How To Make Your Children Hate You For Life

What's going on? Everyone, welcome back to another video. Today I'm going to go ahead and get straight to the point. Well, I'm not going to sit here and mess around with this stuff much longer. The thing is, I get really sick and tired of seeing stuff like this on the internet, it's a pretty common phenomenon for parents to upload a story like this or a video of them doing something completely ridiculous to their kids for virtually no real reason. , I mean, I understand it like you do. disciplining

your

children

and all that, but the reason they do these things and the reason they go to these extremes most of the time in my opinion is so insignificant that it is not necessary to go that far now look, I'm all for bringing the Xbox to their

children

when they are not doing well in school and are prioritizing video games too much.

I'm all for taking away their phone when they're not behaving and stuff like that. you have to discipline the children you have to teach them don't do that you know don't act that way you don't know how to slack off when it comes to important things it's something you have to instill in children but there is a way to In my opinion, do it, actually There are many ways to do it and I just don't think destroying the things they like is the way to go. You'll see these videos all over YouTube and honestly, a lot of them are staged, but a lot of them, I would say, a very disturbing amount of them are real and parents will basically like it if they bring the Playstation to their kids and the story behind it.

From this, you know, they tell them, hey, my son, he wasn't doing well in school. d and f he told him once before now I'm going to destroy his and they will film the boy in the front yard with the father who has a sledgehammer and is destroying his xbox playstation nintendo switch by just breaking it into pieces In the front yard the boy is obviously distraught , he's crying, his dad is destroying something he really enjoys and the dad, you know, they filmed the kids sitting there crying so he can get millions of views on YouTube and all his kids in school and everything.

All of this kid's peers can laugh at him for crying on YouTube and I think it's crazy because I don't think it really teaches anyone anything that's good, I would say, which is essential for them to be good adults, in fact. I would say that he actually does the opposite, now what I want to focus on here is a post that appeared on reddit aita to remove the word minecraft from my son. I think aita means am I he? and the further we get into this, the more you're going to realize, hopefully, that yes, this woman is definitely the one I have.

I have two children, a nine-year-old son and a six-year-old daughter. My son had a Minecraft world where he built a pretty impressive castle on an island. which he was very proud to show me, okay, right there in that sentence we've already established it, you know, this kid is very close to what he's created, which I mean people who don't play video games, I don't think you know Sometimes I understand what a great achievement video games can be for people. When you spend an incredible amount of time on a video game, it really becomes something that you bond with in a way that you don't really bond with. other forms of entertainment, I mean, sure you can love a movie to death, but no, I personally don't think that just because you've seen a movie 500 times means you're going to feel the same way.

I would really like a video game that you've played for three years and tried 100 percent. I mean, this kid was proud enough of what he had done that he decided to show it to his parents. You know, ever since school was cancelled, he had problems with it. By waking up on time, he is supposed to wake up at seven in the morning, but for the last month he has been sleeping until nine or ten. I always set an alarm for him, but he sleeps through it. I don't wake him up because he wakes up on his own.

Getting up is a skill you need to learn, yes that's true, you definitely need to learn. I told him about two weeks ago that there will be consequences for him if he continues to sleep in every morning. At first he understood and was waking up. punctual every morning, but over the last week he has fallen back into old habits. Yesterday I told him this is his last warning and today he slept until 11. Okay, I don't know if it's just me or what he is. but I mean, honestly, what's wrong with

your

kids sleeping until 11 in the morning when they literally have no responsibilities in the world besides chores, if any?

I mean, I'm like, yeah, you want to. set a routine for them and stuff like that, but I mean they literally have nothing to do, like why are you setting a routine so they can wake up and do literally w

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s you mad about them being late at night? I get that it's not like he's staying up all night and neglecting sleep, I mean, he's sleeping, so basically what this is screaming at me is that I'm mad that he doesn't wake up at seven in the morning and play video games for 13 hours a day because he literally has nothing else to do since all the schools are closed and he can't go see his friends because of quarantine and stuff like that.

I just don't understand why he can't go to bed at ten o'clock and wake up at seven and do the same thing he would be doing until midnight and then wake up at 11. I don't understand it like you realize it goes to be playing video games for an odd amount of hours. It's time to know, it really doesn't matter what schedule you actually adhere to. I mean, he doesn't wake up at unhealthy times for kids on the weekends. I slept late all the time. My parents didn't have a problem with it for the most part because they didn't.

It didn't really affect me like I didn't do anything like I didn't have a job that I had to do when I was 12 like I had to get up at seven and go to work I mean sometimes when I was a kid I slept until 3 p.m. Well, my parents weren't necessarily thrilled about it, but I mean, they didn't go so far as to destroy what I cared about and, hey, guess what that turned out to be. Well, you know, I slept a little longer and surprisingly. Enough, I'm fine, like I don't have four arms and six eyes or anything today.

I woke up at 11:30. So I don't necessarily understand what the problem is with that, but I moved on. my warning and I went on the computer and deleted his favorite Minecraft world. I also took away his computer privileges for the next month when I told him he started screaming and crying, he told me he spent an entire year working in that world and is very distraught about it. will never see him again he has been crying and sobbing all day and has refused to eat any of his meals now what bothers me about this is that you did the right thing only after completely destroying trust with your son and just being a idiot for literally no reason, like yeah, okay, take away computer privileges for a month if that's something you want to establish in your home, okay, okay, nevermind, okay, that's kind of acceptable, but in You sort of contradict everything we were supposed to do here because first of all you destroyed his Minecraft world, okay, then you destroy something that he's spent a year working on and cares a lot about, you'd get rid of it because it's not Wake up at the time you want. him to wake up, but then you take his computer privileges, which I mean, you didn't have to do anything more than that, like if you take away his computer, he can't play on the Minecraft server, he can't do anything.

So what was the point of doing that just because you were angry? That's good. It's a good lesson to teach your child. Hey, when you're angry and you're going to think a little irrationally, that's when you need to take action. action you need to take action, not when you are thinking clearly and are going to

make

a concise decision that actually makes sense, you need to act in complete anger and fear that your child will start sleeping until 2 p.m. m., as I just did. I don't get it, that doesn't even make sense to me and then she's almost shocked that he gets angry like he's nine years old and he's spent over a year working in that world, a big castle on an island and, you know? one out of every nine years he's been on this planet has been spent working on it and you just get rid of it because he doesn't sleep until the time you dictate, he needs to sleep too, just like any of you would.

I feel like the project you've been working on for a year was completely destroyed by a ruling power in your

life

because you weren't doing exactly what they said. Now I understand that most people see things like this, it's insignificant. Oh, it's just a Minecraft world, you can always start another one, but that's not really the point, that's not what we're talking about, the point is that all you're teaching this kid is to not want to show you everything. What are you. Teaching your kid is, oh, whenever I have something that I really like and enjoy doing and you know it's a hobby of mine, well, if mom finds out that I'm not doing exactly what she wants, she'll just get rid of it. .

She's going to ruin it for me like I don't think parents understand sometimes how dangerous this is for the relationship between you and your child, like parents are out here doing things like this, ruining things that you care about. completely into everything you do well and then you know I wonder why my son doesn't open up to me man I wonder why when I try to talk to my son they don't say anything to me probably because they slept in. three hours late and you were devastated they had been working on it for a year like I just don't understand the confusion of course they are going to be angry, what person who had been working on something like this wouldn't be angry?

What do you think the odds are that if this kid liked, I don't know, painting or something, he'd be working like this big ass painting for a year, a big mural or something on his wall? What do you think the odds are? are that if the mom was upset because he slept in she would come in there with a bucket of white paint and throw it everywhere and ruin it, yeah that probably wouldn't happen unless the person was real but I just get tired from seeing all these things online where as parents you do this right, you just completely destroy the things your kids love when it comes to destroying video games and xboxes and stuff like that, what do you gain?

If you do that, you actually lose financially because, like the people who do that, where they destroy an Xbox or a Playstation, they are destroying a 150 to 300 console, depending on the version you buy, that is its value now, were more. expensive when they came out of course, so a couple hundred dollars destroyed on the console all the accessories like the controller, the headphones, things like that, you know, a couple hundred dollars, if they got a really good high level, We will say that we are up to the task. 500 dollars every once in a while, like all games that are now completely useless because you've destroyed their property, are like 60 dollars each, sometimes more expensive, so if you have like a dozen of them, you're pushing almost a thousand dollars like you, you're really going up depending on what versions of what games they're buying, so I don't understand the mentality where it's like it's purely out of anger, that's all it really comes down to. parents just get mad at their kids and then instead of acting rationally, oh I don't know, take it away, not let them play until they fix their behavior, w

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ver it is, they just screw things up because they're mad and parents, I don't know that you think is necessarily going to happen between you and your son, like suddenly your son respects you for doing that, it's going to be something that's just going to change your

life

that you're okay with now that dad has destroyed you. 800 on my video games that he bought me over the years.

I respect him a lot more now. I think he is a very good person and every time I make a mistake in my life, I will make sure to let him. He knows I won't try to hide behind his back. I won't go behind his back when he does things to try to hide my behavior so he doesn't destroy more of my things. So yes, you are the one who deletes your child's. Minecraft World when he was sleeping in for you and by the way he won't have school for another four months, like he didn't understand once again what the problem was.

He probably hasn't had school since March or April. I won't be back this year, I'm sorry to tell people that he won't be back if you have even one more day of school. I'd be surprised if that was even possible, as a long shot at your district school during the year they had. All summer some schools have been talking about they might come back early but it's still a matter of when and it won't be next week so I don't understand the big fuss I guess which is stupid but I don't understand when there is such a unique event happening in the world and they are literally going to have no responsibilities for months.

Let your kids play some video games. Go watch Hallmark or Lifetime for a couple of hours. Drink your wine and just shut up, it's really no big deal. If you have any problem with thatstay up past nine, okay, I get it, but there's no reason your kids have to wake up at seven in the morning every day when they have nothing to do, because it's just stupid, I mean, they'll just get up and do the same thing you're mad at them doing anyway, so with that being said, thanks everyone for watching, if you enjoyed it make sure to leave a like, subscribe if you like.

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