Pastor Paul Enenche’s Wife, Advices Married Couple against Keeping Secrets.

Number four, no

secrets

, don't keep

secrets

from each other and men, my husband and I don't have passwords on our phones. I can choose his phone, he can choose my phone because we have nothing to hide, you choose his husband's phone. anyway, are you looking for the text message you sent him? It's your own copy of your phone. Any other information. This information is personal. Why worry about your affairs? Just to keep you away from anything, but the bottom line is don't keep secrets. one from the other mommy mommy let me start by saying that I really love Pastor Becky Enenke and her husband Pastor Paul and Angel because apart from all their ministry I feel that they are a loving

couple

, you understand that it is not easy to have this type of relationship.

After 20-odd years of marriage, Deborah Nature is her first daughter and your brother just got

married

and his parents are always Mushy Mushy, always on top of each other. Listen, you can't fake this, so now when mom goes up to the pulpit to talk to

married

women, I was hoping she wouldn't go in the direction she went I feel like the sermon was or that point was actually contradictory she was saying one thing and saying the other maybe he was trying to create a balance but it just didn't work out now this is someone who, as far as we can see, has a good marriage, you can't fake this, after 20 something years, you still have time to pair up with your husband, take photos of Goofy after church, like some people might say it's for the floor, but I say you can't fake it.

This kind of thing at least not for that long, I don't know, but now let's get to the point where she was telling her husband and her that they don't have a password so she can go to his phone, he can go to his phone, you get it. Tell the woman who has a password, her husband who has put 17 guard locks on her spoon, who probably feels that maybe he is cheating on her or something, not to check the phone because look what he said at the end he said what are you looking for and I am asking mom why there is something there.

The truth is that many people listen to Pastors Hook Line and Sinker. They also don't have the wisdom to feel that Canada is okay. These shepherds are human beings and sometimes they speak with their mouths. Maybe not. what God told them or they make mistakes in what they say, that's all, so I'm just talking about those women who will listen to everything that Pastor Becky has said in this video. I feel like something is wrong with them for trying to check on their husbands maybe because he is cheating on them or something or even cheating lips living Fidelity talks about maybe money financing there are some women whose husband has so much and they don't know it because they haven't even checked the phone, do you understand that maybe something could happen to them? him or not, if something happens to them, maybe the woman herself is suffering when her husband is enjoying a lot, you understand?

Maybe she had the check phone, she'll see that, oh, we actually have money, so like you do, you have the conversation based on the new data you found. Pastor Becky said what are you looking for, mind your business, no ma No ma, your husband is your business as much as your

wife

is your business. Look, when it comes to a

couple

, this privacy issue can be tricky for me, which it is. private, this is someone you are sharing your entire body with, which is more private than your body, if you can share your entire body with someone as a spouse, this phone is a phone that can be lost, well I don't know why people Take this complete format. in the head like she said the old man doesn't have a password you don't have a password I felt like this message should have been directed at men, what are you hiding in that phone?

No, but it's very easy to blame women and tell only women what to do to keep their homes like this. He is someone who apparently has a good marriage. You would have focused that entire sermon on What are you hiding in that phone? Why can't your

wife

see your phone? Why can't your wife? um you know, you have access to your phone and see what he hides from you, what he hides the same way your husband doesn't hide anything from you, man, the same way you don't hide anything from your husband. , that's what this symbol should have been. about, I know she was saying no secrets, no secrets, but after saying no secrets, you're still going to go and tell women not to check your husband's phone, that contradicts the whole secret part you said because yeah, For example, a woman is checking her out. her husband's phone where there is no secret, so there is nothing that she sees that will hurt her.

Do you understand what I'm saying? So women can't take these kind of pictures that you take with your husband with respect, mom, because of the kind of burden that they have in the heart and the kind of what they call, the kind of pain that they have seen in that phone, they can never allow them to be around the demand and smell they can't and you are enjoying it. I am very happy for this family that is enjoying all this joy. because it's no secret so it should be preached in a lane clearly telling men to stop saving things on their phones it will make wives angry when they find out, telling women to stop saving things on their phones they will make wives angry to their husbands when they find out. don't ask women what you're looking for what you're not looking for many women don't just check phones.

Of course, there are women who started checking their phones perhaps because they had an intuition or a change in behavior on the part of their spouse. or in the woman the man saw a change in the woman or the woman saw a change in the wife in the husband better said and this man has changed or this woman has changed what is the problem and they are asking and there is no answer maybe the The only way they would find out is maybe they check the phone and see something and some people have seen things that made the marriage chain, maybe when they see something they say ah I don't like the way this is going and now it stops but you say no.

Check the phone because what are you looking for? What should be there when their past picked the other person's phone to check as you respectfully said in your sermon? Mom, the person should not see anything that makes her heartbroken and that is, by the grace of God, what you have with your husband. I hope you understand. I think that's where someone should have gone to not tell the women. Oh, it's no secret, but don't tell your colleagues what your husband told you. but women shouldn't check their husband's phone because what is he looking for? Mind your business with respect ma your husband's phone is your business your wife's phone is your business let us leave this privacy Master with respect because like you said there shouldn't be anything there that whenever you dial it you should break your heart that's where that's how it's supposed to be that's the goal of marriage you understand that's the goal of the relationship is something that breaks your heart or worries you so you can't talk about it understand but don't say oh don't check but no. you know it won't kill you what people don't know they have killed are women who by not checking her husband's phone probably had a disease that infected her don't tell her and she was indulging and maybe she probably died from the whole thing what she didn't know if ma what she shouldn't know kill that if you haven't seen these types of stories in view as I'm sure she and you If you know the number of women who really trust

pastor

s' wives, you will be surprised, well that even if you haven't seen this kind of thing physically, you don't see Nollywood.

African magic has given us these types of stories time and time again. again ladies and gentlemen, that's not all your

pastor

says, believe who Clan and sink in respectfully, know that even though your pastor is the man of God, he is a man and sometimes they may not say the things that are correct or that do not convey the message correctly. maybe things were right in his heart but this message this this clip just to see it I don't think it went the way it's supposed to be we don't always have to blame women all the time because you know all the bad things happen in marriage but let me know your thoughts are in the comments section be respectful in your comments I know your thoughts are in the comments section it's the real show I appreciate you for watching like share and subscribe follow us on our Facebook page I'll see your on my next video goodbye