Choices that can Change your Life | Caroline Myss | TEDxFindhornSalon
Jun 09, 2020Then we can tell people:
your
vocabulary is so toxic, that the vibration ofyour
neurology harbors thoughts, harbors frequencies that are so toxic, that even if you do a visualization, it is nullified by the use of words. That's organically so negative, no matter what your visualization is, your use of words is mainly hostile, it's hostile. I would characterize your use of words as primarily hostile toward everything you see, toward everyone, and toward yourself. You wake up in the morning and you are hostile. Your first thoughts are angry. You seelife
as something insufficient. You see others as insufficient.Your first reaction to everything is critical. Your first reaction is, "This isn't good enough." "They're not good enough." And which two words do you consider your strongest weapons? Guilt and justice. "It's your fault." "I have a right to this." You think you deserve something. Three words that kill: guilt, right and deserve. If you could banish those three words from your mind, you have no idea how much better you would feel. If you never used those three words again, I can tell you that your depression would be much milder, because you have no right to anything at all.
Blaming something external takes you away from your present and gives you all kinds of toxic visions. You just have to think about who blames you for something. Imagine how many people accuse you of something and how it feels to think about it. Because when you accuse others, others also accuse you. Someone is in therapy because they know you. (Laughter) So stop seeing the world through those eyes. Finally, make this choice. Choose to get up every day and bless your day. Choose to get up every day and bless your day. And say, "I have no idea what the day will bring, but it is a blessing." Because?
Because I'm alive. And don't base your gratitude for your
life
on what you have, or what you feel, just because you exist. Just because you exist! Just because you exist. And keep this prayer in your heart: This day in my life will never happen again. I will never see the people I look at again. I will never see this sunrise or that sunset again. I will never see the person I have breakfast with again, not exactly like that. No, nothing in my life will happen again. That choice, that choice alone should remove every bitter note from your heart.Let that fill the life around you with so much grace and beauty that all you want to see is the present, with great gratitude and love. Thank you. (Applause)
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