10 Signs He’s Fighting His Feelings for You

It doesn't matter how long or how briefly you've known a guy. It is always possible that some of the men you meet develop

feelings

for you. There are guys in your life right now who have romantic

feelings

for you and you have no idea. They may be fantasizing about having a genuine connection with you, but you'll never know as they are very adept at hiding it. What if this man turns out to be the kind of person you'd like to date, too? To that end, we are here to help. Number 1: Go from being nice to completely ignoring you.

A man who has feelings for you but tries to hide them will often be very nice to you. On his best days he will be extremely attentive and he will refrain from mentioning other women in his company. At other times, he may act as if you are not even present and may even seem distant and quite unfriendly. Don't worry! In fact, he is not indifferent towards you. On the contrary, his confusing signals are a sign that he really likes you. This behavior is an indication that he is struggling with how he feels about you. Possibly this is because he thinks you might know how he felt when he was too friendly with you.

He felt uncomfortable and may believe that you don't feel as much about him as he does about you or that expressing your feelings to him would cause him to be rejected. Number 2: You often catch him looking at you. The boys can't help but look at the woman who captivates them. In this sense, staring does not refer to the terrifying, stalker-like look. It means that he looks at you with eyes of admiration and devotion. This look is sweet, soft and innocent. When you catch him looking at you, it will be a brief moment for you as most guys will look away and act like nothing happened.

Additionally, being discovered makes them feel shy, embarrassed, and uncomfortable. However, this is not true for all men. Some of them will be interested in establishing and maintaining eye contact with you. From time to time, they just want you to notice them because they are speechless. As a result, it is the most convenient alternative to hide your emotions. Number 3: Their body language is different around you. Do you often notice that he faces you and leans towards you when he talks to you? Are his gestures attractive, open and relaxed? As you probably know, the body doesn't lie. So, if you're wondering how to determine whether or not someone likes you, pay close attention to what that person's body language communicates.

A relaxed and open body posture around you often indicates that the person is comfortable being vulnerable in your presence and trusts you enough to share their personal space and comfort zone with you. This is usually a sign of trust, respect and consideration. But be careful not to mix romantic attraction with shyness, because shyness is not always indicative of romantic interest. In this scenario, going with the flow can be beneficial. Number 4: He "stalks" you on social media. When you are in love with someone, you can't stop thinking about them, especially in the early stages. You never get tired of them and end up spending a little more time than necessary checking their social media posts.

If he is struggling with his feelings for you, he will be no exception. After all, whether he showed you or even confessed to himself, the feelings remain. You'll probably notice that he is one of the first people to see your articles or stories. If he is an open person, you will notice that he is always reacting to you and making affectionate comments. He will also take advantage of opportunities to enter your direct messages and start a discussion depending on what you provide. However, he may not realize that you notice such details. While it may be tempting to hide behind a screen, online behavior on social media can nevertheless speak loudly.

Number 5: He Won't ask you out. If he is

fighting

his feelings for you, he is unlikely to ask you out. Maybe you already have friends with someone and do things together. However, he is reluctant to put a name to it or engage in relationship-related activities. These people are mostly introverts and may lack confidence. This type of behavior is possible as a result of the denial of it. He is trying to determine his position. He wants to be sure before taking any action. You may have to give it some time in this scenario. However, keep in mind that just because he refuses to categorize something doesn't mean there isn't more there.

Eventually he will relax. By the way, if you find this video valuable so far, make sure you hit the like button for the YouTube algorithm and why not subscribe so you can keep learning more... it's free. Number 6: She won't talk about his feelings. Another indicator that he is struggling with his feelings for you is if he deliberately keeps things superficial and avoids talking about the two of you and how you both feel, or the direction of the relationship, because he feels uncomfortable. If he scares you, he will avoid having this difficult conversation. As a defense strategy, he may joke or try to create a fun atmosphere.

On the other hand, he may become irritated or overwhelmed. Feeling overwhelmed will cause you to shut down even more completely. So if you feel this starting to happen, try slowing down the connection and making it easy for them. Plus, it will increase the likelihood of this happening for both of you. Therefore, being somewhat adaptable is essential. Number 7: Dates other people. You may believe that you are making progress, that things are going well, and that things are finally starting to take shape. However, if he is

fighting

his love for you, he may be self-sabotaging. He may run away to another person in an attempt to forget you.

If you are not together and he feels insecure about his emotions, he may also be constantly dating or chatting with other people. However, it is almost always a futile adventure and an effort to divert his attention from you. Additionally, you may notice him flirting with other people around you to gauge your response. They may all seem different, but he may have deeper feelings than he realizes. This is especially true if you recognize the other

signs

that he is fighting his love for you at the same time. Number 8: He gets jealous easily. If he gets irritated when you mention other men but he doesn't tell you that he loves you, he is definitely confused about his feelings and he is trying to hide them from you.

He may bombard you with questions when you talk about a person you've been on a date with, or he may completely shut down when you mention that you're on dating apps. When we care about someone, we prefer not to think about them with someone else. We become envious and even territorial, even if we have not yet declared how much we admire the individual. Most likely this is what he is doing. Therefore, consider this as a sign that he is fighting his feelings for you and is not ready to reveal them yet. Number 9: He is always trying to impress you.

You will notice that he is always trying to impress you, whether it is by showing off his talents, telling you about exciting adventures, or trying to win you over with his charm. This is a sign that he is struggling with how he feels about you. He's not ready to make the first move yet, but if it's obvious that he wants to like you, chances are he's fighting his feelings for you. He wants you to see how attractive, fun, and popular he is, as well as how great the two of you would be together. This could be his technique for gauging your reaction and determining whether you are going to say yes.

He could be trying to see if you like him too, but without making any effort or risking rejection! When men flirt with you, there is usually something behind it. Number 10: He gets nervous around you. If the gentleman in question is nice and trusting to everyone but you, something else is going on. We feel safe and fun until our crush walks in, at which point we quickly become self-conscious and embarrassed. If he acts similarly, he may not be sure how he feels about you, which makes him feel a little uncomfortable. He may feel obligated to be more reserved with you or he may just get shy while you're there.

When we care about someone, we want them to accept us and like us, which makes us more conscious of our behavior. This knowledge often results in us closing ourselves off a bit and trying to behave in the best way, that is, rational and calm. And if you liked this video, check out these related videos to see more. And be sure to subscribe and leave a comment saying "I subscribed" and we will personally respond to your comment.