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PART ONE: The Interesting Marriage Advice Tiny Got…Would You Rather Have Love or Security?

PART ONE: The Interesting Marriage Advice Tiny Got…Would You Rather Have Love or Security?
singer

tiny

which we know and

love

yes in here a bunch of times she actually was on her husband's podcast it's called expeditiously which makes sense if you know how to be i sawdust and all she actually said that she got this

advice

from who they called mama joy who is Candis or aunty joy candies mom you guys know you seen yeah okay uh and that she came for this

advice

years ago when she was like sixteen or seventeen and she said when you get married you need to marry not for

love

but for

security

that's exactly okay I

have

to ask you guys do you agree or disagree and what does this even mean to split why can't you get both but yeah why can't we

have

boobs okay well I'm asking what does that mean

love

or

security

for me for me when I look at the word

love

I've learned through divorce now and

marriage

at the time that

love

cannot withstand

marriage

like you it will not laugh and save your hair here's why

love

to cheese and circumstances in life make your feelings change so when she says

security

I I don't think she means just money because I

would

n't hear that from

tiny

but for me I've already said before that I really like relationships that make you feel safe yes and to me if she means

security

is they're loyal because

love

is not loyal

love

it loyalty is very different committed honest and having a job actually helps to be yes then therefore

security

will last because you can fall out of

love

and sometimes those other...
part one the interesting marriage advice tiny got would you rather have love or security
attributes will make you feel more foundational in a

marriage

I think which I know I think it depends on how you define

love

okay because to me

love

means feeling safe do you know what I mean there are a lot of people though that think they're in

love

well they

love

their different types of

love

sometimes people think of

love

just as like emotions and feelings do you know I think

love

is more complexion yes and I think that it's important to like the person yeah because you can

love

someone yeah and not truly like who they are but I

love

when you like the person and then you fall in

love

with the person does that make sense yes you could be friends with them without even being in

love

with them and you'd still like who they are so I think there is a difference I actually agree with what you're saying Tam because why I think like is so important is that I've actually been in

love

with somebody that later on I realized I didn't like and I've been in

love

with people that I did not

have

chemistry with and I did not

have

compatibility with right and that's why I say that

love

can sometimes be fleeting yeah is when you

have

other fundamental things that needs to secure you yeah to make you feel committed to the relationship yeah but I also feel like the

advice

was coming from someone from a different generation to where

security

for a lot of women simply did mean financially social expectations that relationships were supposed to bring diamond you...
part one the interesting marriage advice tiny got would you rather have love or security
know like you had to marry somebody that's gonna take care of money because you had limitations in terms of what you could do for your own money for your own economically might defend there's something wrong but I think that

security

like you said like Tim's like there's different ways to define

love

there's different ways to define

security

like I'm at a point in my life where I don't I don't need you to

have

money like money doesn't make me feel secure securing you

have

security

in yourself