Update zu Clemens Arvay

so darlings this is now a third video about Clemens but it still hasn't been 24 hours since I found out he died and as you probably have seen he is very close to me because he just turned one year old at least what I am very very close and I accompanied him as a friend, he was very close and I think I also understood him well in his vulnerability, in his sensitivity, in his longing for discussion speech that was actually denied, now I made two videos of the affection that was authentic but from my point of view they have partly caused the wrong reactions because I don't want and they wouldn't come for us to respond aggression with aggression so we want then I say now we don't want to increase hate on the net topics is from my point of view a victim of hate on the network and if I stick to that from the published opinion, I think so I contacted him or vice versa I was contacted by people who know another part of Clemens' life than me, it could be that Clemens kept changing his circle of friends, I have not met anyone who I have accompanied you for years it is possible that there is someone like that so write me but I have a lot now I have offers to speak with people who are of a different perspective in a different window of time and that is why I would like to take my time now for the obituary that always i have planned but i would like to ask you, don't answer hate with hate, please don't increase hate on the network that already exists, especially from those who suffered so well from the vein and Clemens was rushed, that is certainly the case, but If we speed up the rush now, what's the point?

So I thought about it for a moment. At the moment I think the comments will be no that is useless either but I want you to call us to cry in silence first because we all do not know everything a suicide that took a person in his deep despair that life is always terrible and my experience with suicide it's that aggression happens very quickly, so it arises. I can remember that I was not a psychiatrist for a long time and I was invited to give a lecture in a city in Styria that had the highest suicide rate in Austria at that time and then you had a friend receive a tripartite on suicide translated on the suicide how can you argue if you call it that but anyway and this event was so aggressive that I didn't say anything wrong or anything, but this topic is so charged because it is like that because it affects us humans in such an incredible way, that's why I think It's important to calm down now, to be personal, and today I found a passage that I want to read to you one and I already read it to Clemens and he looked at me with his beautiful eyes and he looked at me and he thought it was good that's a passage that has been very close to my heart for a long time we have also used it is in our married life so this is a passage from paul from 1 corinthians to the hour hungry and thirsty we walk in rags and are beaten with fists and we have no home so this really it's about being mistreated i keep quoting we keep busy and work with our own hands we will come now we will be abused and blessed we will be abused and blessed we are persecuted and we stand our ground we are reviled and comforted we have become the scum of the world rejected by everyone to this day, so to speak, so I think it's an incredibly good point, namely that you don't have to respond to aggression with aggression, but rather you have to work things out through the gross injustice that it happened around Clemens.

I will also solve it calmly, but I ask you to accompany me. On this path of de-escalation, it may be that my videos have invited escalation, for this I would also like to apologize and because I don't want any escalation, we have too many escalations in this world, we have to escalate them, we have to bring peace, but we have to point out what is wrong, so what's wrong, we shouldn't just allow ourselves to be socially butchered, so to speak, to the extent that I think that would be in a Clemens sense, but now I read an e-mail one of the last ones that you wrote that was shown to me and that also motivated me to hit the pause button again and and to help calm things down let's cry easy we all don't know everything we never know everything about a suicide so even psychiatrists are often surprised by a suicide that isn't that It's not always surprising because it's simply an internal decision of the person in their great desperation, sometimes it's even like that people usually feel relieved at first and apparently it makes them feel better so calm down get off I say to myself it brings peace the climb anyway fix what happened here i know

clemens

has suffered a lot under which we were treated i know very well and that's why it's desperate that he won't be allowed to fix things i know he wrote me he could have told me but

clemens

always he was for understanding for reconciliation and not for that Escalation and in this sense this is now my preliminary obituary for Clemens.

I am now disconnecting the other two videos. because from my point of view they partly triggered the wrong emotions and that was not intended and at the end I asked the audience to stand up in Wels and then we silently prayed an Our Father for Clemens I held a book by him in my hand and lit candles that was very nice is what he was right and it was very peaceful and in that sense we want to keep Clemens in our memory peacefully as a person who loves peace who is not worried about escalations and arguments, he is not worried about the bulimia that I can be sure best regards