Hookup Culture and Internet Fraud featuring Dr Foy | S3 EPS13

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It is actually very pertinent that we discuss this at this time because we live in a society where it would be like saying that people don't do it. excuses for vices and this has not become normal because people feel like they see a trend or not, that's what it's supposed to be like now we're discussing

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when we talk about hookup culture, we're talking about where you know, people have casual sex because they feel something about it or this is what they want to do and it's just, I mean, it's their business, it's not your decision. , nothing like that, that's what they do when we.

Talking about the Internet flow, we are talking about how people you know take advantage of other people's vulnerability and some people think that you are too smart to cash in on other people and take advantage of them. Now it is the president who is discussing this because in The demographics of the population of Nigeria today it has so many young people and these young people desperately need people to guide them, role models to lead them down the path that they can, in turn, become. into better people, add value to themselves and add value. Unfortunately for society, it is now a struggle and people are really struggling to explore their potential to achieve maximum effects and give back to society, so we are asking a very important question: are people who fall into this category? victims of maybe? circumstances beyond their control, bad government and the failure of the economy or is it just greed, thank you, I think personally, because I mean, when you ask, I mean, when you talk and then you ask if it's the government's fault.

Or is it simply greed? I mean, something that came to mind is Holland, Sweden, Finland and other countries where they then close their prisons because there is no crime, no, there are different angles that you can look at this. I'm going to talk about Yahoo's culture first. I think the government also has a role to play. There are many people who, if you give them the basic things, have no need to steal. If you give them the basic things, if you have them. the basics yes Naya has the basics everyone has the basics um there's nothing you can use to make this person feel like you're not a ball there's nothing you can use to make this person physically this person not be the ball I know good day take it or leave it people who get into this Yahoo or fraud and all those things most of the time they do them because they want to say oh mom I did it oh look at me now I say it now if you don't see where the people are where they pressure you to you do that you won't do it now if you go to the UK people get money a lot of people have money in fact I think the second or third country with the biggest billionaires you understand in the world the young canine passes now um um for the UK, it doesn't matter how much money you get, go watch them sit there for one, although they are a normal house, but if not, Nigeria only gets more 200 million per account, you go close to the streets, no.

I'm just saying yeah, just get little 200s compared to other people. You understand that it is tight compared to other types of people. Some people only get small 200 million for accounts. You go to CC, then you close the whole street, you build this one, and then you go to the Instagram page. they tell you how they wake up I woke up flawless they could say I woke up then I give them this for bed do this do that put it on social media before something happens you start yes, this season is the way to Wow, it means that only a little, if you eat on Monday afternoon and evening, you start thinking about doing what you shouldn't do.

In other words, personally, I think the economy, the country, also has a very important role to play. by making people in Resort commit fraud and Nigeria is the case study, Baba is so bad that it's like the country is even pushing you to commit fraud, that's the good thing, it's like secretly pushing you to go without seeing you. I'm just You see, we're just speaking for everyone across the spectrum, that's what we're talking about, sometimes you're going to see the girl who will hustle with little money, open a store, for example, Lagos in her shopping store, now she It doesn't say okay, maybe now connect. she receives the money, she herself does not say that I could connect for six months or a year, as the case may be, I should make a connection for a year, open a store, another connect a cleaning, maybe 200 000.

Precisely, open this . just leave them there, she could just open the store, then I should open this, this task force will come to collect this, this tax was going to come to collect this, this one will come to collect this, the customers not even until they come, now go and push. go to your shop you understand lekki wall street is a commercial street that's why i just said whatever you understand so something new happens all those things go this point will charge publicity this this bill billing to the clients do not even come to them, you will consider that the content can say one Me for a month, my power is 500,000.

Meanwhile, if I delete in a week I do not earn two million, what would you think? When you talked about seeing Nigeria in my young country. The first thing we say is that our average age is 19 years 19 19 years, so 64 of Nigerians are under 22 years old. So can I give you context number one? If hookup culture day in 1987 was five percent, now it's 45, okay because of Internet penetration, yeah, that's one, two, if the Internet was Ford, you know this, um, bro, what happens now? They do it fraudulently, so everything has been amplified, that's the first thing, but the second thing is that they have been waiting since before, since the time of Jesus, until now, waiting, they inform people. by influencing, yes, human beings learned by influence, no one, not even Jesus, got disciples, influencing them, they even die, yes, yes, so the influence began before the Roman Empire, it has been influenced by the influence of the German people, so that now the influence is there, so I would say that I will not bring the government in first. but I will say that the first thing is that we need to get new influences, we need to get new influences because these kids live on digital television, yes, digital radios, Spotify, and all they see is that this is the only way to do it and what I know What do you see, you become, you become, I'm talking about that influence, have you ever met someone and he does something that's really bad, it feels so cool, but I remember two years ago, okay, it seemed like soap was masturbation, yeah, that's what's honestly juicy? children, so, apart from soap, apart from that, I'm not judging, you know, yes, but influencing is so key, you see this influence, wait for a talk, they are girls, you see, a girl who was from nine to five costs 250 thousand , you know his bag is 10 millionaire barking breaking no, now I'm not, now you understand Benz, yes, I live in lekki, here you see guys, I mean my 30, which is 22.

They are splashing how we dance like a man, but that's what you understand. So think about the 19-year-old next. He has seen that number one social media makes you a king. Number two likes make you a celebrity. The followers follow us. Number three for a girl to spend the money to go get the. money for money and spending money, yeah, and most of these young girls I saw an interview I saw in this particular interview on Tick Tock, they asked that, uh, the Yahoo guy or the nine to five guy is everywhere. and these girls, most of them, they choose the thing about The glamor of old boys, you're always like I remember and I haven't done it today, but I know Yahoo, boy, they spoiled their babies and they spoiled them by the way they that come closer, yes, they spoil them like their parents, which makes me see again. something that's bad and how they make you feel really how they make you feel great before I mentioned I was going to say something weird yeah he's an artist he does whatever to make money and that's fine yeah and that lifestyle in itself is.

He's already super flashy, he's an artist, the cars are pretty cool, he doesn't even really like the show. I wanted to say something, let me say something now, the naramale thing, I know it's stupid, he knows I was one of the first people who got so irritated with it. song, that's not to say it's a bad song, but personally, in my opinion, everyone has one for me. It was irritating now to come to show the influence of that song we were filming once, husband material, we are filming parodies, it was part of a dop he wasn't wearing belts an older man and guess what this guy was very serious yeah he wasn't joking now it's very useful to tell you that this influential thing that makes people do what they're not supposed to do to you go see the person, go burn Mali, Google to do things won't even make sense and this takes us also to what he said use it you go through lekki someone once again boy Drive bench made that video where I see um for social media recently.

We, someone you interview, we ask you, say what is that if I ask you to make a wish now what is that wish yes yes what is it if you had a wish you had a wish that would come true now what do you do? Say girl first Say I want to buy hair Yes, now wait, you'll never go far I'll ask you for hair once the iPhone 4. Guess what she asked the boy. He said yes, so it's influencing the influence of him and another thing that he wanted to say about. it's the same influence that influences hush puppies you know how people in the comments section you know people visit the comments section of Hush Puppies like they're going to say oh Baba, we miss you, when are you going to come back now to think that there young children in your name?

You see Escobar, yes, this Excavation where you talk, yes, all that in influence you also make me call even uh and remember that one when he said that almost all the boys now where a show girl says oh, because most of the girls now are moved by what they see moves them. for the money you give them or whatever all these things most not all girls most girls most girls okay the numbers are higher than most girls it's just because of the money and it what do you see, yes, thatYou were used to it, that's the seed that the mother had planted now but the choice because I don't think it will get to the point where you are like I'm begging you, okay, give me an hour.

I'll add one thing, but I'll add one, okay, the seed, the choice can. add one more thing, okay, the environment, the environment amazing, the environment, if you do, if they smoke, your body goes, my smoke, your choice would be the weekend, yes, but if you didn't use the CD, but the character of the plant, yes, your choice, then, seed, chosen environment, it works. so that is the seed environment to speak my environment yes environment yes then we can also say that you know that seed that is planted after a while people start to make decisions and people debate but then people start to live in the printed pretension of who they are exactly. that's why they are girls and their prostitutes that's why there are people who stand in the way and with their chests full they have nothing to lose people who are prostitutes but with a seed planted that they don't want to be dishonor their family so they can do it privately, you know, come and deliver to someone, he says he wants to deliver soup, if you buy these clothes, I will go and deliver them myself, if I deliver them myself it's 25k, come on, that's what we all think about. something called a reward chemical and that's dopamine dopamine yeah this is a funny thing you feel Harry some people when they have sex they feel words when they make money so people when they drink so be it Warehouse oh hey at the end of this season.

I will say that just think about it biologically when you go on a trip how she feels think about the biology in her mind think about let's not judge her quickly let's say how you like it have you lost everything that is giving you what it is? what are the chemicals then the one who is hiding, eh, don't judge quickly, what if it's money that motivates him? Yes, you know, the street, isn't it money? It's a different concept, no, it's not levels, standing on the road is supposed to make you feel more ashamed, his wife. I always said something never go for the simple answer never for the simple answer it's always more there's more the word reward I could have lost something there's always more I feel like there's nothing left to lose if you're ready to strip away your dignity and just prostitute your way I'm not worthy of the clever people looking at me, anyone, yes, and I stand in the way and say I'm a prostitute, this is my business, you come and pay me, I have my rules, I probably won't go to your house with you, you come to me, blah, blah, blah, now everyone Those who know me know that I am now on the path.

I'm not that person that he hides, she hides because her parents don't want to, they don't need to know that she has sex for money. and she hides and it's clear that it's a risk but those who are in the way and those who hide in the way but tell me what is more embarrassing than having all the people everywhere think that you are a good girl and find out about that. you've been doing things and they finally catch you or you probably die in the process or something and you die shamefully at least you died I'm speaking for the prostitutes that are in the way I'm not in the way I'm not a prostitute the ones that are in the way this is what I do this is why I do it and you know it and then it's the others who are literally prostituting themselves probably don't stand aside even more they are exactly the ones who are in the way and act as if they themselves are earning money on the road because they have something to lose, while those who are standing on the road no longer have anything to lose, that's what I'm saying I'm sweating that's why they hide that's another issue I mean if they know that their parents and those things that their peers are going to see is because they don't want that why you do it they are the ones who are in the way yes, yes, what do you have to say about marketers?

Yeah, I don't know, marketers are working backwards and marketers are working backwards, no, if they sneak around to do something I don't know. I would classify them as prostitutes who hide and deny. Are you saying there are more prostitutes on the road? There are more clever prostitutes than those standing on the road. Do the math. We need to emphasize that having the conversation itself is an issue is a pointer in the right direction, this is something that some people feel, you know, it has become part of our society, we just have to adapt and manage and deal with it, but the truth is a very important influence as a parent, who are the people?

So, for example, you as an adult, who do you admire as a doctor? Thank you thank you thank you. Thank you very much, tremendous understanding of this conversation, thank you, Lagos elder sister, elder aunty, yes, thank you very much, guys, thank you very much, share your comments we are definitely going to have a second part of this conversation and I mean make suggestions, tell us what you would like to hear and we will definitely make sure to bring that to life. Thank you so much, goodbye.