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Girl Chat: People Who Are Told a Deep Secret Became Physically Burdened By It!

Girl Chat: People Who Are Told a Deep Secret Became Physically Burdened By It!
we love hearing

secret

s but keeping them is actually a different story researchers at Tufts University say that

people

who were

told

a

deep

secret

like someone's infidelity

became

physically

burdened

by it for example a task like carrying groceries upstairs and walking the dog took more effort so ladies do you think it's fair for

people

to put you in a situation by burdening you with a

secret

of theirs it's the worst feeling in the world when you actually don't want to know
girl chat people who are told a deep secret became physically burdened by it
someone's

deep

darks and then they just cuz then well for someone like me I'm going to think about what should you do what are the solution yeah who was this involving especially when your mind is a little younger when I was a kid Mike one of my family members I was really close with was being unfaithful in their marriage yeah and I saw it y'all I caught it well I didn't want the marriage to break up so I kept it a

secret

and I wouldn't have advised the little

girl

then to do
the same thing now but what I learned is there's a power for some

people

who can actually remove themselves from that person's burden so that they're not involved that's my mama my mama my she's that person who loves all the key from everybody she's like what you say what happen you know but then afterwards when I'm like mom don't you feel so guilty now that you know their

secret

she's like no the bad

secret

they give you wrinkle I don't want wrinkle you
guys actually lose sleep over stuff like that yes like what seeing somebody with somebody else's or just knowing knowing that's

deep

like a week grace I just don't want to know it because I'm gonna tell it that's that's the truth okay okay okay I get it but what if somebody tells you anyway what if they tell you like if I'm like Lonnie I'm about to tell you something and you didn't know so I walk you into it and now you know something real dark about me
I'm like you know I'm gonna tell somebody to sit you guys I have to say a lot of

people

tend to tell me their stuff because I think because I'm such an open book I'll tell all my spoil my own team sometimes you guys will tell me don't be telling everybody yeah everybody everything wait to us what your stories be good though I'm not right like a movie right and then because I'm telling you see crazy story then that makes other

people

want to tell me their crazy stories
and then because I already have so many crazy stories in my own life I forget about yours going on over here that even when other

people

have

told

me something really heavy I might think about it later on and send a little message just well it doesn't wear me down how you guys are saying you didn't kill him me as your friend I want to ask does it depend on the person though cuz I know the aides got a lot of friends right but you got a core next to you and that starts with your family if
my friends don't even come into family so what if it was a dark heavy

secret

that had to do with maybe your sister or maybe your mom you know it okay that's different it's my family okay then I get it I like I'm thinking you guys are literally talking about like one of your

girl

friend I'm not letting that stop me from sleep and I losing sleep over some bull chinchilla like it's just

secret

s in general like one time my niece's teacher called me she was ten at the time
and she ended up giving he wanted hurting her mom's number my niece gave my number and so the teacher called me and left this long message about you know Naomi she was bad all right okay and everything and you know she's a bright kid but you know she needs some discipline and all of that right so I called Naomi first let somebody get that man my mother every single you know honey please don't tell you know my mommy I said you know I'm gonna tell your mommy oh I don't want
girl chat people who are told a deep secret became physically burdened by it
the burden because she acted up in school I'm not that burden on me but then I called my sister and I'm like hey the teacher calls and blah blah blah on teacher did I said no the teacher call and I said I

told

Naomi I was gonna call you and tell you so you handle it ain't the momma and I

told

her I said you don't lie to your teachers cuz it was a teachable moment because I don't get me caught up in your mess okay that is true I just want to be caught up in it in the way where
like you forced me to push me in a corner where I have to lie for you yes or that have that on or later on when the truth comes out then they reveal your name and say well Adrian knew about it oh don't you try me don't know random

people

just come up to me and they just feel like you got that face though anything yeah you got that biblical face you know you just fight very generating you all of my wild crazy things because I just like to see you react exactly guys are the craziest things
I've ever done yeah doing hey I think it's because sometimes I think I just have maybe great advice to give in return yes or I'm just I'm seriously a non-judgmental person so I feel like

people

just feel comfortable to just tell me everything but I'm also I don't know I I'm one of those

people

where I carry

people

's burdens so although I'm welcoming you know your your issues I take them on as my own because my problem is is I always want to fix so when I hear
something like say like a marriage isn't going well then you know I'll I'll call like counselors and be like hey you guys should give it this person so you guys can like you know fix it do you ever start googling Bible verses for them and absolutely okay if it helps you any are yet for this yeah but sometimes

people

just want to ear to listen to yeah they don't actually want you to fix it you don't even need you so you should unburden yourself and just know that you did the
job by being a listening ear that's so easier said than done ah yeah take care of what you want to do to fix it what did they don't want to fix it I hate on to I go behind them and just pray about it so I may not like

physically

try to to help them it just it hurts me not to care I haven't heard something that I think will help because it helped me I heard a quote who was it who was it it was Oprah and 50 cent it was a recent look on super soldier super soul Sunday they said this
they said you can pray and you can worry but you can't do a boat at the same time and then I'm just gonna let it go I love that well you guys it's no

secret

that engaged couples are

burdened

by their wedding day I knew about this I can totally relate in fact you guys Madame moi recently asked the question should plus ones be reserved only for engaged and married

people

blogger ELISA Rochelle says yes because weddings can be very expensive your size and when you start inviting random

people

that's right in the groom don't know personally you guys that adds up if it's like 150 200 that is a $75 and you just invited three extra

people

that's math what if you marry that's a lot of money you guys you should you should either be married or engaged in order to be a plus-one maybe not married or engaged but have been with that person for a while exactly importantly this is one of the most intimate moments of your life yeah no one's a city manager you know
girl chat people who are told a deep secret became physically burdened by it
being a witness to something that is so hanumant and so personal I think of

people

opposed to do okay I'm not laughter man yeah they said just be a plus-one as a boyfriend like but as long as I know the person and like the person has been in your life it's not some hey I have a wedding to go to someone to go find a rare and the ring first of all you if you're inviting somebody to your wedding you just you should know that they're not just gonna bring anybody to the wedding as
again it should be somebody that the bride and groom at least know like Frank Spence she brought Amy with her I know yummy yes and I know their person and you add something first that's major that is it okay for me to bring my friend Amy to your wedding my husband I didn't want to go by myself but I'm usually there you go but what I didn't understand that I've been meaning to bring this up okay I needed somebody in my this is just me I'm in I'm in a foreign country I
know I just wanted someone in the room with me you wouldn't be in the wrong but I mean that's still the idea of okay I get it you're single you don't necessarily want to go by yourself yeah so I am NOT a single when you're a guest you bring you buy gifts you transport you you you dress up I think that is to say and if you trust your friend you should say well you could bring somebody because just like she just said she didn't want to be by ourselves when you go to a
wedding sometimes when you're single you don't want to be by yourself not to be with some no turnt-up sorry you're gonna be single in Palli you be good boo you're gonna ready it was a bunch of women I won't be with a bunch of women yeah but it's nice to go to a wedding as a single woman without a date yeah and you could meet your eligible bachelor it is the best it does that picks up party because you're meeting

people

that you know your friends are already approving
our whole enough to be there I want a brain rod day to the wedding okay yeah I cook my own self up yep I didn't bring somebody because I knew I was working at your wedding and then she was gonna she brought somebody so I was by myself and oh you was there okay stranger we were all together it was like it wasn't necessary necessarily anyway bang I do too I don't want to do you hate

people

who are lazy

people

say I don't want it well guess what they might actually be brilliant
know what thank you according to research the Journal of health psychology smart

people

spend more time being lazy than their active counterparts those who are more active get bored quicker and need to be stimulated with external activities meanwhile smart

people

and less active spend more time thinking and drinketh ladies do you think that being lazy this is okay this is it this is good interesting do you think that being lazy could be a good thing oh yeah it's lazy I don't like that
that description I don't think you can is that what would you think don't you say I'm one of those

people

but I'm not a lazy person right my thing is is I just get stuck in my head and then I'm exhausted from thinking too much right so it's not I'm lazy it's just that where did you just say you exhaust your own self you don't do if you just sat there and thoughts the lonely one right you not lazy you constantly whenever I'm over your house minute I am okay
you what what are you doing I'm cleaning yes you are constantly your life you're not lazy no okay come on anyway this I'm idle because I think too much so I have to do something to get you out of my head yeah okay I think that some

people

can be too quick to use the term lazy to insult

people

what we're example in my family if you as a kid sit around and you're not doing something immediately the parents they say oh he's lazy he's just lazy she's not she's not
gonna be good you know later cuz she's not doing the chores or they don't like doing their homework when really I think that kids have to be stimulated or have to be doing something that they're interested in sports or maybe an activity or if it's a chore give them a motivated reason why they should do it otherwise if you just say Timmy's lazy because he do piano maybe Timmy doesn't like piano maybe Timmy's not good at piano but if you put Timmy in something like
science or maybe like something you know inches and he's gonna spring up and be amazing Dylan my cousin that was the exact problem like my aunt always like caves in different chores and he never got into it she made him play the damn piano when I saw his face I was like that kid don't like me a no so I took him outdoors yes and you've got to be careful because advocated you soak in words and you start thinking like am i lazy you're not lazy something's wrong with me or you
start believing that you aren't lazy it harder for what you call your children arouse are you a genius and then they get up and then that changes they hold my favorite activity is doing nothing I love doing nothing see I'm a genius as well okay for instance I like to just chill and lay down and watch TV am I the only one that just likes to chill and watch TV you know order some grub up and relax I like to think that I'm a person that knows that there's a time for everything there
actually are

people

that don't know how to sit still right like yeah there are guys that litters at it like babe will you just take a day and they don't know how to just chill and sit still and I think that that's actually a really great quality it is very relaxing yes you better there's a time and a place for everything should you be doing that every day all day no but when it's time it's okay to be lazy sometimes I can't just this that other part of your you
can't sit I can't be silly but if you put a glass of alcohol by me I'll lay there all night