YTread Logo
YTread Logo

GIRL CHAT VAULT: Teens Sexting

GIRL CHAT VAULT: Teens Sexting
let me tell you guys something Tamara felt a little fluish so you know we made her go home for the day I know to get whale to get better so we love you Tim we know you're watching weekend but back again with us today you know we're so happy to hand back lovely guest co-host the lovely talented and spicy mailbag well it's been a minute since you spent a Friday with us right so we changed some few things I just wish you to know we'd like to get turned up on Friday that's right
girl chat vault teens sexting
we don't stop the great Fridays here we call it fry yeah today's fry a drink is a refreshing pink lemonade sparkler it's a mix of sparkling wine lemonade fresh squeezed lemon cranberry juice and mint leaves so male what do you think oh that's really whew tip fruity nice but I need a little bit more alcohol in it we'll get you a little bit more than to find out how to make this cocktail a mocktail head on over to the real calm now meal are you ready to keep it real silk with
some fry a

girl

chef yes you like this one this is really weird okay listen up ladies seventy-three percent of teenagers nowadays have a smartphone and while they can be a great tool for learning they can always get them in a lot of trouble according to a new report from JAMA Pediatrics one in four

teens

are actively

sexting

one another yes I'm saying this to the mom of

teens

over here yeah in fact most

teens

actually admitted to 14 a sex without getting consent from the original sender
it's gotten so bad in fact that parents are being told to have open conversations with their kids to talk about the risk and leavel legal consequences of sexy mmm so mal as a mom does that concern you at all well I've got my 19 year old down on a lockdown Linux right yes Wow she does have a phone okay but it's disconnected uh-huh she's only allowed to use it on Wi-Fi until she gets a job genius because at the end of the day she's 19 she's still living at home she
doesn't know just about to start college she still needs to contribute why I'm single parent raising three three kids paying for everything so I'm kind of a little bit strict with yeah and there's no she has to know it was a big bad role that they're gone in your money I'm not gonna give it to you on the Wi-Fi tip how do you know how much she is or is it sexy because everything comes to me I've got that you can see it everything sorry no yeah you actually can a lot of
people know that you actually can get your child Apple ID and if you have another literally it could be an iPad or just an iTouch yeah and you actually can get all of their eye messages that come to your daughter know that well she does now I think he seems upon it's raising

girl

s to keep them to keep them in your in your household and know what's going on with them otherwise they just go out there and go crazy what sexy again is is it the new pictures is it talking both everything
intimate it's everything that is a little bit more than a little bit more than friends would be texting wasn't flirting it's it's and then I did this to you and then you did this to me I did this to each other and it's crazy because even though the survey says one out of four as cousin Jeanie I have a lot of young nieces and nephews between the age of 13 to 19 I actually counted between my close family circle of friends I have 30 30 cousins around that age okay and real talk
I would say three out of four are sexy not one out of four I'm sorry but it's a lot more dangerous in those streets nowadays than it was back in my day you know what I'm saying yeah like remember for me pre Jesus Jeannie I thought it was naughty when I had pagers and I was hitting up the code let's go to bed okay I love you 143 well what I try to do as auntie Lonny is I try to you know because I didn't really know what the whole

sexting

thing was but what I do know is that
girl chat vault teens sexting
about the pictures and I was concerned about that yeah so I have a number of nieces and nephews that are like you know between those those Asians yeah if they're under 18 I feel like as a parent and as a concern relative that I should be able to look at their phone yeah I cuz they're underage and it's like you just want to see and that's what I'm saying do you just go like give me your phone yes you know her code and I've got my thumbprint in there oh yeah wait I think
it's like Mulani said and none said it's the only way to really know what's going on they need to be aware that like I can go in your phone at any moment don't try me I think that works great but I also think the most important thing is also having an open conversation where you actually talk to your kids about like do you know what this is you know what's gonna are you doing this and I think honesty is super-important wareness is a very oh yeah Oh Susan the iCloud someone I
remember that the second you take a picture of anything it doesn't belong to you honey it belongs to Gmail iGoogle yeah iron outer web like that so I also try to like look for articles of when things happen with people with hacked accounts or something like that I said this is what you like more sure what happened personal example is great as well I think like the day I become a parent or even now with my litte kids I would be honest and be like look this is what can happen like okay
I've done like I think you have to be honest though yeah and be real with your kids and be like everybody you know does dumb things learn from my example like if I can show you yeah don't do this don't do what I did there were times if somebody may have asked me for a photo and I said guess because I thought I wasn't cool enough or like the guy won't want to date me like the man that is worthy of your respect the guy that is worthy of your love is going to respect you and
your decision yeah honesty is good but you have to be a little bit aggressive with your kids you have to lay down the law I like what you know like what do you say cuz I'm not a parent so I'm like I need to learn cause I can I think I'm too aggressive you don't me know I can be very aggressive so I have to pick my words carefully but basically if you're living under my house you have to sit to my house rules or you get Nick now cuz she's 19 and my daughter I've
already kicked her out for 15 days before really yes I was like gonna be a big

girl

if you're gonna act like a big

girl

and if she came home with respect after 15 days she did a lot like dramatic with mines huh you know cuz I'm like even though they're not my dear I'm there I you know you don't want to be a ho in E Street yeah alright you don't want people calling dad you know I mean this is whether it's female or male cuz I'm telling a lot of females do it more
than males yes I got it I you know anything I do it because they think that that's gonna give them the attention and they do that so you have to really do when you say and talk to the

girl

s you really have to talk to them and explain to them that this is not the way cuz a lot of times the guys don't ask they just do it offended because they thinking that age these kids if you are sending naked pictures to a teenage boy trust me he is showing it to everyone in the locker room yes it's
girl chat vault teens sexting
so much more of a deeper issue then like oh my kid is

sexting

like what about talking to young women about self-worth and like what makes you feel like you have to do this and that's just an honest we're being dragged we've all been through selling look what happened to blac Chyna see now that's that's that's what I'm getting an issue I'm getting confused because we have a lot of celebrities you know that send out how to tap into that send it out on their owners
you know or maybe it's leaked or whatever yeah that's the problem I'm having like how do I justify when they come at me and say well you know this person does it why can't I do it well I think it's a question of do you want to be that person is that like a role models like and that your role models shouldn't be people on television and on Instagram they should be people in your life your mother your someone in charge like that all right somewhere is respectable that you
act and that's hard to say that these people aren't respectable but we got to do better than expecting the role models in our children's lives to be people on Instagram and celebrities yeah that's nice but they look up to these people I mean and they made they Jam to their music they look at their TV shows so the only thing that I can say I don't know this is the only thing I could say is cuz they groan and you not that's all I can say yeah yes but at the same time I
think this is where I don't like putting the pressure on other celebrities to raise our kids right and I say this hours as a community your kids are kids I have to live without in these streets right so when you think of a child who is looking so much up to another celebrity and putting the pressure on that celebrity to be like them you have to rebuild your the confidence and the security and who this young woman or this young man is and why you raised them to be who they are that is
Parrington that's hair until one yes it's not it's not about the celebrity it's not the celebrity's fault it's not blac Chyna's fault it's your kiddies you know sending out crazy nudes and stuff it's really your job as a parent to bliss into your kid and to really build them as a whole in size of them they feel good about themself and know that they need that yeah who they are but saying that I did get a naked picture from a guy the other day and I thought
doesn't even look right why did would anybody think that that was a flat on a picture right right like so if guys don't be doing that either - sobbing ooh Twitter user Nicole clip recently admitted to openly crying all over the city of New York and felt like she wasn't the only one so she asked users for their most embarrassing crying in public moment and the responses are so hilarious for example at X orange jell-o X said I cried on a stranger's front stoop for so long that a
random woman comforted me and told me I passed the driving test next time she was wrong fracture critical said I have cried in target on three separate occasions I've always said when I write my memoir it will have a chapter titled crying in target so ladies I have to ask you have you ever just lost it in public like sobbing yeah I do it all the time where's the place I've cried the most in public here here which is so embarrassing because everybody sees it like it's not just the
people in the room you guys send this all over the nation yeah there's a lot going on my father died last year was one of the contestants her dad was going through that too so I was very emotional but then cut to I'm at Ralph's and somebody gave me this lovely compliment and I went really um you think of knives burst into tears randomly and then I had to stand him in the line crying by myself with my trolley of food see if I would have are you I would have not that because
you're Mel B I would because I see people if I see them in public crying I will check in on them I mean even though I write you know and I try to be gentle my shoes give me she dies yeah but also I did good a safe house two weeks ago which was a voluntary place that this woman owns and she looks after women that have got a kind of talks on the cry I've experienced and gone through domestic violence so I spend the whole day with them cheering them up I got them hair and makeup done I got
the whole purple roses and so they were really really happy but then they started to tell me their stories and I'm like oh no they're all in the mall to feel good feel good so that was my me giving back because you know some women have been through the mill and to come out of something like that and be a survivor I was I want to spend the day with each and every one of you what did you work what were you telling the women I mean you could relate I understand I was emotional but what do
you tell a person who's you know that's been through that well everybody has their own story and I think most of it starts off with being emotional emotionally abused and feeling very vulnerable and then the guys swoop in and they take advantage of that so once the woman knows that that is unacceptable and they do Bible studies at this place they think it reacted and they get to feel their self-worth from their from their selves and get to feel respect and it's a whole community of
women there's about 45 women in this house that this one woman runs by herself Wow all volunteers that help that is you're doing that does that helped you with what you thought oh my god yes because you know when you're going through something like that you think that you're completely alone but you're not like there's many people probably even sitting right here right now that I've had some kind of experience on domestic violence whether it be abusive physically or
mentally so well done for being here