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MY FIRST Q&A OF THE YEAR

MY FIRST Q&A OF THE YEAR
hey guys so for today's video i am going to be doing a i thought this would block the sun but not really i'm going to be doing a q a video i asked y'all to ask me questions literally this was december and i just never filmed this q a video so i'm here today and i actually had to write down the questions in my notebook since i don't have ari's ipad because normally i would read them like off my ipad or off the computer or something but i had to write them down while i was in school today because i was like let me film this video real quick before i go get ahri so i'm gonna jump straight into these questions because i do have to get ari like right now but i want to film this video before i get her so the

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question that you guys asked me is do you want to be a full-time youtuber or do you see yourself being full-time i would love to be a full-time youtuber but it's just not enough money right now which is why i don't do youtube full-time i kind of just post videos when i have the chance to when i can um about a month ago i was posting pretty consistent for you guys almost like every other day but recently i've been more busy than usual so that's why i haven't been posting as much as i normally would but like i said i would love to do youtube full-time so i am still gonna try to be consistent and still post for y'all but i'm not to where i could just like not make any kind of money and just do youtube full-time like...
my first q a of the year
because youtube is you only get one check a month and right now my checks that i get a month don't even be enough to cover my full car note if that gives y'all an idea of how much i'll be making i don't really make that much off youtube of course there's good months and there's bad months i really don't see myself ever doing youtube full-time but i do see it as like a side hustle because in my day-to-day life i don't really want to be a full-time youtuber just because if i didn't have other stuff going on there would be nothing for me to talk about if you guys get what i'm saying like i'm i want to do nails i want to bart i want to be a bartender i want to be a dental assistant i want to be an esthetician as well like there's so many things that i want to do in my life that i could never see myself just being on youtube full time but of course as a side hustle to show y'all what i like i like to document my life because for one i like to look back at it and then two i know there's plenty of y'all who can learn from me and learn from my mistakes so that's why i like to make youtube videos i mean y'all didn't ask why i like to make youtube videos but i'm telling y'all anyways why i like to make youtube videos i'll get on here talk about my entire life with y'all and i just feel like it it's entertaining for y'all for one y'all can learn from me um i could be like your big sister...
my first q a of the year
your teacher some um and yeah so like i just i like making youtube videos for y'all um next question best memory are my best memory with ari let's see let's see let's see best memory with ari not too long ago i took her to chuck e cheese and i think that's the most recent memory that i can think about that was pretty fun and i would do it all over again we went to chuck e cheese and it was just so we went to well

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we went out to outback we went out to eat together and then we went to chuck e cheese and it was just so much fun to get to spend good quality time with her out and about because normally we're just stuck in the house and we're always on each other's devices or just really in the house we don't really do too much we kind of like read a book here and there play with dolls do some blocks color but it going out it's like refreshing so i guess that would be my best memory with her so far i know there's other good memories with her but now that she's older they're it's more fun because she can have a whole conversation with me and she's just more interactive and more fun so yeah how do you keep your confidence high um honestly i'll be having days where i feel ugly but i honestly like i'm just so comfortable with my own self that i feel like i don't need to like i don't have to fix my hair for me to be confident i don't have to like do too much for me to feel confident because i'm so...
my first q a of the year
like comfortable in my own body in my own skin that it doesn't to me it doesn't matter what the i look like like and honestly i used to be very very insecure when i was younger very very insecure i would not go nowhere with my hair like this when i was younger i was so insecure i felt like i had to look a certain way but after being with louis for so long like if i just kind of realized like if he accepts me for any way that i look why do i not accept myself for any way that i look so i kind of kind of just made me like like just be more comfortable with myself i guess i feel like being in a relationship taught me how to be more comfortable myself and not be so insecure like of course i have my days where i'm like oh i look so ugly but if i just don't look in the mirror then it doesn't really bother me but i don't i don't feel like i'd be coming on here like my confidence is high i guess it just depends on like how i look that day how i feel then that'll make me more confident but overall i feel like i'm a pretty confident person in general when it comes to like looks or my mindset so i don't really know how to keep your confidence high i don't know what to tell y'all to keep your confidence high but i just know for myself the number one key to being confident was just me being comfortable with the way that i am naturally like y'all know i used to wear makeup i used to do my eyebrows i used to dye my hair different...
colors new hairstyle all the time like it's because i wasn't confident with the way that i look naturally so like i always was trying to change up my look and to get something new but i feel like the key to being confident or to keeping your confidence high is just number one you need to be comfortable with yourself and you have to accept the way you are before you i feel like you have to accept the way you are before you can be confident in yourself you have to accept the way you are naturally before you can be confident in yourself if that makes sense does that make sense i hope it makes sense um what is something you teach your daughter about life one major thing that i definitely want to teach her is to not chase boys because like you have your whole life time to change boys and i feel like that's where i messed up at i mean i didn't really mess up because like my life is fine with louis and ari but dating boys in high school definitely does distract you and shakes it up and makes you not be focused on what you need to get done so i would definitely like tell her like boyfriends there would be plenty of time to meet boys have boyfriends and hang out with guys but i think i want i don't want her to be boy crazy because me i was boy crazy y'all i literally i was boy crazy and i really don't already be like that at all so that's why i'm hoping like well i'm not hoping i know her dad's gonna be around but i want her dad to like show...
her like the utmost like love so that way she doesn't feel like she has to chase it in other guys or feel like she has to like find love at a young age because you don't you don't have to be in love at 15 16

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s old like you can worry about school go to college and then meet your love the love of your life later on so i don't know i feel like that's one major thing that i would teach her just because i feel like that's where i kind of that's what got me in the position that i'm in today being boy crazy me wanting to have a boyfriend so bad me wanting to be in love so bad and that's how i ended up with a baby at 17. what is your favorite part of doing nails my favorite part about nails is doing natural nails i really love to do manicures regular manicures gel manicures and pedicures i really like natural nail work way more than i do acrylics um only reason i do acrylics is because that's where the money is at right now especially for me and the people that i know i don't really have clientele that likes to wear their natural nails so i think it's more so i just need to find a good um clientele base that likes manicures and pedicures and that type of thing because you know girls nowadays they want acrylic toes acrylic feet long extendo nails and i love i love doing nail work in general i love doing the art of it but it's just it's so time consuming it hurts my wrist also so that's why i really love to do natural...
nails just because i'm a good polisher i really love to polish so that's why i do like doing natural nails y'all see me i wear my natural nails all the time just because i love to do my natural nails yeah i'm hoping eventually i can boost my my clientele will boost to women and men who like manicures and pedicures not just long extra long acrylic full sets like i don't know that's my favorite part about doing nails is natural nails um is being a teen mom as hard as people say um i feel like yes and no it can be hard depending on the way that you look at it but if you have a positive outlook on life then it won't be that hard and you will get through it um more so it was more so hard while i was in high school trying to parent trying to be a parent go to school and work that was where it was most hardest for me but i feel like once i got out of high school it was kind of like like i felt like i was free and it was one less thing on my back so i feel like being a team parent isn't hard i feel like being a teen parent is just like being a regular parent except you're a teenager and yeah you may not have everything together yet but parenting is parenting and whatever a rich parent is going to go through well let me rephrase that whatever an established rich freaking doctor or lawyer parent goes through is the same thing that a teen parent is going to go through in the aspects of raising a child so i just feel like it's only as hard as you...
make it um yeah i know people i know there's plenty of situations where people are not in the best situation and it can be really tough but with time it gets easier it does get easier um so it's kind of like a yes and no for this it's like yes it was very tough but once i got out of high school it was much more easier and even when i took that 11th grade

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off of school that

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was really easy for me as well because i didn't have to have school on my back as well as having a mom life and work so it's just the way it depends on the way you look at things i guess do i want any more kids um if i if you guys didn't know for those who don't know i found out i was pregnant 31st and i actually went to the clinic in the middle of january and i had um an abortion i took the abortion pill i told you guys i will make a story time in a my experience video about it but i wanted to wait till everything was over with um because you i just wanted to make i wanted to wait till the whole entire thing was over with it is now it's in the middle of february it's been almost a month and i'm still bleeding so i know somebody asked me when are you going to make the experience video i am going to make it but i like i said i want to wait till everything's like completely over with i have to take a pregnancy test in a couple days so i want to wait till everything's done with before i give my experience video but as of right now this point in my life...
i do not want any more kids mostly because i had to have a surgery and i feel like i my body is not fully healed from the

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time i had a c-section that i don't want to have to go through that again anytime soon um and me and lewis neither of us are ready to have another kid right now we kind of want to like live life with ari and you know take her places and travel a little bit before we add on another one so i mean i think that's pretty smart i don't really want to bring another child into a situation that i was i'm not ready for so i i don't really want kids but then again i would love to see ari have a sibling one day so it's kind of like i'm not sure i don't think i would have for the next at least three

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s i know for sure i don't want any kids i just want to focus on what i'm trying to do the business that i'm trying to start up and all that so yeah that's pretty much where i'm at i really don't know if i want kids but just at this point in my life i don't but maybe 10

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s from now my mind might change well not 10

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s from now i'm gonna be 30 hell nah we pushing 28 is the is the latest imma go if i don't have no kids by 28 then i'm i'm done okay can you start doing mukbangs yes i would love to do mukbangs um would y'all want to see me do mukbangs alone or with people because i would like to do mukbangs but i know y'all don't like to really hear me smack because y'all...
know i like i chew my mouth open i smack i don't have manners when it comes to eating and the table sorry i'm sorry that's just me i don't have manners and i can't help it like i'm gonna chew my mouth open i'm sorry i'm gonna smack i'm sorry like it's just gonna happen um next question what's some advice you give your younger subscribers advice to my young subscribers is to i would say focus on yourself and your goals don't let anyone stop you get in the way of what you're trying to accomplish um don't wait around for nobody get done when you know you need to get it done um i think be try your hardest in everything that you do in anything in life because it will it will turn into something good for you um staying positive definitely would be another thing make sure you stay positive because being negative can bring you down definitely it will bring you down so i think staying positive is definitely some good advice and like i said just staying focused staying motivated doing what you got to do not letting people get in your way and also don't take from nobody that's what i want to tell my young younger subscribers who is someone in your life that had a big impact on your life i would have to say the biggest impact on my life would either have to be my parents or louis i'm gonna say louis because he changed my life completely because he got me pregnant when i was 16 um i fell in love with him when i was like...
from the ages like 12 to like six 12 to like 17. i was in love with him the entire time even when i had different boyfriends i literally was so in love with him and i i literally remember telling my new boyfriends like hey i'm still in love with my ex so if he comes up at any moment i'm going to leave you for him and they would still date me and y'all like i don't know it was weird it was weird but i think he definitely had a big impact on my life because i fell in love with him and yeah like when peop when young people be saying oh you don't really know what love is but like no like that feeling that i would get when i was around him i knew that was love um of course throughout the

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s things have been up and down but yeah i would say he had the most impact on my life because like i guess we showed each other kind of what true love is not true love but like showing each other what real love is and we had a baby together so yeah i would say he's the biggest impact of my life because my life changed completely once i got with him when i was 16. so yeah last question is do you plan on living in the state you're in forever or moving somewhere else um i always tell myself i would never leave georgia just because i'm so used to georgia and the area that i live in is safe and i wouldn't mind raising my daughter here um and i kind of love my city like now that i'm getting older i like take pride i take pride in being where i'm from...
because it's like at night time when i just be driving down the highway and i just see all the stores and the lights and everything i'm just like dang this city is nice like it's kind of upper sk it's not upscale but it's like it's not like other cities like i feel like there's a lot there's a lot to do over here but growing up everybody was always like oh my gosh this city's so boring i hate being from here but like i love being from the city i feel like it's crazy like when people ask me where i'm from and i tell them i'm from here they'd be like really and you still here you never left like no i've been here my whole life just recently i actually the past couple

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s i've been like back and forth between two different cities but my entire life i grew up here and i love the city that i'm from i personally i mean louis i've talked about like moving i would really love to would love to move but my thing is i want to be completely like established and i also want to move to like a um a state that is recreational marijuana use just because like i feel like like the life that i want to live like i want to be in the car like just smoking a blunt well i don't know the limitations on smoking and driving but i would love to ride down the expressway with a blunt ashing it out the window with no problem but it's so like georgia is so like strict when it comes to like the weed laws like they don't play...
like they will take you in and not give a so it's like i just want to move somewhere where i know i can smoke and it not be no problem and yeah so i feel like if i were to move it would mostly i thought about moving to canada because canada free healthcare and fruit and legal weed for one that's like two big pluses because in georgia you have to to get free health care you have to qualify for it it's not even it's not even free technically because it comes out of everybody's taxes that the government pays for and then you still also they medicaid has to get reimbursed sometimes so it's like medicare is not free here going to the doctor dennis all that is not free and it's like it's only free to those who actually need it but then again it's not really free because it's coming out of your taxes every week every every paycheck is coming out of your taxes so it's like i don't know if i were to move like i said it would be somewhere i really like the south though i really love georgia for the the hospitality i love i love the southern hospitality i love the all i'm not being racist but i love the white people here are so nice y'all i love the country white people here they're so freaking nice i've worked at multiple waffle houses and seeing the groups of people that come in i just love the area down here because like i said the southern hospitality people hold doors for you people are so nice and there's plenty...
of people that i don't talk to who lived up north who say people will literally say you to your face in the street people will not hold the door for you slam that in your face like and y'all know i know y'all see videos of people in new york like they are rude they are they are wild and rude as that's why i love georgia because it's so at least the city i'm from it's so calm and it's like everybody's so nice like everybody's so nice like if you're from georgia and you grew up in georgia i promise you you're gonna hold the door from somebody you're not the type that's just gonna let the door slam in someone's face like that's what i love like i love and the little the women who'd be like honey sweetie baby like i love that down here so it's like i really wouldn't want to move anywhere up north for sure up north is crossed the out because i'm scared i'm scared of new yorkers no cap like y'all gonna stop me out with y'all's tim's and then the thick ass accent i love the accent but then again it's like what'd you say cause like sometimes i don't understand it sometimes i don't be understanding but yeah if i were to move like i said it it would probably be like in the midwest either it would either be on the midwest the west coast or somewhere down south i pro or east coast east coast for sure but not northeast if that makes sense or canada or canada those those are...
the places on my list if i were to move i wouldn't have a problem with doing it but yeah um that's pretty much the end of my q a video i hope y'all learned something new from me i hope you all enjoy this video i really want you guys to like comment and subscribe um lately i haven't really been commenting on my videos and i need you on a like and comment so y'all can and i want y'all to share my videos send them to your grandma send them to your grandpa freaking just share any of your favorite videos of mine just share it in a group chat with your family members or some like do it do it i want you to please and thank you guys um i hope you guys enjoyed this video i want y'all i did already say that i didn't say that but i'ma say it again like comment and subscribe tell me what you want to see next um i like i said i have to go get ari so i can't talk long so i will catch y'all in my next video bye