PART ONE: The Interesting Marriage Advice Tiny Got…Would You Rather Have Love or Security?

The singer Tiny, who we know and

love

, yes, here many times she was on her husband's podcast. It's called quickly, which makes sense if you know how to be. I'm sawdust and all she really said was that she got this

advice

from who they called Mom. joy, who is Candis or aunt joy candies mom, you know that you saw it, yeah, okay, uh, and that she came to ask this

advice

years ago when she was sixteen or seventeen and she said that when you get married, you should get married not for

love

but for safety? that's exactly fine, I

have

to ask you if you agree or disagree and what does this splitting thing mean, why can't you

have

both, but yeah, why can't we have breasts?

Well I'm asking what does that mean, love or

security

for me for me when I look at the word love, I've learned through divorce now and

marriage

then, that love can't stand

marriage

like you, it won't laugh It won't even save your hair, here we explain why the love of cheese and the circumstances of life make your feelings change. So when she says

security

, I don't think she's referring only to money because I

would

n't have heard that since I was little, but for me I already said before that I really like relationships that make you feel secure yes and to me if she means security it is that they are loyal because love is not loyal I love him loyalty is very different committed honest and having a job actually helps to be yes so therefore the security will last because you can fall out of love and sometimes those other attributes will make you feel It's more fundamental in a marriage.

I believe i know it. I think it depends on how you define love. It's okay, because to me love means feeling safe. You know what I mean? There are many people who think they are in love. Well, they love. its different types of love sometimes people think that love is like emotions and feelings, you know? I think love is more complex, yes, and I think it's important to like the person, yes, because you can love someone, yes, and not really like who they are. but I love it when you like the person and then you fall in love with them, does that make sense?

Yes, you can be friends with that person without even being in love with them and still like who they are, so I think there is a difference. I actually agree with what you're saying Tam because I think the reason I Like is so important is that I have actually been in love with someone who I later realized I didn't like and I have been in love with people who had no chemistry and no compatibility with the right and that is why I say that love can sometimes being fleeting, yes, it's when you have other fundamental things that need to be secured, yes, to make you feel committed to the relationship, yes, but I.

I also feel like the advice came from someone from a different generation where security for many women simply meant societal financial expectations that relationships were supposed to bring diamonds, you know you had to marry someone who

would

take care of the money because you had limitations in terms of what he could do for his own money on his own economically I could argue that there is something wrong, but I think the security, like you said, like Tim's, there are different ways to define love, there are different ways to define love. define security, like me. a time in my life when I don't need you to have money like money doesn't make me feel secure having confidence in yourself