When A Secret Life Leads To Murder - What Happened To Sharon Lopatka? Mystery & Makeup|Bailey S

someone and eat it, and Armin also found someone online who agreed, and even gave Armin permission to do just that. I think it was on a videotape, or it was on the emails... No, it was on a videotape. It was recorded on video. He got permission from his victim to do that, to kill him, he wanted his skull to be an ashtray, it was crazy. Then Armin was finally charged and sentenced to

life

in prison in 2006, and I was personally a little torn. I mean, yeah, no one should kill another human being, I just feel like it's not your decision to end someone's

life

.

But... If the victim gives permission, it's like a weird gray area. And

what

I'm referring to is a pretty similar situation. There wasn't any iteration like in Armin's story, but this is pretty much the same. I mean, she was giving permission over and over again throughout the emails, that's

what

they say. And it's like, well, is this a first-degree

murder

charge? No...I don't know, she really made me think. And that's why I decided to do this story in the first place, because it makes me think, what is the right outcome here? If someone didn't have child pornography on her computer, you know what I mean?

Anyway, but back to Robert. So his trial focused on that gray area. That's why the media is reporting on this case and Sharon's death. This

leads

to increased interest in understanding deviant sexual behaviors. Psychologist Richard von Krafft first coined the terms sadistic and masochistic to describe behavior in which sexual arousal was achieved through the infliction or receipt of pain. And psychologist Sigmund Freud was the first to combine the two terms in sadomasochism, in an attempt to emphasize the mutual exchange of the use of pain during sexual relations. A controversial form of deviant sexual play practiced by some sadomasochists involves the use of; strangulation, erotic asphyxiation intentionally involved WITH PERMISSION, is performed by cutting off the air supply to you or your partner with choking, suffocation or other acts.

People who like this say it can increase sexual arousal and make the orgasm more intense, simply put. But I have to be responsible and say that different types of breath play, as it is also known, pose different risks and can lead to serious injuries such as cardiac arrest, brain damage from lack of oxygen, or even death. If any of this piques your interest, understand and educate yourself about the potential dangers associated with it, and it's a good idea to talk to or ask a professional sex therapist before even trying to do it yourself. And keep in mind that many experts actively encourage people to avoid trying this, because it can easily go from fun sex to serious harm or death.

I'm sure there will be plenty of people in the comments section who will say otherwise, but I have to be responsible too, kitties. According to the American Psychiatric Association, about 250 deaths occur each year in the United States from strangulation or strangulation during sexual activity. So, in Sharon's case, it was believed that she entered into the relationship with Robert with one apparent intention: to die. Some would say or suggest that Sharon, in short, was a suicidal masochist. Masochism is quite complex. According to the American Psychological Association, some patients suffer harsh self-criticism, bodily harm, or even tormenting thoughts of death, without actually committing suicide.

And then some of these patients may ultimately die by suicide. The relationship between masochism and suicide is complex, but may still be interconnected. Let's go back to Roberto. So Robert was looking... Okay, wait. So Robert was facing first-degree

murder

charges for Sharon's sexual strangulation death. In reality, he ends up being shot down or simply reduced to voluntary manslaughter. The case against Robert Glass dragged on for more than three years. Then, on January 27, now in the year 2000, Robert pleaded guilty to voluntary manslaughter, as well as six counts of second-degree sexual exploitation of a minor, which stemmed from pornographic material found on his computer.

Robert was sentenced to 36 to 53 months in prison for Sharon's murder and 21 to 26 months for possession of child pornography. Meanwhile, Rocky, from last week's upload, is on death row, even though he's an innocent man, so that makes sense. Robert was sent to the Avery Mitchell Correctional Institution in North Carolina and received this... Karma or something, I don't know, but... On February 20, 2002, two weeks in, Robert was about to be released . So he's sitting there, waiting, he's almost ready to be released, a free man. At 1:30 a.m. on February 20, Robert suffered a heart attack and died. That's not bullshit.

Good? Honestly, I mean, it sounds cruel, but I'm not mad about it, because he had a lot of child porn on his computer, I mean... Have you ever met some people who got caught with child porn, a lot of times, they just have to serve like six months or something like that. It doesn't make any sense to me, it really doesn't. That's another story we can talk about, because those things bother me, but whatever, anyway... Then he dies. I don't know if I like this lip, guys. Unfortunately, Sharon's parents had little to say about her daughter, Sharon's death, and even tried to say that Sharon wasn't her daughter because of how "embarrassing" the whole thing was.

Like they didn't want to be associated with her, because the media and press were working so hard with this whole BDSM thing. Like they just didn't want anything to do with it. Everything was really sad. Robert's ex-wife, Sheri, was shocked because she had no idea about the

secret

life Robert lived. I didn't look into where the kids are now, because they have nothing to do with it, so leave them out of this. That's Sharon's story. I mean, I think Sharon was struggling with something much deeper, I personally don't think it had anything to do with sex, and I'm also not trying to say that anyone involved in the BDSM community has some issues or anything like that. but based on how they described her emails and how she wanted...I think it was something much deeper.

You know, may Sharon rest in peace. Whatever she was going through, I hope she is at peace now. Roberto, good. Know. This story piqued my interest because it made me think about that gray area. Let's say you're the protagonist of this, okay? Actually, let's ignore this whole story. Ignore everything. Let's say you and your partner decided; "Hey, would you like to spice it up tonight?" and you're like, "Yeah, let's do it. What do you want to do?" "What do you want to do, baby?", and then your baby says, "Why don't you strangle me?", "Yeah, let's do it." Now let's say you go too far and accidentally kill. your classmate.

Obviously you didn't hear me say that you should investigate and inform yourself about the situation, but you did and you killed your partner. What do you think should happen? Because he made me think, what should happen? I mean you killed someone. You have to be responsible for that choice that you... It was an accident. I don't know. I... (laughs) I don't know. I was thinking, yeah, manslaughter, I mean, that sounds good, but at the same time it's like, should you do time at some point? Just your life is 100% absolutely clean and this happens, what should happen?

I'd love to hear your thoughts on that below. I like hearing your guy's perspective on things, because I talk too much. Okay, don't be mad at me, but I think I'll skip next Monday. I know many of you will be disappointed that I skipped next week, but... Dr. Butts. You know, true crime and stuff starts to wear on you, and I like doing this, I enjoy making these videos and I don't want to get sick or tired of it. I have to make sure I take care of my well-being, my mental well-being, and I know it feels like I've skipped a load, but I'm not kidding, it's been three already, so I want to skip like four.

Yes. So by giving myself breaks, like every fourth video, after three videos, skip the fourth one. I think that's what I'll do in the future. I've wanted to do this, but I've also been everywhere, life happens. Whatever. I apologize for skipping a load, because I say I'm here to help you every Monday, but I also need to take care of myself. Do you feel Me? I'm fine? Because this week I felt so overwhelmed by shit. But I'll see you next week. Same shit. Different Monday. Well? Let me know below in the comments section who you want me to talk about next time I come back.

I'll probably have to change my introduction, "I'm here for you every third Monday", "wait for one". I love and appreciate you guys so much. Thanks for hanging out with me today. Many thanks to Care/OF for collaborating with me on today's video. I hope you have a very good rest of your day, a good rest of your week. Make good decisions. Please stay safe out there. I will see you later. Bye bye. (suspicious music)