Love Island Winner Nathan Massey Reacts to the Death of Caroline Flack | Good Morning Britain

just a Honey Lancaster James who was a consultant on Love Island, we have to make a Love Island contestant and

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, Nathan Massey and Richard Arnold are also back, but Nathan, let's start with you, thanks for talking about anything we all know. In this business there are certain presenters of television shows that involve members of the public who once the cameras go off they say I'll be in my trailer and that's it and they turn off and no harshness is seen she was the complete opposite if she was as

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as the gold we laughed on and off camera she was always so funny and like I said we were at an awards ceremony I was ready to go home she was like that you're leaving now if I said I'm going "I've had so many beers and she said now come out, come with us or take Groucho as a young boy off a construction site to go to Groucho's and she made me feel welcome, you know, yeah and me.” I haven't encapsulated, I know she was always there with a flip of her hair and a hug exactly, that's 100 percent part of the phone and like I said, on and off when the cameras weren't rolling which was an absolute laugh , I imagine that because she didn't want you to have any negative experiences both during the taping of the show and afterwards, when she took you to Groucho's house and stuff, she would have hidden any of her anxieties and no, no, she was just bubbly, fantastic, yes, diamond, to be around an absolute, yes, great person, that's how we should remember her.

Of course, there are so many questions this

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and we all have to look at ourselves and how we behave, what we click on, what we care about. about why we do it, you know, there are a lot of questions this

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, who is to blame, I, I know, I have a family and our management is very angry, there is a lot of anger, others, there is a lot of anger from the people that Nero, you heard of Laurel. Whitmer is there, but Richard, he knew that he had never seen a photo like you guys together, let's have a moment to really rebel and celebrate Caroline Flack.

I mean, I knew her professionally, you know, and she obviously followed her career, which is, of course, my job. so I met her many times on the red carpet that particular summer day we were at a festival in London, she just appeared in between filming scenes for Love Ireland and the picture says it all, she not only sizzles, she absolutely you know . in company, she was extraordinary like that, she had that x factor, you know, and you know, every time she walked into a room, I know it's said about a lot of people, but with her it was definitely her USP, you know there was that kind of song free, she had so much energy, you know, an incredible spirit like that, those vulnerabilities, of course, in that fragile nature, she was so relatable, I mean, you like that you build, oh, you come on this show and it was a few years ago, So what was she?

Was it Caroline that attracted you so much as the host of the show and then someone you met? Someone like I said when the cameras were off, she would be like one of the

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ers, you know, I mean have a Laugh at us, we all laugh a lot from there. She was not starry, she was not snow. You have that thing that people associate with people in public and sometimes, quite correctly, I mean, we all know them. out there some of them come to you, we talked to you before, can I just repeat a question and for the benefit of the people who are enough to see this, you are a psychologist if you had access to it and you didn't because Joe, she He wasn't doing the program when you were his advisor.

If you had accessed it in the last few months, do you think you could have prevented this from happening? Do you think she could have been protected from the demons that were chasing her? and specifically those on social media and tabloid media, do you think you could have helped her? It's a very difficult question because I think whenever someone dies in such tragic circumstances, we all have a tendency to think: could she have done something? There is something that could have made a difference, we will never know the answer to that, but what I can say is that the people I work with regularly and who are in the public eye, know that it is so unpleasant to deal with the networking landscape social.

I think that relatively in its infancy all the tools for coping in a psychological sense are not yet regulated. I mean, yeah, I'm getting really depressed because of what I'm reading about myself on Twitter. Yes, could you tell me? One of the things I would say is First of all, understand that the way your brain works is that we actually tend to focus, even if you have ninety-nine percent of your messages, they are wonderful riches, you are wonderful, you get that one percent that is really horrible, unpleasant and you concentrate. and you concentrate on it now the brain gets irritable because we are social beings and it is looking for signs of social rejection.

The discipline. Nathan's not there. I mean, then you put yourself in front of the public. Know? and you met your partner and you're still together, right? So you have this kind of fame life, how did you find it? Can you relate to some of what we now understand and Carolina talked about? You know in these her anxieties that she had told him. You know, someone had asked her how she thought people misunderstood her and she responded that I think better of myself than maybe a little bit yes, but you can't shout that I'm not as confident as you think and in fact, people in the eye public are nothing and say, yeah, well, I've had problems in the past on social media, and so has my wife.

His mom sees that he really takes it seriously, you know, all he has is a bad comment about the way he looks and thinks, whatever, yeah, I've worked on a boat building site, so I haven't named names or documented exactly, but when it's strange to my wife, she takes it seriously and I'm there picking up the pieces and these people are telling us that she looks like whatever, so you would have to your Pardis is programmed to focus on the negative, so what? That would help you understand the impact this has. Try not to take it too seriously, but the other thing is that there are some practical things you can do, so it's one of the trends when we get a really negative comment like your wife might have.

What we've done is sometimes we tend to put them out there on the internet, we might say, look at this horrible comment I got, but actually that can sometimes add fuel to the fire, so I suggest you want to say that it validates them. , invalidates, they think, oh. they notice me, I reach out to them, yeah, so one of the things I always say is that it's a

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idea to have a small private group, maybe a private WhatsApp group or something like that with your friends and family and, for Of course, share it there so you get a little bit of comfort and people can say, "Oh my God, that's horrible what they said to you," so you validate it, but you're not a social currency and can we just say with your memories more happy about the

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ly Caroline what?

Do you know if you are when you think about her, what comes to mind right when we were on set? You know on Love Island we walked through the doors and I was like, "Oh, so we knew someone was going, but that's how it was." kind of sweet, but someone says it, it was a bittersweet moment, you know, a wonderful, safe pair of hands, yes, exactly, yes, she had a

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ly smile, she was a lovely pair, well, bless her, yes, rest in peace. Yes, we should point out. Here, you may have been in contact with this program and I asked you to make it clear that, contrary to some reports, they were actually constantly in contact with Caroline after this incident and offered her assistance, help and support on a regular basis, for what is important.

For the record, yes, and also if you or someone you know has been affected by any of the types of things that have been talked about here, details of organizations that can offer advice and support are in the art websites itv.com/jm be. please go pay if you need