LET THEM GO! Love Yourself FIRST - Best Motivational Speech 2020 - Louise Hay

let's talk about relationships romance personal relationships always seem to be the

first

priority for many of us maybe you're always looking for

love

looking for

love

doesn't always bring the right partner because the reasons for wanting love are not clear we think, oh, if only if If I had someone who loved me my life would be much better but that's not how it works there is a big difference between needing love and being needy for love when you are needy for love it simply means that you lack love and approval from the most important person you know you can get into relationships that are codependent and ineffective for both partners you will never be able to create love in your life by talking or thinking about feeling alone feeling alone and needy just pushes people away you can't heal a relationship in your life by talking or thinking about how horrible it is.

Now this only puts your attention on the problem, not the solution you want, it diverts your thoughts from the problem and creates new thoughts that will produce a solution, arguing for your limitations is just resistance. and resistance is just a delaying tactic, it's another way of saying I'm not good enough to have what I'm asking for, the

first

relationship that improves is the one you have with

yourself

, when you are happy with

yourself

, all your other relationships improve . Also a happy person is very attractive to others if you are looking for more love then you need to love yourself more.

This means not criticizing, not complaining, not blaming, not whining and not choosing to feel alone, it means being very happy with yourself in the present moment. and choose to think thoughts that make you feel good now there is no one way to experience love because we all experience love in different ways for some of us to truly experience love we need to feel love by being held and touched for others to truly feel it beloved we need to hear the words I love you for others we need to see a display of love like a gift of flowers our preferred way of experiencing love is often the way we feel most comfortable showing love I suggest you work on loving yourself no - stop showing yourself the growing love you have for yourself give yourself romance and love show yourself how special you are pamper yourself buy yourself flowers surround yourself with colors, textures and aromas that please you life always reflects the feelings we have inside you , as you grow an inner sense of love and romance, the right person to share your growing sense of intimacy will be drawn to you like a magnet.

If you want to move from thinking of loneliness to thinking of contentment, then you need to think in terms of creation. A loving mental atmosphere within you and around you allows all those negative thoughts about love and romance to simply fade away and fill your mind with thoughts of love. Think about sharing love, approval and acceptance with everyone you know when you can contribute to meeting your own needs then you won't be so needy, so codependent, it has to do with how much you love yourself, when you truly love who you are, you stay centered, calm and secure, and your relationships both at home and at work are wonderful.

You will find yourself reacting to various situations and people differently. Issues that may once have been desperately important will no longer be so important. New people will come into your life and maybe some old ones will disappear, which can be scary at first and also wonderful, refreshing and exciting once you have all this clear in your mind and know what you want in a relationship you should go out and be with people no one is going to suddenly show up at your door a good way to meet people is in a support group or an evening class allows you to connect with people who are like-minded or who are involved in the same interests it is surprising how quickly you can meet new friends be open and receptive and the universe will respond to you for your highest good have happy thoughts and You will be a happy person and everyone will want to be with you and all your current relationships will improve.

Positive affirmations for love. I will allow these affirmations to fill my consciousness knowing that they will become true for me and I will practice

them

often and with joy. From time to time I ask those I love how I can love you more. I choose to see clearly with eyes of love. I love what I see. I attract love and romance into my life and I accept it now. Love is in every corner and joy fills me. my whole world I rejoice in the love I find every day I feel comfortable looking in the mirror saying I love you I really love you now I deserve love romance and joy and all the good that life has to offer me I am surrounded by love everything is fine I have a joyful intimate relationship with a person who truly loves me I am beautiful and everyone loves me I am welcomed with love wherever I go I attract only healthy relationships I am always treated well I am very grateful for all the love in my life I find it everywhere let's talk about stress and to be stress free this is the time when you enjoy or don't enjoy your life what you are thinking now is creating the way you feel in your body now and your experiences tomorrow If you stress about every little thing and make mountains With mole hills, you will never find inner peace.

We talk a lot about stress these days. Everyone seems to be stressed about something. Stress seems to be a buzzword and we use it for the point where I think it's a cop out I'm so stressed or this is so stressful all this stress stress stress I think stress is a fearful reaction to the constant changes in life. It's an excuse we often use to not take responsibility for our own feelings, if we can blame someone or something then we can just play the innocent victim, but being the victim doesn't make us feel good and it doesn't change the situation.

We often get stressed because we have our own feelings. confusing priorities many of us feel that money is the most important thing in our lives but this is not true there is something much more important and precious to us without which we could not live what is our breath our breath is the most important precious substance in our lives and yet we take for granted that when we exhale our next breath it will be there, if we do not take another breath, we would not last three minutes now if the power that created us had given us enough breath to last that long.

As long as we live, can we not trust that life will provide us with everything else we need? When we trust that life will take care of us and all our little problems, then stress will simply melt away. You don't have time to waste on negative thoughts or emotions. because that only creates more of what you say you don't want, if you are doing some positive affirmations and you are not getting the results you want, then check how often during the day you allow yourself to feel bad or be upset by these emotions. They are probably exactly what frustrates you and delays the manifestation of your affirmations and stops the flow of your good.

The next time you realize how stressed you are, ask yourself what it is that scares you. Stress is just fear. It's that easy. You don't need to be afraid. of life or fear of your own emotions discover what you are doing to yourself that is creating this fear within you your inner goal is joy and harmony and peace harmony is being at peace with yourself it is not possible to have stress and inner harmony at the same time when you are at peace you do one thing at a time and don't let things affect you when you feel stressed do something to release fear breathe deeply or go for a quick walk remember that I am the only power in me world and I create a peaceful, loving, joyful and fulfilling life, you want to move through life feeling safe, don't give a little word like stress, a lot of power, don't use it as an excuse to create tension in your body, nothing, no. person, place or thing has some power over you, you are the only thinker in your mind and it is your thoughts that create your life, so train yourself to think thoughts that make you feel good, that way you will always create your life from joy and in joy joy always brings more joy because of the affirmations for a stress-free life.

I let go of all fear and doubt and life becomes simple and easy for me. I create a stress free world for myself. I relax all the muscles in my neck and let go of any tension in my shoulders. I inhale and exhale slowly and relax more and more with each breath. I am a capable person and can handle anything that comes my way. I am centered and focused. I feel more confident every day. I am confident when I express my feelings I can be calm in any situation I feel comfortable with my finances I can always pay my bills on time I trust myself to face any problem that arises during the day I realize that stress is just fear now I release all fears I am in the process of making positive changes in all areas of my life you