6 Struggles Only Introverts Could Relate To

Hello excited attendees, welcome back to another video. Your love and support has allowed us to send you another wealth of everyday psychology and we want to thank you for that, so thank you, now let's start with some of the things that bother you as an introvert. We also conducted a survey among our Instagram followers. This is what they find. Annoying people complain that I'm an introverted charlatan. People think I'm rude when I ask for time alone. Someone tells me to talk more than talk over myself every time. I've tried and been forced to socialize with people I don't have much in common with.

I want us to include your answer in our video. Be sure to follow us on Instagram and stay updated whenever we post questions on our stories. you have a chance to be featured, the link will be in the description in a world where extroversion is considered the key to success. It's a real struggle for

introverts

to find their place from the early years of school to the job search. You'll hear about the best ways to attend parties and networking events, plus job cuts typically require people to be extremely sociable, enjoy being the center of attention and enjoy working in teams, so if you're feeling like an outsider Because of this belief, don't be discouraged, there are many others like you who share the feelings and go through the same

struggles

to prove this and hopefully help you feel better knowing that you are not alone.

Here are six

struggles

that

only

introverts

could

relate

to. Number one. You seem shy when you meet new people. What is the first impression you make on people? Do you usually describe yourself as shy whenever you meet new people? The truth is that when you are quieter than most people, it makes sense that people see you as a shy person when meeting you for the first time. Struggling occurs when people assume things about you just because you're quieter, like you're not confident enough or you're hiding something, this

could

be especially bad in job interviews, since recruiters are generally looking for people who are competent. on their own abilities and confuse your first impression number two: you would prefer to avoid parties and large social events Have you ever noticed that you feel lonelier during parties or social events than when you are alone?

Being a wallflower is the

only

way out for you, although this may seem contradictory, this is a common struggle for introverts every time you go to parties or social events you will feel as if there is a wall separating you from other people due to the amount of Small talk, moreover, small talk will make you feel extremely bored and like you are wasting your valuable time. These are two reasons enough why you would rather avoid going to parties or social events number three you feel unappreciated have you ever felt like people are ignoring you in the room just because you don't talk as much as others?

This is one of the most common struggles for introverts as an introvert. You usually talk less because you don't know what to say or have nothing to say. As a result, people will not know you well and will underestimate your skills and abilities, so even when you are suitable for the job, someone else gets it. that promotion because of your social skills while you feel like you were skipped number four you feel that working in a team is a burden you feel that group meetings are counterproductive for you is it easier for you to work alone than to coordinate a group? is one of the struggles that you can easily identify with as an introvert: you work much more productively in quiet and private environments, since concentrating on your task with people talking around you is very difficult, in addition to the belief that having others nearby is better for you. inspiration You are more creative and have innovative ideas when you are alone and therefore the fact that companies generally prefer team players over individualists makes this a struggle for you, even if the results and insights you get toasts are better.

Number five, you feel extremely uncomfortable. When you're in the spotlight, how comfortable are you being the center of attention? While it's normal to feel extra pressure when you're in the spotlight, after all, you're being watched by more people than you normally would. As an introvert, you will try to avoid talking. in groups or speaking in public at all costs because you can't stand people's attention focusing on you, you would prefer to have a one-on-one conversation and yet you prefer to talk about things other than yourself, you even feel uncomfortable talking to them . acquaintances you know because they will always ask you personal questions that you think are none of their business number six would you rather do everything yourself are you at a loss for words when you ask for help?

Have you ever spent so much time trying to do something? That could have easily been resolved if you had asked someone for help, is it because you fear what they would think of you as a result of being an introvert? One of the traits you have is that you hate asking for help and the main reason for doing so. This is that you are afraid of looking stupid or incapable of doing something and you end up wasting a lot of valuable time simply because you prefer to do everything yourself instead of asking others for help, it is important to be aware that the struggles you have to go through on a daily basis are probably struggles that most introverts experience elsewhere, so know that you are not alone in dealing with these struggles and start accepting the fact that there are more approaches to life than the extroverted approach;

It's not your fault and no one blames you for it, be master of yourself and let others appreciate you. We hope to give you an idea of ​​some of the ways you might struggle with introversion. Do any of these describe your experiences? Leave a comment below about your encounters. If you like, feel free to share any ideas you have. If you found this video helpful, be sure to hit the like button and share it with those who are struggling. Don't forget to subscribe to psyc2go and hit the notification. bell for more new videos thanks for watching and see you soon