Lisa Nichols's Life Advice Will Leave You Speechless | One of The Most Eye Opening Videos Ever

I was hungry like I was hungry. People often want to call me the exception like, "Oh my God, you're the exception. No, I'm not the exception. I'm an ordinary woman who chooses

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y day to make one more extraordinary decision." I am an ordinary mother who said that I want to drastically transform my son's future, that he deserves to have all the options that any other child would have, regardless of what he was born into. I was just crazy enough to believe that it doesn't matter the color of my skin it doesn't matter my religious background it doesn't matter my background it doesn't matter my mom's bank account my dad has been kind when I was born none of that means my future that's just The circumstance I come from is not what defines my future, I just believed there wasn't much to validate it, but faith is believing in the invisible anyway, so I had enough faith to go, I know, I know , I know, I know, I don't necessarily have to see it, but there is a lot of value in what you unlearn, sometimes the best thing you can do is unlearn some things.

We are all always looking to learn something new because we are addicted to information because we have all these forms of information coming to us through the Internet. They attack us in books, they attack us on the radio, they attack us on television, we want to learn, learn, learn, but sometimes your greatest advancement is in what you unlearn and then relearn, sometimes you have to disturb your ground, lift your soil, take that dry. land that has been planted for years I know, I have known for years this is what my mother taught me this is what we have always known you have to alter that soil to be able to plant a new seed to produce a new fruit yes, yes You you understood that, so I came very comfortably to disturb your ground, that's how I came to disturb your ground, not necessarily to keep you comfortable in what you know, stay comfortable because I want to disturb you in some things that are a new consciousness. to go oh wait wait or a new awareness about what you've been doing based on what you've known all along that no longer fits your future because I can guarantee each of us that we want something different than what we are understanding that We are unconsciously doing something from old patterns that don't even serve our future.

That's when the tongue in your mouth and the tongue in your shoe are going in two totally different directions and your job is to align them so that you can move forward in a powerful way. Myth number two is that abundance is singularly focused on possessions and money. That's what it's all about, what you drive, what you live, how much money you make, when in reality this couldn't be further from the truth: wealth is possessions and the abundance of money is a 360 degree experience. degrees true abundance is your health because if you are not in good health

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does not feel good abundance is a relationship and at the end of your

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literally measure the quality of your life by the quality of the relationships you had

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ything else

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disappear That promotion you're thinking about, you're wondering about, that raise will fade into the area of ​​importance.

When you reach the end of your life, you'll start to look at the quality of your relationships. How do your children relate to you? How are your siblings related? Do you have love in your life? You will literally start to look at relationships at a higher level as you get older, so when you draw on them now, take care of yourself. of them and I know that, in fact, I have a friend who is worth 14 billion dollars billion with a b. He just partied at my house all night, he didn't go out at four in the morning, he was going home and he flew from Canada to go to my new years party because he loves my family connection and he doesn't have any he's financially rich Your relationship broke up, does that make sense? abundance is a 360 degree experience it's about relationships it's about health it's about your spiritual foundation that doesn't mean you have a religious background it's about can you release? can you forgive? can you let go? can you be still? do you meditate? do you have time with yourself? that has a lot to do with the quality of your life let me tell you to have something different you are going to have to do something different to have something more you have to do something you haven't done yet I had to say the things I didn't mean do the things I I didn't feel like doing to have the life I know I wanted period and all I did was give instructions for here make this bite size make this bite size make this bite size digestible and palatable pieces of what you can do and when you look up and you don't You don't have to have a magnificent change in 12 months, have a small change in 30 days and then a small change in 30 days.

Your breakthrough will come in embroidery movements and you will look up, you will look up in five years and you will not recognize in your life every single thing you do. contact is affected by your history as a lawyer, as a teacher, as an architect, there is not a single line of business you can be in, and a great story will not elevate your bottom line, every line of business, every line of service that with the one you are connected to will be impacted and ideally elevated by the level at which you are willing to tell and share your story, so let me give you some guidelines, some parameters of what I like to call the bumper rails as if you were playing the bowling.

You know, when I go bowling, I ask them to put the little bumpers down so I can stay, my ball can go down the lane, so let me put some bumpers up for you, so you understand what makes a great story like that. . the willingness to take risks

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people's view when telling a story is that they don't want to take risks, so the story has its limits as to how high it will go or how deep it will go and when then you're really not in that part that is going to touch my soul, so be willing to take the risk of being clear and concise with your stories a great story is a story that shows me, not a story that tells me, now this is the distinction, that It's the game changer for

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people, they say, most people tell a story, so let me share with you a little bit of my story and I'll tell it to you and then I'll show you, as I was building my life, There was a time in my life it was very difficult it was very challenging true story very difficult very challenging very uncomfortable I didn't have much money I didn't have much hope and things just looked bleak at some point I had to change my life At some point I made the decision to that life had to improve.

I tell you it's decent that you learn about me. So if I showed you that story, I would say that six days a week I had to eat bonnets and sausages. I had to find money in the cracks and corners of my couch so I could drink my sun milk. There were times when my heart was beating fast just in what I'm going to have tomorrow at some point I got tired of mine. story, this will be my future, no, I can't handle it, I notice the difference in that, wow, I completely see that I just painted a picture, the same story now, the second, when you show a story, it will require more of you, I require you find the colors.

What were you thinking? What were you experiencing? What was going through your head instead of telling me? Look for money. Turn and point now. This is anywhere. narrator and you will captivate your audience no matter what you are doing. I have captivated investors. I have captivated students. I have captivated educators because I was willing to show history. I call it unpacking the vision of the story. Be willing to tell me what. You were thinking? What did you feel? What were you watching? You think of a story as an oral film and therefore in an oral film you think that when you watch a film, the first thing they do is identify what state of time it is in, if it is futuristic.

It was in the now, it was in the past, you realize that depending on what people wear, how they talk, so paint that picture for me, take me to that environment, prepare the backdrop for me, show me what you're for. going. to say I was angry you can tell me you were angry but when you say the hairs on the back of my neck stood up I felt the fumes coming out of my nose I thought my chest was going to burst and I was going to say something I would regret forever, you just To show me that you were angry, take that extra time to analyze it, why don't most people do it?

Because it requires a level of vulnerability that we are not willing to share when we talk about living our quest. I think that really living my search if I look every day is finding my own voice is finding your voice is finding the song that only you can sing out of tune or not is finding your rhythm is discovering what it feels like to walk in your shoes today won't look like For ten years living your search is what can I do with my life so that my life becomes contagious for another person who lives my search?

How do I make my digital footprint matter so much that it lives beyond my day of transition Living your search is how I can forgive what I perceive as unforgivable so I can love the absolutely adorable Living your search is how I give myself a thousand second chances Living my search no It is an ambiguous and untouchable experience to live my search means to return and heal the girl in me so that the woman can be free it is to return and embrace the child in you so that the man can appear and give himself permission to cry whenever it is necessary to live your search is not something you can do.

Don't touch it, it is not something that requires a stage, lights or cameras. To live your search is to be completely content with who you are in the dark of the night, so who you are in the middle of the day is fine, living your search doesn't hold water. being a hostage to old decisions not being a hostage to shame blaming guilt regret and anger living your search is about recognizing that every day I can be reborn to my possibility living your search is about recognizing that you have brilliance in you and not being willing to dim your light one more day