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There is a single phrase with which you can put every narcissist in their place. If the narcissist hears this phrase he will release the anchor and you will be at peace again. I'll tell you what this phrase is and how you can use it. Indeed. My name is Martin. I am the author of the book Dogs Bite Nice Ones and I am the founder of the 365 Day Challenge, which empowers you every day of the year and also strengthens you against narcissists. By the way, it is an ideal gift that you can give yourself at the beginning of the year or before so that you can understand why this prayer is so effective and how you can use it better.

Let's take a quick look at the psyche of a narcissist why a narcissist behaves the way he does here are some examples of what you can experience with a narcissist the narcissist goes to great lengths to force himself into the spotlight as if he were the sun in the sky of life to forget everything, assuming that you are with the narcissist or the narcissist because the female version exists, assuming that you are in a relationship with the narcissist or also in a friendship then you will notice that the narcissist will do everything possible to call their attention, to earn their admiration. and finally when he has achieved all that he will begin to test his limits, belittling her and destroying his ego.

First of all, the narcissist is friendly, maybe he compliments them, maybe he tells them entertaining stories, maybe he tells them about actions and events that make him interesting. The message between his lines is always the same. It says that you are not dealing with a normal person but with something very, very special which is exactly what all narcissists in the world have in common: they consider themselves something very special, something better, more intelligent, something more beautiful, something more notable than the rest of humanity and this is exactly where the phrase with which they begin to define a narcissist can reliably turn you away because it is a psychological lever.

It is interesting for you to know exactly what a narcissist wants to impress you with and why he really needs it. To the first question, you can recognize a Nazi because they basically want something from you like their care, their attention, their friendship or, at least, the worst, their love, the narcissist sees them as a kind of machine in which they only have You have to insert the right words and actions to get what you want, so it doesn't come from the heart, it acts with great will. calculation For example, the narcissist says the things he wants to hear, he has a good feeling because narcissists are masters of psychological manipulation, that is why it is necessary to put them within his limits with the killer phrase, for example the narcissist. he wants a relationship with them he wants to enter into this relationship in a love relationship or in a friendship which of course will only be because he expects advantages from it and on two levels emotional advantages and material advantages the emotional advantage is obvious to the narcissist As soon as you bite his bait and you get into a relationship with him, then he has you in his hands, then you let your guard down, then you eat his praise out of his hand, then he gains power over you, over her and her feelings, then he can control you and that is the reverse conclusion: humiliate them at will, hurt them or force them to do things that benefit you and harm themselves.

The narcissist likes to rub in their faces everything he has achieved in life, but he doesn't. Don't use phrases like this to do that. Unlike me, you have not achieved anything worth mentioning in your career or compared to my biography, your life has been a walk in the park or sometimes you approach it in a subtle way. I'm surprised you have so few friends, with me there are almost two dozen or something, he says apparently with compassion, by the way you express yourself you can tell where you come from, since you didn't have educated parents, you've come quite far.

Translated, this poisoned compliment means, of course, I come from a much better background than you, I am educated, I am a human being who was born to listen and you are just my little existant or my student or my shoeshine boy the narcissist tries this over and over again he wants to create a gap between you and him where he is at the top where they are at the bottom you can do this with just one broken sentence You will soon find out how exactly this works It is important that you understand why the narcissist does all this, why he wants to make you small, for why he wants to hit you in the head with a hammer, that he is the best person, the most intelligent, the most valuable, why he attacks with lies or blatant exaggerations to impress them, why he deceives them without feeling guilty about it, why he can explode out of the blue. nothing and blame them for the failure of something, which does not achieve much more, why does he give them the feeling that they are not a human being on the same level for him, but just an annoying brake pad, why does he do all this instead of simply meeting them in an equal relationship between couple and partner, between friends and friend at work? colleague and co-worker, the answer is in stark contrast to his appearance and already contains the explanation why this phrase will actually make you run away because the narcissist's self-confidence that he flaunts like a tennis trophy is not real, but it is simply a placebo.

If you really have confidence in yourself, you don't have to do that to everyone. Day 20 test times who is really superior has no need to belittle others and who is really intelligent will support those who are less intelligent instead of constantly giving them the feeling of being idiots and whoever really has a great life will have a great life. Radiate joy instead of commenting on your life like a sports reporter and shouting all the successes to the world: the narcissist, but he does all of the above. , in reality he is not a self-confident person but a particularly insecure person, a particularly insecure person to whom he would never give in.

You don't even realize it, but there are two reasons why a person becomes narcissistic and both have to do. Reason one: a child is neglected by his parents, for example the parents care little when the baby cries or it is legal if his child has good or bad grades at school or does not think it is necessary to buy his child a bicycle even though all the children in his circle of friends have one and what does a child do when he feels that he receives so little attention from his parents, of course he resorts to the tools of emotional manipulation, for example the child pretends to have a severe stomach ache, cries and screams and the result is that his parents pay more attention to him or the child tells a really cool story about how he corrects the teacher in class and is in favor of it.

The result that I have received special praise is that his parents pay more attention to him or the child does tricks, for example juggling three apples to attract the parents' attention and attract more attention. Those who grow up like this gradually become actors. It develops step by step in a manipulator Deep down, the feeling of being unremarkable and unremarkable eats away at him and to explain this black hole in his own soul, the narcissist paints himself in the bright colors of success. intelligence and attractiveness that does not want anyone to overlook him, he behaves with his peers as he previously did with his own parents, he lies, he manipulates, he will do anything to receive attention and recognition in return and our society, which wants be blinded, Surprisingly, often fall into this trap, so it is not uncommon for, for example, managers, politicians, moderators or models to rise, and here is the second possibility.

I'll go straight to the crucial phrase. The second possibility is why someone becomes a narcissist and that is particularly exciting for you because this is the case. Almost no one is unlikely to have this on their list in the second case, that is, parents do exactly the opposite as in the first, they worry a lot about their child. , often even it is an only child that this child is considered the center of the earth, every wish is granted to the child. Every mistake is read on the lips and the child is immediately forgiven and if the child is stubborn, the parents.

If necessary, do a handstand to get the child back in a better mood. This attempt is to please the child; Of course, it is well-intentioned, but it leads to a little dictator growing up because the young man feels that it is so. not the one that has to adapt to his environment and other people, but the other way around, that other people's environment always has to adapt to him when he snaps his finger. Does he have to get a gift, does he have his favorite food on the table, does he do other things? Do people have to solve his problems?

This explains why most narcissists do not have a guilty conscience when they act immorally, for example, the narcissist lies to them but thinks it is a good thing for them, right? or the narcissist scams them out of a deal. but you think it's your right or the narcissist cheats but you think it's your right even if he takes money from them without giving it back it doesn't cause any problem because where better to keep the money than with him and what better place? How could your friendship or love flow with him? We are dealing with a case of advanced self-overestimation, but these narcissistic types are not at peace with themselves either, of course.

As the years go by, such a narcissist realizes that I don't just split the water as soon as it appears on the shore, realizes that he has to wait in line at the back of the supermarket at work, and doesn't automatically get the chair in the office. boss at work and of course, he also exposes himself with one lie or another, he has to endure accusations and yes, a narcissist can even be fired from his job and those experiences make him realize that the world of his childhood in which he was king and dictator, that this The world does not automatically continue with the end of his childhood, so he feels misunderstood.

He begins to doubt his worth, his ego shrinks unless he makes up for it, he plays God and controls the course of events, so he believes he is becoming more and more sophisticated. in manipulating the people around you to fulfill your desires Even if this causes you disadvantages, for example, such a narcissist asks you at work to do a task for him, but then does not say, please do this presentation for me. I have so much to do right now that I can't do it myself come or he certainly won't say that this job is too insignificant that I'm the big one who wants to do it he won't tell them you are So good at making presentations, no one can do it better than you and if You finish this presentation for me now, I will emphasize to the boss again what you are doing here, but as soon as you fulfill his wish and create this presentation, he will do it.

Of course, he sells it as his own, so he holds a carrot in front of his nose while he looks at it like a donkey and walks on his back. Now that you have met both types of narcissists, the one who was neglected when he was a child and the one who was overly pampered and now I will tell you the phrase with which you can get rid of both on the spot. It is important that you not only listen to the phrase but also what you do with the narcissist's reaction how you should deal with it because only both are combinations that lead to the desired effect.

I put the sentence in a context, then it will be easier for you to use it, let's say you have a friendship with the narcissist. It can even be a relationship and let's assume. You notice more and more that the narcissist is breaking his word, that he is taking advantage of you and that he does not take you into account and now you are looking for a way to put distance between you and him and now you want to achieve it. He withdraws from them and, if possible, without causing a lot of drama, two points must be made clear: first, that you have seen through him and narcissists hate when they have been seen because they are simply acting out their whole self. circus in front of the world to disguise their true character and feeling of inferiority and, secondly, they have to make it clear that they have freed themselves from the emotional clutches of the narcissist and that they no longer respond to his praise and threats.

Narcissists are afraid of people who are afraid of them. Take back control because you stand on your own two feet and form your own judgment. That's exactly what you can achieve with this phrase. It is important that you say it in a serious tone and do not do it. You don't comment and don't deny it, so you say to the narcissist, something has occurred to me, you leave it here and I can only tell you that you can give me gifts or threaten me, elevate me to heaven or wish me to hell. You won't achieve anything with me anymore, I'm done with you.

I'll tell you right away what the narcissist will probably respond. First, a brief analysis. In the first step, you give the narcissist the feeling that he has been deceived and without justification. This is particularly strong because it could contradict you. a justification, but with a general statement it is much more difficult especially because you know that there is a lot to understand with it and in the second step, so to speak as proof of the first statement, name the most common means of manipulation of it. , that is, courting and threatening and they say that it is very clear that it is no longer useful to me, I am done with you so someone who is internally clear always speaks, someone with whom you can no longer handle it anymore but, of course, the narcissist.

He will try it anyway, he will ask you to justify this statement, he will ask you to give him an example of what he is achieving and what you have seen, he will tell you where a Gers lighting expert can give the narcissist the feeling that everything It's okay for him, it's just his perception, his perception that is wrong, fallible,Absolutely unfair. It can help dogs by specifically guiding them to better represent their interests, especially towards inconsiderate people. read them. I have already received many enthusiastic comments from readers about how they can now limit themselves to the narcissist's intervention by responding very briefly, for example with me stay with it, I am done with you and if you repeat this If you sentence what is still coming from him then he will understand that you have broken up the relationship between him and you, you are no longer a victim, you have separated and at that time he will promise me that I would like to let you go, but Especially in relationships there can still be unpleasant acts of revenge that you have to defend yourself against, what crazy things and dangerous things narcissists do when separated from them, I have described it to you in a video with perfect antidotes, click now definitely, it is in the information box and we will show it in a moment and now I will give you something very, very valuable that also can help them deal with difficult people with narcissists, i.e. my video seminar.

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