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-Have you ever seriously considered breaking up with me? - Not seriously, no. - Have you considered it casually? - Um, yeah, let's shoot. (laughing) - Let's take this. (symphony music

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s) - Who are you? - I'm Amy. - I'm Shannon. - Wait. - Swanks. - I'm Hailey. - And I am Carlos. -And what is special about you? - We're just

engaged

. - Congratulations! How long have you been together? - Well, we met in 2010, so we've known each other for about ten years. How long we've been together...it's unclear. (laughing) - I say seven. - About seven, yes. - I say seven years. - Eight years. - Let's cheer to that.

Take a

drink

. - (laughing) (symphony music

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s) - Okay. What was your first impression of me? - I was walking into Encore in Tacoma. It's like a nightclub and it was like going down the stairs. I looked at him and nudged my friend and thought, "Oh my God, I think he's so cute." And then we were kissing on the dance floor. - Yeah. (groaning) - But I was like, "okay, well, I'm tired, - So... I'm going to go sit down. See you later." And he said, "Wait, can I have your number?" - We kissed on the dance floor.

I don't really do that, so... I should probably get your number. - I mean, if it weren't for him, we wouldn't be sitting here today. (laughs) - What was your first impression of me? - I thought you were very hot. I remember the first time I met you. And I was still dating someone else and I thought, "She's definitely out of my league." "She's definitely straight." - Little did you know. - (laughing) - How were we raised differently? And has that ever been a problem in our relationship? - I grew up in Mexico, very, very, very poor.

And you were pretty good. Like now, it's a problem because I didn't have money growing up. I liked spending all my money. - It's gotten to the point where he just gives me all his money. - And she gives me allowance. - And I give him an allowance. And I know it sounds very controlling, but it's for the best. Because we wouldn't have a home if it were up to him. - Is there anything important that we don't completely agree on? Not important. - No. - I feel like we don't agree on - It's not important. - Small things. - I would say that he would like to go to oily nights (laughs), while I might not. - Is there anything about getting married that scares you, that you haven't shared with me? - I feel like the only thing that scares me is all my grad school debt that you're now going to take on.

I feel bad because if I die, it's up to you. - (laughing) - So I feel bad about that. - I guess when you put it like that. - (laughing) - In what way am I not the kind of person you imagined you would marry? - All the senses. - MMM. -My parents raised me thinking that I could only aspire to be Prince Charming. That photo was white, blonde and blue-eyed. -Yes.-You were nothing like he expected and I love it. - Yes, I'm so spicy huh? - (laughing) - What's something you've always wanted to try in the bedroom that we haven't done? - In fact, I'm going to try because I wouldn't describe something like that. - Because you've tried everything. - (laughing) Yes, that part. (symphony music plays) To everything I'm trying to do. - I feel like all I want is someone who is more dominant, but I don't really feel like that's going to come from you, so if I ever want that, I think I'd need to go to someone. the rest. - Are you monogamous? - We have slept with at least one other person, but you are surely the most important person to me.

So I want to value our relationship above everything else. - Yes, same. -Has our sexual chemistry changed in five years? As? - Every time we have sex, it's better than when we started dating. What was that? (laughing) - No. No, no, no. That's not what I mean. I think things have slowed down. - Yes. - It is attributed to your age. - And live with another person. - Yeah, that's a big one. - It is very difficult. She's there looking very pretty (laughing) - The other person? - Not her. -(laughing)-She is sitting next to me, she is beautiful, and I say:-There is another person. - Wanting the butt, but then the other person is in the room so it's really hard to find ways to like it, just do it. - What does your family honestly think of me? - They love you.

A lot. Maybe they love her more than me. - Well, my dad is particularly cold to any new person who enters the family. -I don't think he was very happy that you were queer for a long time. I think I had a pretty clear vision of what I thought your life was going to be. But then I think he learned that I care about you and that you're my number one priority, and I think that really changed his mind about a lot of things. - I think it took my parents a long time to want us to get married.

They saw us in our early years fighting a lot. There was a time when you said, "I don't give a shit about them." "I don't care what they think." And that hurt me. - Because you were in the middle. - I was in the middle trying to defend them both. - Why did you guys used to fight? - You weren't showing me affection. - We used to be long distance. So you projected a lot of... Yes. - negativity towards me and I didn't know how to fix it. I didn't know how to deal with that. - But you stayed. - Yes, and you stayed here. -Have you ever seriously considered breaking up with me? - Not seriously, no. - Have you considered it casually? - Um, yeah, let's shoot. (laughing) - Let's take this. -Have you ever seriously considered breaking up with me? - I mean, yes, when you didn't show me affection.

The beginning of our relationship, yes. - And I want to say that I seriously considered it for you too. I'm done with the drama. He was already done with the fight. I'm done with everything. - Yes. - I was still young and this guy was a disaster. And you said, "give me another chance." "I know I need to improve." And boy, am I good? I gave you a second chance. -When did you know you wanted to marry me? - I knew for sure when we started dating that I thought, if I don't date this person, I'll regret it for the rest of my life, and I had that really strong feeling, so, - Do you believe it? do you feel similar? - I think I liked him for a long time, I didn't know if I would get married or not.

I mean, I feel like you're so much better than anyone I could imagine, because you're really smart, ambitious, and really attractive. - (laughs) - And so, it's like all the things in my self-loathing that I didn't think I deserved. And I feel like you've shown me that I deserve you. -When I realized that she was my best friend, that was when I knew that she really had to be my wife. - That is so cute. - Great thanks. That was beautiful. (clapping) - If you like to

drink

or tell the

truth

, you should play

truth

or drink. - It will break your relationship or strengthen it. (applause)