Relationships in the 21st century (Gender roles) featuring DJ BIG N | S3 EPS17

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I mean, you know, say this, that person will say. go straight and our premium education Corona Kings College Psychology BSC Lagos University Coventry in England ladies and gentlemen he is a disc jockey also known as DJ Make some noise for the man who is big and can't cut it to size, he is big , you can't train him. big, you can't show it, he's big, you can't take anything away from him, ladies and gentlemen, he forgot to say when you grow up, dad, tomorrow that song, I can never get enough of that song, oh, triple the trilogy, trilogy, se It went to vinyl in people's heads.

I didn't understand the genius that song is crazy I actually make the song three songs like in that song I can never get enough of that song um Ricardo I Ricardo with the vibe I know that song is interesting now why are you there special now? because he's super talented, but before we even go, can I ask your name? Name when we say if they do my research. I was surprised why I can't look. Say ah, this name confuses them. Let them not see your hands as you are. Coming, you're going, I'm telling you, when you're better, better, let's get straight to today's conversation, we're discussing

relationships

in the

21st

century

, please, please, if you're a 70's baby, if you're a 70's baby 80, lower

relationships

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In the

21st

century

I'm talking about

gender

roles

and this refers to how we are expected to act, dress, speak, groom ourselves and generally behave, but some people can't look up because this person is now your man. expect this person you are talking about to act like this no, no, you are not going to walk because we are in the jet age and things are moving very fast, for example, when people talk about assigned responsibilities when they refer to

gender

, they will say: oh, the woman is kind, she has a gentle and loving nature, you must take care of the children, you must cook, you must clean, in fact, some people are the parameters for wife material, what do we say that the man must provide, must protect and must? just be there, hopefully, like a helicopter because now waiting for demand be because when they ask now they say wait for the 21st century now a couple of places before talking about gender rules and events so how do you say this?

A man can cook too. A man can clean too. A man should cook too, a woman should claim too because they're like, for example, the distinction we're really asking for in this 21st century relationship, it's really a relationship, but a man should cook tuna, cooking is a survival skill, Look, no. No, wait, come on, fireworks. I'm just saying that to cook and show cooking is a survival skill. I say it often. I want to marry a man who knows how to cook. I mean, I can cook very well, very well. We can confirm that we can attest, but.

I want to marry a man who knows how to cook I want us to be in a competition throw me this recipe I'll throw the other one at you next time because tomorrow I could be sick you won't ask me for food it's romance, show me kindness you also cook for me because you know how to cook and because you're me you're helping and I imagine I traveled I remember when I was younger let's go travel before we go travel go Town this is soup cook stew cook this cook that one we'll store everything for this man because he can't cook it and it's frustrating yeah I love a lot my father, but I don't want to marry Amanda, first look, let me tell you the truth, since everyone should learn to cook. you shouldn't learn that everyone should cook like you said cooking is a survival thing it's a survival thing when when you look for a place you go well, you know they happen in Nigeria, Africa, basically a person who campaigns, you can't do it here.

I'm never really done when you're there, you know, guys, remember my wife for you, you cook now. The thing is that it has reached the point where which is which is why they spoil many things woman is a woman man is a man what makes you a woman your family that is a woman don't come and be every time wanting to be a man coming to be on the same level with me that you are not the same I am a manual a woman and now this thing I can't take all the garbage when it visits all the things where they go because before they come they start reaching agreements it sounds sweet all those antics because they are very powerful now feminine now this feminism matters oh um man what a man can do a woman can do even better and you can't say it and they won't hit you the Yorkie let us go that's why some men don't come out they come out of the men, come in, women are true now. some men don't go out because women come in women call you we won't go and speak freely because when nothing stops feminism nothing will be able to speak again now a man someone will come out and say I identify as a two-year-old penguin because now when I give birth to these things, let's write in it you can't say anything again a man is a man a woman is a woman now you don't take from every man every man can cook a woman can cook but you go to work in the morning look I've been away from home since morning, this is the afternoon and then we are here, now you will wait for me to return home.

I have a wife at home because, oh, I want to play Love Sydney, no, no, that is if you have a housewife and it is her responsibility to take care of the home she is doing her job this is a woman when she needs money when they need everything oh you You are the man of the house that you should bring oh don't you know that you are the woman of the house that cooked for me look look I understand what Ninja says that oh when he goes to work and everything comes back at night, that is, if you have a mistress of the house, it is your responsibility to cook, I am not saying women, no I am not saying that women should not take care of their home, but what I am saying is that there is also room for help, support, yes, okay, for example, There is this lady.

I, my friend, went to her house. This lady was very pregnant. the night let me know save me the night it's like 11 pm this man came back I don't know if I said it in this podcast before this man came back with his friends and one of his friends is my friend how did he come That night, on the left, that woman is very pregnant, he said, hey baby, have fun, I don't buy kitchen now, I'm one of my friends, so now people said people are looking at it, we'll say, oh, don't pet, obviously, I'm sorry.

I was serious in the womb on the woman's face you could see she was crawling but she did it obviously regardless of this this thing is on the path you are going with this is going to be extreme the extreme side is Extreme even let me explain. something, eh, topic, don't worry, you are good, first you have to understand something as a man, no matter how many tests they give you here, eh, we can rule the world myself, make a face, tell you, I learned this when I was starting, you get a big pint like jog, it's a little jog, it's ceramic.

I know to say this is not big a lot of times, but it stuck and when you come back, you know they use a key, they keep a lot of kids in it, it will break, they leave. growing up I was hearing what the meaning of this is in this job it says I'm the boss in this house and I have my wife's permission to say it now maybe when I was growing up when I was eight times younger I really don't understand Now I still understand that women they run the world now, when you have that as a man, you know that in the back of your head women are just we're stronger and because they let us, of course, that's the apple way too, if I see, don't you see I'm tuna oh you should say blind yes God said you are blind you don't understand me but what happened why because there is always something we want from a woman so you have to understand why you have power empowered with this knowledge you act accordingly see here when I I was a child, my father always made lamb chops, chicken stews, it was not a problem for a man to cook, in short, to be honest with you, I am not, I am not on the side of a man I should not know how to cook imagine how to cook Women disappoint you if you want to show a damn they tell you no, you know in that kitchen? you understand me you know you don't make one or two me I'm not talking to you you just die for nothing you understand me so at the end of the day it's a survival skill but in addressing it she also said something you have to understand that everyone The days the world is evolving, what was common in a generation in the 70s and 80s with our moment that is almost non-existent in this era, you understand me, not even talking about these Genesee, people tell you, you have ordered the food , they are not telling you, you have cooked, you know the food, so you have to be, you can't use the 3310 when we use iPhone, you have to be on the same page with these people and act accordingly, otherwise you will be left behind , number one, number two, you will get scammed, you will do it constantly.

You will be sad, you couldn't be angry with the world knowing that the world has left you, you understand me, so you follow women like that. I'm not saying don't get your scores by playing these questions for cooking for this cooking for this cookie now because of the type of person I'm with it's because of the type of person my partner is I've understood from the first day we've been together together look I don't want you stressed I just don't need you to be stressed. I did not know. I have a cook in the house. I have someone.

I have staff in the house. I have something for everyone. That's so you don't do it. I do not want you to do it. now go to the kitchen and now I will come back from work here and I'm worried about me I come back from work and your Congo still means kitchen, they cook no, that's why there is a cook in the house now this is not for Say that this look and that no everyone is afraid of paying to cook I get it, but I personally won't put you in that position when he'd be saying the only reason they're talking is because you can't go pick them up. evil, that's it, that's evil, he actually has a vegan column, yes, honey, honey, no, honey, but what if he was talking about how would you like to hurt yourself or anything in the kitchen?

What if you have fun? Okay, basically, in my opinion, not really. I care if my partner knows how to cook or not, but it's an advantage if he knows how to cook, if he knows how to do the things that he should do, so we're trying to differentiate now, like the gender role. um differentiate the gender role of this century and the people of Generation that the wife should go cook if I were the wife. He would tell her in front of his friends to go cook because I'm not going to do that. I'm very pregnant and you expect me to get up.

It's not really part of the criteria that he would check or if my partner knows how to do whatever. It makes you happy as long as you're not fooling me the pregnancy variable first of all if not because I just want to say what I was saying we make decisions when decisions are made based on emotion you tend to swing let's make emotional um decisions based on pure logic, correct and exactly how it is if she were not pregnant, is there a problem with her cooking for her husband? No, no problem, but you're late, you have a problem for me, right, um, I like to go to bed early, okay, and I'm praying to God to give me a man who also understands that I will cook the food sufficiently early, uh, and I'll put it in the microwave for you if you're a housewife, yeah, it's okay if you're a housewife and you say you want to go to bed early at 10 o'clock and your husband is waiting your husband is working until it comes to my time at 10 o'clockearn your money Booboo though, but this guy doesn't change with me, you know, some people actually find videos, I just give you color, okay, now that they kill you?

What's up babe? I have a guy from Dubai who says he likes you. he has money, he can take care of you, there is nothing to talk about. I beg you, I beg you. I don't like that kind of lifestyle. I mean, are you trying to shape yourself for me? or what he said. No, do you want me to tell you? he said. Do you want me to tell you how many people have asked for this and there are short sketches with which they have called me that someone loves me and I don't, they exist but very very small ones know how to reach five maybe not I don't know them all No, I'm just saying based on what I know, how many do you know?

How many do you know? How many do I mean? I know a good movie. How many friends have made statistics? All I'm telling you is Let's be honest, all I'm saying is that every girl wants a girl lifestyle, even the person see if she might want to talk for you once if they start getting caught. All men say hit the jackpot once. And if? America comes now everyman, this is your little finger, we have to cut it off so you can pack up your family and Japan, my brother, now women would say to their husbands, come on, cut off your finger, this one you will hear, are you a man where two women live? in the same house every woman wants a good lifestyle and it's not bad but what you shouldn't do is say hey hey no I can't stay with a man who is going to be suffering it's not good you can stay but don't generalize Many girls you'll even watch this video now, uh, you know you won't.

Nobody wants something. I think about that. Stay with a man. Is it the breakout value or the emotional value. He explains these things. I already explained this. The end is to do. money, do you know that different girl? So if you're not making the money what exactly this value is about, unless you want to lie to ourselves. I get what you're saying now, I get it, except you want to let me understand what you're doing. saying except you want to lie to ourselves except we want to lie to ourselves against some girls with their relationship not because the boy has money not because the boy is offering them anything but because the boy makes them come but this boy the first time I told him to do it he did it well he made me squirt amen they are so happy to be sneaky links although as far as I'm going I don't even want to be sure I'll give you my points to know that a shower is better will come back, maybe they don't understand what I'm saying.

I don't have a problem with women who live a girlish lifestyle, no, when they knock on the door to ask for money, because in the end, if you look at the other side of the spectrum, you didn't hit your guy, you hit a man where you they cheat wasted they hit you see they say oh I'm in love with you so I don't know what I get out of that relationship I'm just saying the only problem I have is that I won't lead others astray that's all you see on this show that's all What we are saying is that is all you can do with just your chest, just with that in this program we have said it over and over again and many people say and many people say that what they do is drag women, is this program?

He is the only woman capable of speaking. Greetings to all women. The people rule the world. You control the men. If I. I will say it clearly now women control men forget all these people, now they deceive ourselves and then they control us. You get the point, but what we don't want is for us to know that there are a number of young girls who come and say, "Put me in your." video I want to do this I want to do that and most of them I feel them let's talk why you really want this I want to be an influencer what is your goal what is your what is your what is your goal for you what is the goal, most of them say , I just want to know what the goal is and that means I can buy a house, buy a car, do this and that, be able to wear this type of hair and then I'll tell you.

Do you know how long this takes? Most of them will tell you, but it's okay, it's six months. I see, see? So what makes you think it's six months? there's nothing there's nothing to say this doesn't mean that this doesn't mean that you can't start today and get to the point where in six months Grace Grace Grace unless, but at the end of the day, don't own it with your chest. We know people who finance people and it is normal if I meet a woman I will be saying good morning to her mom every morning and in the same way we, men, finance women.

Baba, I know boys when they are women. in the bankroll so I know the guys, I know the guys when he says oh no, she's fired. I also know where everyone knows she's fired, she's fired. I know, everyone knows when she said, I know the woman, this is fire where they clean, guess what, guess what. she is a bad bee he is a see as I said it is a beautiful thing ogre however you know that one day I will be happy happy with those guys you know what I am happy with those guys they know they can't tell you say this no but but but they are guys there guys that women take care of that they come anyway I'm a business oh I did this I'm an actor again for my radio studio hey the wife has kissed her husband says the husband not the husband girlfriend they pay for her house they rent my Instagram live now those who saw it saw it it was live everyone everyone oh you can't get once he conquered once why am I leaving Instagram I can't go back to the shows that the price is like two thousand three thousand people don't come and I'll start here will be your phrase We will be your symbol call your life if they also see the living brother then many women many women do not even You know, they say that their husbands are now other women and they finance their husbands.

They're going to go crazy, so you put the aristocracy in the movement. Now let me tell you something, so there are two girls who only do with their breasts and see many Aries together many times. Aristo girls many Aristo girls not the owner with the chest many entrepreneurial girls I don't know Baba I already said this before and I'm going to say it again many businesses to which we must give a big sugar greeting, that is, God bless every sugar that They have there because sugar daddy is an industry, so they say Amen, a lot of sugar, that is, they make the world go round.

Sugar daddies are the reason they contribute to the gym. They contribute to the GDP, let me tell you the truth, sugar daddies also talk about the currency, oh wait, oh wow, sugar daddies are the reason some car lots leave every day. Sugar daddies are the reason some stores then open and pay collect. rental of some stores, sugar daddies are the reason why many imports are taking place and many two rooms and pants are occupied. Sugar daddies are the reason most people, most, most people rent a house and sugar mommies too, hello everyone. that's responsible for some planes, uh, some airlines, airlines, they should be grateful for a lot of sugar, that's because sugar, these are the reasons why these girls and the sugar mummies should be grateful for the sugar mummies , because sugar mummies are the reason now.

I tell you that some sugar mummies give money to children to spend on their girlfriend and their wives and their wives at home. Now sugar daddies are the reason some resorts have customer results. Real results in Nigeria, not outside Nigeria, Zanzibar and all of them are that where you take your girls you are angry you see that place where it says are you paying for this trip yourself or are you being sponsored so if you travel abroad you see where the American visa is , you see this is paying for this trip who is just press no supporting documents bank statements you don't see bank statements sugar daddies are the reason many visas are granted except you want to lie to yourself you see me this is called the honest group.

I won't know myself, I know. They talk about CB, the only thing I won't do is say anyone's name, but sugar daddies are very, very important in the industry. Now let me also say that these sugar mummies are the reason why many shows happen, but this sure isn't. They necessarily have to be people's parents, right, oh, they don't have to be okay. I'll call my own boyfriend my sugar daddy because if he's doing certain things for me I'll call him listen your boyfriend ain't no sugar daddy he's my sugar daddy because he gives me all the sugar I want um most of these things they make me happy so they are sugar she is asking a question if he won't bring his egg to the room will you be there?

No, that's not what I'm talking about. What I'm talking about I want to answer what I want to answer That's not what I'm talking about The things you just talked about now are nice things, yes, and it makes me happy, it's like adding sugar to my body. that makes my sugar daddy point it doesn't have to eat it doesn't have to be a bedroom it doesn't have to be a bedroom I mean, of course, it doesn't have to be a bedroom you know, that's the apartment apartment, but seriously, what? What does it matter to you in a marriage that the man is not one or you are not even behaving?

So excuse me, let me say this, see for better or worse, all these things say the best for us, are you trying to say? that if you can, if you can't, bring your A game in the bedroom as a man, my brother don't come for your man, um, if that's the case, I'll let you know that a good number of Nigerian men won't bring their age I agree okay so what happens now then their wives are there and they search or learn and improve I have erectile dysfunctions that they can't even get up I remember when I was in the high school dimension on Friday night that time That time I'm not saying that they tell me that your number is yes, we are from the Juniors 29 church to come watch, it's called Friday Night Blues, so let's not have friends, come and watch, don't look at the man because the men will park their cars. on the back of fsas so that's something for the girls yeah you wish you were there no I'm just saying this not to joke it's just so you know a lot of men have this problem and you don't even know about yourself.

They don't understand me, he is trapped in the house and the truth is that either the woman is satisfying herself and many women suffer on top of that, which is where I give, which is what I, that's why I give a lot of respect to many women, now the majority of these women who They know that their husband even though they perform well sexually and or can't even stand up, the next thing the man will tell you, name it, let it stand, touch it, let this stand up, play with play with that play with that Now most of the time it is that I don't know either, Edana's illness in something that we demand from the nine concept, but it is where that feeling for these women was announced, ah, I feel for these women that their husband is not in shape and that's how he spends the time it's not it's not like it's not even that crazy sometimes it's stress sometimes it's their diet it's what they change sometimes there are a lot of things it's not it in most cases it's not things that can't be reversed yes no no one sometimes it's just you know, literally, if you go and check it out, it's something, but these people aren't even afraid, they're doctors in our backyard on my radio show, a woman doesn't talk, look, I'm going to do, what? are they cheating? about my husband not once or twice yes you know you did it yes grade rice the sad part my brother I support her I'm sorry men don't be mad but I supported the woman this guy is over to marry her, hello, I'm cheating on her with confidence. my husband now you probably know the boy from the city and this is all I'm not talking I'm here before with someone give me Jesus I don't know only first hand that person give me this just amen that the Jew or bring that, see, that's what the Geo has a son in the Lord that the jio has a daughter in the Lord and then he brings his daughter and son to the Lord Children of the Lord now the guy can't deform oh no sex before marriage no sex before marriage when I mentioned this before when when they come they finally get married a conference say the boy himself now two different stories one not two behind the boy you understand even get a machine gun my boy comes back and the boy comes back only for the girl to discover that the boy doesn't like it here one thing from the last two weeks um hey, it's about waiting to see your husband, your red hair, Vigo, she posted that thing on the Easter block in Karam, your boy tells you no. sex before marriage no sex before marriage find out if she likes it from the other side there is this there is a funny story I don't know whether to call it funny I heard the woman propose to her daughter so her daughter came home now so she asked If he is a good man, can you live with him this that like that so when everyone left the room she now told him that daughter does her work as a team I know why I ask and she said yes she said okay go in peace I give you my blessing my my probably that woman could be going through the problem or knows someone who is there to advise her that and guess what and she feeds him because daddy doesn't take him or leave him to all the women because they scratch themselves from time to time when when it is scratchy when the mountains oh there is that other thing I mean this does not overshadow anyone with its sexuality leave your truth if you want to do this beautiful way dayour truth leave your leave your life live your life according to your opinion about the facts are sacred, what I want to say is that if in this circle of people you live your life, do what you want, but please the people where they are Gabriel with the chocolate bread, don't fool most of our ladies we know.

In marriage, many of them trick girls into getting married, when they get married, you can't find out. Tell the boy that he likes bread, the boy's nickname and you can't do anything. Some of them move in both directions. Now you understand it most of the time. Most of the time, either you leave me because of shame, no one comes to get married or you want to understand the person we are marrying now. I gave you bread, you don't demand the cut, a nickname, she won't be forced to stay in that relationship and most of the time.

They will go out, they can't come to that conversation agreement, it's okay, don't worry, just go out and do it. I will bring it inside the house, as long as there is no problem if your room, on the day of my room, there is a story. Anyway, this is a good place to close the curtains on what we started with every woman should take advantage of her femininity, be a woman for your man, but now it does not mean that you are forced to stay with the man, we are not the when you they give something Do you want if the man gives you what you want bubu, what exactly do you mean?

No, I mean um um, the kind of value for everyone. they should know what they want know what they want and go for what they want so that tomorrow you go you know go say the first let's get into that thing where you stay in so What do you want before without publishing her story is also from a woman who has been with a man who will not provide her financially and lastly there are stories like that, yes, but you see that people no longer want to trust the process, yes, everyone is looking for processed finished products, yes, so congratulations to those who stay, yes to those who trust the process because also at the other end of the spectrum the people who have just fulfilled the requirement of cheating carry diseases that come home, so just pray that you find yourself somewhere that is not a cause for you, you understand?

I reiterate it so that my point of view is not colored. I don't have any problems with women. I really collect money from money. The only problem I have now when you go there, yeah, you, there was a story you had when you were. five years or one thing you multiplied and you just leave your girl lifestyle make your house for me have fun you don't need to tell someone you are honey if you have done it you know, trust the professional what process do you trust that is my only problem, but anything, by any means, do it, as long as it is not illegal, immorality, very, very relative, subjective topics, sorry, do you understand me?, what is immoral for you, could be strictly like my books, you know what I mean, so I have no problem with that. note, okay, I'm really sorry before saying no.

I will also make it clear that as a man, if you want to take care of your lady, or as a woman, if you want to take care of your man, if you want to take care of him, do it. don't listen to what society says about a man he should do this he will manage he is supposed to do this do the right things but if you provide for the man don't use him I insult the man tomorrow yes, to all the men you will have your A game, thank you very much because every man has his A game when you walk in and some women can make your thing go down, you get a joke once like that, demands newbie, let's go up, leave me alone. say this joke the man the man didn't do anything job demand don't try it don't try anything native doctor you need to do this three times if you do it once you feel like working but if you do it and three times it will stay forever now all you have what to do is stop and say pain pain once you say pimp your machine gun will stay come and go and scatter level the mountain you only have three tries only three lives so the man couldn't go order a dinner legal traffic can lead to the people, what's wrong, yeah the only way you can get there if you say Pom-Pom, can go down, no small life, still the man, God catch up with us, can't take one down, forget the pppp no ​​​He entered into what is above. where do you have to do PPP here sister what's happening the only library tonight is going down maybe you want to see here it's okay lie down on the bed and man I'll do it myself foreigner