Matthew McConaughey Leaves The Audience SPEECHLESS | One of the Best Motivational Speeches Ever

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analyze your successes in the reciprocity of gratitude many times we focus on failure, don't we? We study failure, we obsess over failure, we analyze failure and our failures, we analyze them so much that we end up intoxicated with them to the point. of disappointment seeing that happiness is an emotional response to an outcome if I win I'll be happy if I don't I won't is a standard if then cause and effect quid pro quo that we can't sustain because we immediately raise it

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y time we achieve it sees that the Happiness requires a certain result, it depends on the result and I say that if what you are looking for is happiness, then you will be disappointed frequently and you will be unhappy most of your time, joy, although joy is a different thing, it is something else, joy is not It is a choice It is not a response to some result It is a constant joy It is the feeling we have when doing what we are made to do Life is not easy It is not Don't try to do it like that How life is not fair It n

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was It was not fair it is now and it will never be don't fall into the trap the trap of the right to feel like a victim you don't get over it and move on and yes, more Things are more rewarding when you sweat to achieve them, so be brave, have courage and when you do Whatever you do you will become stronger, you will become more aware, you will become more respectful of yourself and what you fear, my hero, that's who I chase now when I was 15 years old. years ago I had a very important person in my life come to me and tell me who your hero is and I said: I don't know, I have to think about it, give me a couple of weeks, I come back two weeks later, this person comes up and says Who is your hero?

I said I thought about it Do you know who he is? I said that's me in 10 years, so I turned 25. 10 years later, that same person comes to me and

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. So are you a hero? And I said: not even close, no, no. no she said why did I say because my hero is me at 35. so you see every day, every week, every month and every year of my life, my hero is always 10 years away. I will never be my hero. I'm not going to get it. which I know I'm not and that's okay with me because that keeps me with someone to keep chasing, so for any of us, whatever those things are, whatever, we admire whatever it is that we hope for and whoever it is be. we're chasing that I say amen to that I say okay okay then I say just keep living eh thank you did you know there's something to be gleaned from living life how did you get that frame of reference like that? very useful, but I don't think most people have it, you know, I don't know exactly where I got it from.

I mean, I would say again, remember that Australian year where I had no choice and I was forced to do it. situation and I saw the green light of being alone and quite alone um, I think there is great value in being alone and if we are alone and we get bored and we don't like company, let that light go off to say That doesn't mean we should get up our phone to get attention or go to the bottle to relieve anxiety or go online to receive feedback to entertain ourselves. No, it's actually a good time to say no, to sit here with that discomfort long enough. go well until you come out the other side go well I'm fine with me again now is part of what I write about when I talk about traveling in general, ideally you don't go somewhere you don't I always say that, no, I don't want to leave a place I travel to until I get to the point of leaving.

I could live here, this could be my existence and as soon as I get to that point, then I'll be there. like, okay, now you're leaving, I can go, that's the same in personal trips, keep it up until you get over the awkward and awkward moments until you leave, you know what I can spend time with myself. I could do this. I could do it forever. then it's okay to recommit, pick up your phone, go see your friends, go out for a drink, what have you done?, look for those things that are other relationships in life, but hopefully not until it's big. value not doing that until you leave.

I'm fine with me and me for now why do you chase things that scare you why do you go for the role that's hard because it cost me something because it cost it has a price it's a bit along those lines don't pick a fight kit it's not really a fight unless that you can lose it is not really what you know no, it is not really a risk unless you can lose the fight I feel more alive in them I have an experience in their realization I am nervous every day I come to work, I feel that when I achieve a day and I hit it, I know, I feel like yeah, I have a measure at the end of the day, like you set out to do something, you prepared for it, you had intention and I did it and maybe I even found some magic in the day that I sleep well knowing that I managed that day to build the architecture of a character's arc through the story and if I could put it all together and it would come out complete.

The whole performance turns out to be a beautiful song, an original song by that character, so I say yes and I know that I was very responsible for that, I was not the only one responsible but the most responsible for that and that gives me the pleasure it gives me. The gratification that it makes me feel gives me importance that gives me confidence if I don't achieve it and I have a day when I think oh no, you never did it and it was my fault, even so I would prefer with these types of roles I can look at myself in the mirror and go, so guess who's responsible, don't take it away from you in the same way when I'm going to guess who's responsible, I like to know who you are and and also it was again the work that challenged The vitality of my life Dramatic roles allow him the actor to have as high a ceiling or as low a basement from love to hate, from happiness to pain, as that particular actor wants to contribute.

That's what's intrinsically beautiful about dramas, okay? the part that you are playing the role, how are you going to emulate that person through yourself? um, that's something vital that I feel, that makes me sweat, that makes me sleep better at the end of the day, that gives me a sense of accomplishment, I'm like yeah, I did what I intended to do, I prepared myself so it was ready, oh , the day didn't come out, I thought it was going to come out, but I called audibles on the way, signed up and still told the truth. my man, the character that gratification feels good incredible is the stupidest word the dictionary should never come out of our mouths think about it to say oh wow what an incredible work uh it was an incredible book an incredible movie an act of incredible courage it really can being spectacular can be phenomenal excellent or outstanding but incredible give more credit to others and yourself it just happened what you witnessed it you just did it you believe it give credit to your obstacles that there is a responsibility in freedom and that there is freedom in responsibility you know and earn your way there we remember the things we earn the things we experience more than what the teacher tells us or what someone gives us for free we just do it, we sweat proverbially whether it be mental or physical or whatever we want we build it ourselves , we understand, we feel how we got it, how we achieved it, how we got what we wanted, those that stay with us, whether we forget them intellectually, were written into our lineage and they build resilience and they build a true and healthy optimism.

I'm going forward to know that oh no I've worked for something before and achieved it delayed gratification oh there are decisions I can make today for myself that will pay off later in life so there are decisions we make if you're I'm going to say right now I'm going to lie, cheat and steal to get what I want and I got it I have an immediate green light for me that's a battery powered green light that's not a solar powered green light why because everywhere now I go, I have to look over my shoulder to see if there's anyone there that I lied to, I stole from, I stole from them and I'm doing that, I'm stealing whose time it is, my time now, I'm not freedom, I'm not free, I do not have freedom I did not create freedom in my future because I chose to be it I committed an irresponsible act that left crumbs now I have reasons to look over my shoulder and the more things we do to create in our future that We have to look over our shoulder how much more of the most precious thing we have in our life time we are stealing from ourselves so it's not puritanical it's like it's actually selfish it's a very selfish choice um and I'm a fan of the word selfish , I've read it helped redefine it, um, but I think there are selfish decisions that we can make that are the most selfless. that there are selfless decisions we can make that are the most selfish.

Those two are not a contradiction and we see them that way responsibility is the appreciation of a past it is the construction of a lineage it is investing in ourselves it is investing in something that we began to build yesterday and that we want to carry into tomorrow there is an answer that gives us freedom