships falling apart. Besides, they have abusive relationships, they never know what's going on there, in fact, maybe they avoid it completely, it could be a relationship with their parents, it could be a relationship with their siblings, so you can look at these areas where you have total presence and recognize them. areas and if you can have it there you can really have it anywhere yeah okay great if you can have it there you can have it anywhere so it's about carrying it into those other areas of your life when you bring gifts to something that you really can. then it ignites more possibilities, so let's say it was a relationship, maybe you long for a relationship like a creation with someone wonderful or maybe you've been in a relationship with someone for a while and there are these kind of walls of separation that have been built. and you feel lost, you don't know what to do to change it, maybe you have tried many things, it hasn't changed, avoiding it won't change it, but you can do it, if you look closely, then where are you present in your life in this example?

Suppose it's like in your business you are super present or in your career, your work, your super present in your relationship, you review it so that you can start to clarify, what do I have, what am I? I'm avoiding, I'm avoiding the pain, I'm avoiding the thoughts that they don't care about me anymore or maybe I don't care about them anymore, avoiding all the conclusions you've come to, avoiding other people's points of view. look at what you are avoiding and start enjoying unpacking that from the closet, what are you avoiding here? This is great, another great thing you can do with anything you find, you're having a hard time

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present with what you're with. avoiding here, okay, so you can use that consciousness access query statement that we use here in the program to clear the energies of what you're avoiding because everything is energy and really, when you can change the energy of something, the superficial its alot. easier when you try to change things on the surface but you have all the energy underneath, it's much harder, much more difficult, so you've unpacked all the things that you're avoiding and then here's the cleanup statement and obviously I always put a link in the program if you want to learn more about what the clearing statement is, how it works, go to theclearance Statement.com, but the clearing statement is where you find the set of words that will change this energetically so you can unpack it. what you are avoiding and you go everything this says and everywhere I am avoiding and defending for or against this I destroy it and I disbelieve it all right and wrong get a pocket bad shorts online boys poets and Beyonds so now and you may want to say it a couple of times, do it again and again until you notice an energy change, if you are new to perceiving energy, do it until it seems boring and then look at it again, okay, so introduce yourself, Introduce yourself to your relationship, what this is, what's really going on here, you're going to have more clarity because now you're not avoiding it, you're not defending it, you're just allowing yourself to be present with it again.

I want you to do it. I know that the moment you put your attention on something, the moment you are willing to be truly present with something, it already begins to change. They discovered this in science. There's all these different, really cool things. I can't think of one exactly. but I think the moment you put your attention on a molecule it will change so we know this from an energetic perspective if spiritual things are too much for you well science has covered it too well so it's true that when you put your tension on something, it begins to change, so when you allow yourself to put your attention on your relationship, it can become greater just by that presence, just by

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truly present.

Another tool to help you stay present is to actually slow down. your energetic barriers so when we avoid or defend what is the defense it is your wall it is your guard when you can lower that defense wow then more information more awareness and more possibilities can come in we have this alleged reality that more bad things will come Well what would happen If you could invite me in? You could whisper on your wall. Hey, possibility, I'm going to lower this wall. Can you come to my party? Lower those walls and barriers if you don't know what I mean by lower your walls and barriers are, um, you can do it, you can visualize it, but you don't really need to do it if you're a visual person, imagine walls like real brick walls or thick metal walls or any wall that appears in your image and then like you could lower them like push them to the ground and lower them or dissolve them, melt them like whatever works for you and what is true is that if you are not a visual person and they only describe that to you, you are already doing it without having to visualize it if at the moment I ask you to lower your walls and bears, you are doing it now to a certain extent you are doing it well, that depends on you, the more you practice it, you will start to pick up on those subtle ones. subtle energetic signs is that something is changing something is moving and a good indication that you have actually let your walls and barriers come down is that there is simply more there is more to be present with more awareness more energy and more possibilities then the gift and if what?

The gift of being present in your life, could you choose to be present if you allowed yourself to be present with even just one of the things that you've been avoiding or just checking and not even realizing or checking that this is classic parenting? you know you might not want to admit this, but you know you have an automatic response that when your kids talk and you have a million things going on, you're not really present with them, you're not really listening and saying uh-huh oh um and teenagers. , you guys do this too. My 12 year old son has this.

It's smart because everyone thinks you're listening and you even like to have similar inflections in your and um how you talk and like oh yeah, uh-huh, but. you are not present in what is happening well, what gift of your presence can you be? I know that when my kids are trying to get my attention and I'm not fully present, they need three to four times as long as if I just sit down and I'm like I'm making dinner and I told them okay and they sat down. I told them hello, they usually need about two minutes, they just want to tell me something interesting and I always remind them. to myself how I would like to be treated and I remind myself of the gift of my presence your presence is a present it is truly a gift it is your being interacting with another person's being or interacting with an energy interacting with a possibility is interacting with your body when you are simply present with something, you could be present with your business, you can be present with the Earth, notice these places where you are already present naturally and start to invite them to how can I be like this everywhere in my life, that's great.

I wonder how this or more can be present everywhere in my life. You know, the funny thing is that as much as we assume that being present means more work or more tension or more stress or more things to deal with I've noticed. For me, the more present I am, the happier I am that all this ignorance is bliss, has never been true for me, every time I have been ignorant, I have been suffering somewhere and sometimes I have not realized every time I have allowed myself to. to be truly present with something I access my joy of living in a totally different way and from that presence you can truly ignite anything you would like to have or change anything, I mean now it may not turn out exactly the way you think it will.

I should, I can't help you with that because that's the job of the

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: it decides how to orchestrate that part, but if you're willing to be present, even present, let's say it's monetary stress, if you're willing to be present in it, you can ignite wealth. , yes, if you are willing to be present in your relationship, you can ignite more kindness, you can unite communication, you could ignite a new possibility, it starts with presence, although you can't change often. something with well-being completely excluded from your life, you are, you will be like the autumn leaf that runs downstream to where the river wants to take you when you are not present in your life. present in your life you have much more awareness of choice and possibilities, so what would it be like for you to have a little more presence in your daily life a little more presence in your life a little more presence with your The body notices if fear arises from all those things that you know you have been avoiding or defending and use that statement of clarification, except when I am afraid to be present with my body or destroy it and create it well evil.

Get a crazy explosive pot. all night short sports club in advance everywhere you are afraid to be present with your money will you only train and create well? run good bad dad shorts online boys Beyonds everywhere avoiding and defending money very avoiding and defending your body remember you are avoiding Defending your mom I love it I love using the mom card it's so much fun because I'm a mom and It's like you know moms, you do the best you can. I know, I know that I've always done the best I can with the tools that I have available and there is It's so interesting, I mean an interesting expectation and projection placed on moms and the desires of children by their moms, you know. , I hope this has contributed to you.

I hope that from this conversation you have the feeling of being a little more present in your life, um and I hope that you have gained a lot of tools from this. It was actually packed with tools that you might want to listen to again, but we kind of covered similar tools to be more present in the value of being present and how to do it. like being present with things that you've been avoiding and that feel really overwhelming, really intense, those are the things that you really need to be present with because they will make the rest of your life so much easier and lighter and more expansive, and always you'll be able to get a friend like a presence friend you know maybe you have a partner that helps you talk about things or be present with something or maybe you have a friend who's really great or a brother who's really great with that or a mother who is really great. with that um and you can always sit down with the facilitator and ask them to ask you questions and be present with you when someone is present with you, especially with the things that you are avoiding, it actually helps you to be present and you are this gift in the world as well, so when you are present with something, you are inviting others to be present, so let's say you have a partner and they are like totally checking in some area if you are willing to be present. that area and here's the clever thing, you don't even have to talk about it, you could just be present in it, be present in it, if you understand it, if you understand it, you can talk about it, do it, but if you can't.

You could just be present and you actually invite your presence to invite other people to be more present in things, so that's one of the gifts of having a facilitator, maybe you meet with them once a week and you just be present in an area in your life or be present with something and only someone there who is not judging you, so I recommend that if you are doing this with someone, make sure that there is someone who is not judging you and does not jump to conclusions and allow them to just be present and They're not avoiding your thing because they're not and they're not connected emotionally, mentally, uh, they're not avoiding it so they can be present in it, so yeah, another thing is making sure it's not someone who's going through that. exactly the same because they may be reviewing, it's really helpful when you have someone like a facilitator who is trained in this area to be present with these things or if it's a friend or family member, it's someone who has a presence in this area, so What could be someone you know who is so present with their money and you say, Hey, would you be willing?

This is really vulnerable. Would you be willing to be present with me with my money stuff? Yes, can you sense how valuable that would be? be and how much that could change things for you is what it would be like if we had more people present in their lives more people enjoying the gift of living through presence and possibility thank you for exploring with me today. I'm really grateful that these podcasts are always a great contribution to me too and I hope it is to you. If you like me. I'd love to hear some of your biggest takeaways.

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