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Ask Wendy compilation - part 47

Ask Wendy compilation - part 47
duh time for ask

Wendy

how you doing how you doing

Wendy

I like your brooch oh well thank you very much I wore just for you thank you um I just had a question about etiquette I'm a member of a dinner club here in New York City and in lieu of going out to expensive restaurants we always go to a different friend's house every weekend it's become a bit uncomfortable because one of our friends that

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icipates has recently started doing some questionable things like serving themselves lobster and the rest of his catfish and I just wondered what would be the most polite way to handle this bad etiquette first can I just say I love that it's just friends getting together for dinner but you call it dinner club how help fabulous so New York so here's the thing um if this is your friend then why can't you just say um John I see you over there with the lobster in the pot why don't we all have lobster do you know there's certain foods that we all like to eat and don't want to share with other people either because we eat it like pigs pigs or because it's really expensive for me it's king crab legs but wouldn't you serve it for when you're home by yourself yes that's what I was gonna tell you to tell your friend lobster is a secret food that you only eat by yourself if he doesn't want to spring for everybody else and just tell him okay so me my boyfriend broke up about two years ago and about six months ago we started casually...
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hooking up again and I'm not sure I think he's starting to get feelings for me he's starting to get like well jealous so I'm not sure if I should just end it or continue doing what I'm doing isn't this weird because that's usually a woman's role you know where we start to you know fall back in love and everything yeah I like it yeah he's falling back here but we can't play around with people's feelings you know it's a very dangerous thing when you play with people's feelings um even though I'm sure the sex is great which is why you're still hooking up leave him alone okay you don't leave him alone right all right sorry thanks very well oh boy hey

Wendy

how you doing girl tearing on my heels now I'm Maggie and basically I'm planning a trip to Vegas for my birthday are you and my best friend of 16 years doesn't want to go cause her boyfriend won't let her so I'm pissed about that so how do you feel do you think I should confront him about it and be like I told you to sneak around but she's not having that well first of all she should have snuck she said that's number one it's an inpatient it's coming up yeah okay well here's the thing how old is everybody 22 23 you can also chew young to be bossed around by boyfriends cute you know hey you know now if your friend goes with you to Vegas she'll come back and chances are she won't have a boyfriend cuz men's egos are...
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so fragile clearly he's not a man not a cheetah she's not you know what I understand what you're saying I didn't even think about the cheating aspects I thought about you know cute girls out in Vegas to celebrate a birthday and a controlling boyfriend um she's too young to be controlled like that and I said so you think I should confront him about it no one you need to mind your own business I keep my mouth shut but you do need to talk to her about it and um if she doesn't go then she doesn't go I mean she'll see better she'll be your pitiful friend when when you come back but nevertheless all right all right thank you how are you

Wendy

are you doing how you doing I'm doing good uh-huh so what brings you by uh just here for the show who'd you come with I came with Aaron hi Aaron are you doing so how can I help you uh I've been married to the love of my life for the past 13 years we have four wonderful beautiful children together ages 11 to 2 she delivered them all naturally oh so it takes a little toll on the body yeah and about a month ago my wife asked me do you want me to get a boob job

Wendy

how would I answer that question well between me and you sure what what do you want to tell her uh what I told her was I love her no matter what she does I think she looks beautiful now but whatever you want to do I'm there for you and I'll pay for it now listen uh you know if she needs you to hold her hand and go to the...
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doctor's office and you know that type of thing you know make sure you remember those words you just said yes sir you're perfect oh thank you Thank You Canada how are you doing I'm doing well hi

Wendy

I'm Martine so I've been dating my boyfriend for three years and we're now living together he just graduated from law school about a year ago and I'm a medical resident currently so we've talked about marriage and you know he says he sees things going that way but he still hasn't proposed yet so my question is do I give him an ultimatum or do I wait around and wait for him to get a job or team ultimatums don't work generally I mean they're exceptions to every role but generally ultimatums don't work especially in something like marriage you'll regret forcing his hand to marry you and he'll throw it in your face every time you guys have a fight well I didn't want to be here anyway you're the one who made me marry you that's number one number two look a doctor and a lawyer you're gonna be a doctor you're still in medical school graduated I'll be graduated you're doing your residency yes and and he hasn't taken the bar yet he did yesterday sorry nice yeah listen you kids still have plenty of time all everything is laid out the the Magic eight Ball says you guys will get married just don't give him an ultimatum okay my name is Sierra um and about a month ago I hooked up with a guy at my work...
um and now he's acting really weird and he won't like talk to me so should I confront him about a month ago yeah boys drinking involved may be the circumstances of the hooker um I mean it's really just a one-night and think it was just like we went out and we

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ied and then we hooked up and I thought that it would just be fine after that we would just be friends again but is it don't you hate when a man catches feelings and acts weird do you think that's what it is you think you like no I just think that I just think that he's acting really weird like you're you're two grown people nobody's married fine that so there's I heard a little judgment over here but there's nothing wrong with that it's okay but these are wrong people you know what I wouldn't bother saying anything to him but I would continue to be however you were prior to hooking up around yeah eventually you know this weirdness of his it'll melt off there's no point in having a conversation about it because it really meant nothing to you it maybe it did mean something to him but it meant nothing to you so set the tone yeah come on boy yeah thank you how can I help you hi

Wendy

my name is Liz how you doing I'm your boy I'm 26 I'm from Brooklyn New York and I have a dilemma so my boyfriend and I want to move in together and we've been together about a year we've known each other for four years now okay my problem is that his a

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is old rickety rundown it needs to be updated ASAP but it's at an ungodly low rent it's $400 a month stable in New York in Brooklyn oh do I stop being a brat suck it out where you live I'm in Brooklyn to you we're both in Brook house your a

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ment gorgeous and got renovated and beautiful and expensive um I'm nervous because you've been together for a year and if he moves from his a

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ment you break up next year I'm not trying to jinx your love but I'm being a realist right then he's given up this a

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ment so why doesn't he move into your beautiful a

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ment and you he keeps his a

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ment not as a smashing room I like that you know what I'm saying but you know to have him keep the a

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ment I mean like $100 a month can you afford to pay that with nobody living there probably okay well keep his a

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ment move into your a

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ment or house you're always better than theirs anyway how you doing I'm doing well how you doing okay welcome to lemon I have is me and my husband we just got married six months ago we just moved your Brooklyn from Cleveland thank you but my family's always asking him when you guys went back you're not in Brooklyn you're yes so how do I say that without being like wait a minute don't okay so you're from Cleveland your whole family still lives there you moved to Brooklyn I bet you're not paying $400 a month for rent no um you were old enough to get married yeah it's I'll be...
28 tomorrow okay so now you're gonna be old enough to have this conversation with your family and it's even 1a have it no no it doesn't bother them you know what then tell them to turn on the

Wendy

show and we'll see you deliberate you're not going back to Cleveland not when you're in New York this is your life not theirs butt out enjoy how you doing good my name is Joel hi Joel last year during the holidays hmm my brother my best friend hooked up and had a sexual relationship okay since then my brother has moved on he now has a new girlfriend who he's bringing to Thanksgiving dinner okay no they hooked up it was just sex they were never boyfriend/girlfriend right okay I got to what this year my best friend still wants to come to Thanksgiving dinner as well and I don't want any drama wait what do you think should I invite her No I'll tell you why I'm assuming I'm assuming that we're all grown and mature nobody's in their 20s correct okay um your your best friend see we know what we do when we hook up with our best friends brothers and I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it it's just it's just be prepared for the fallout afterwards and the fallout is she can't come to your house for Thanksgiving because unfortunately your brother's happiness and maybe him you know meeting the woman to walk down the aisle and produce some airs for your family is more important to you than your being your best...
friend's happiness cause that's that's your brother okay she can't come over anymore when he's around yeah we don't want the drama don't worry great good luck hey how you doing Thanks for seeing um I'm a freshman in college and I'm really fortunate because me and my roommate are actually really good friends good however whenever we go out Miami I tell her you know I like this guy I'm talking to this guy and she tends to be all over him giving her number and stuff like that and I just want to know is it breaking girl code or does she just like the attention or should I speak friends with her I don't I don't know what to do because I live with her yeah so first of all don't you love college oh my gosh I really do I just stick with it until you graduate it's the best okay um then the second thing is that this is not really your friend this is one of those girls that you know now that you won't know in a few years I mean you understand she's not she's not really your friend and as far as her being your roommate I would even venture to say maybe next year you don't remit with her because well she's the girl who when you leave to walk down the hall in the dorm brush your teeth she's the one talking to your man and in Berkeley showing her crotch yeah okay it's very honeybunch it's only freshman here and you still have a lot to learn but let this be a lesson she's not really your fan DCAM...
you're buried are you going pregnant lady hi I'm

Wendy

my name is TK how do you do so I'm really really excited because in three months my husband and I are expecting our first baby congratulations yeah the problem is my mom who I love so much wants to come and live with us after the baby is born she can be a little overbearing at times and I'm really nervous especially living in a one-bedroom a

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ment that I won't be in how the patience to deal with the situation well I have an overbearing hashtag bossy mother also who's very opinionated um and I found that after I had little Kevin the best time my parents spent three months with us and it and we didn't get in each other's ways and she taught me how to be a mom in terms of the things to do and mommy I love you for that however if we lived in a one-bedroom a

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ment that ain't happening I'm sorry sister she I can't bear to have your mother laying on the pull-out couch and your that that's suffocating to your husband it's gonna be suffocating to you your hormones are gonna be high is there any money in the budget for a one-week stay at the no-tell motel yes how about a two-week stay yeah we could definitely do that okay spring see how much your budget holds and keep your mom down the street for as long as you can pause until your hotel money is drained okay yeah yeah cuz it's yeah go away I'll do a well I'm mahram from South Jersey I've been married for going...
on five years now the wonderful husband Great Father however whenever we go out he gets extremely jealous like he watches my every move so how do I get him to just relax and enjoy instead of like closing argument all the time oh you argue right there on the scene um he like wants to fight people really yeah a great guy he says what are guys pushing up on you or guys we know like it could be like a glance of stare if he thinks that it's going there it's like he wants to like Frodo he is a great person he just has that all do you honey I fir I'm 26 26 and you've been married five years yeah well in the words of Judge James II in the word of Judge Judy you married him he would get away before you married how jealousy was he told me he was a nine on a scale of one to ten I knew what I thought when we got married to get better no sorry and y'all know I love you babe you watch me okay good luck have a stand oh hi

Wendy

plum Karen how you doing hi Karen um it's my 30th anniversary this August and I'm planning on taking my son and my daughter on vacation and my daughter wants to bring her boyfriend and they want she's 24 and they want to share a room but my husband's a little not happy with that I'm okay with it I need to know how to convince my husband to let them share a room I don't want them to share a room like you know I'm a cool older woman and you know with the times and everything but no at 24 years old if she wants to share a...
room then she should stay at the resort down the street and then oh thanks for that you and Dad don't have to you know not acknowledge them leaving the Hossein hotel room together oh they had the resort down the street and come to you guys resort for family activities and dinner and beaching and stuff but no she shouldn't that's her boyfriend that is not her husband my husband will be very happy yeah good hi my name is Ashley and I have a boyfriend I've been with for five years so I absolutely love I'm in love with him okay but sometimes when we're together in the bedroom I fantasize about other people other man some are celebrities most time celebrities and some are people clapping who we like I like Omari Hardwick from power I love him well so what's your question so is this normal yes I think I think that it's normal but by talking about it now now you're gonna have to deal with him when you get home okay well he probably fantasizes too and that's okay Oh boom all right good luck how you doing how you doing windy okay so my name is Kiana I'm 34 years old I'm over dating men my age I'm currently dealing with for 26 year old talk louder okay I'm currently dealing with for 26 year old me and you're 34 I'm 34 okay prior to the 26 it was a nice senior role I'm not judging yeah I believe younger men give out better sex my girlfriends are always complaining about me dealing with these younger men and I just want...
to know how do I tell them to leave me alone well okay a 19 year old is way too young Kiana I mean that even though that's still a grown man but there's something about team being after an age that is just wrong on every level as far as the 26 year old you know there's nothing wrong with that I disagree with you about the better sex it depends on the individual so maybe and if I were you with your girlfriend I would tell them you know leave leave me alone about who I choose to date however I wouldn't be you know trolling the the schoolyard and then bringing these guys around my girlfriends because they don't understand it you know all right good luck you're wrong about that though there are some age-appropriate men that can put it down hey my name is crystal how you doing are you doing crystal so I currently live with my why are you screaming okay come out here so everybody can see your ensemble hi anyway so I currently live with my brother and his roommate so basically he moved his girlfriend and without giving us any like heads up and basically I was fine with that but recently they have not been paying the rent it's always late should I kick them out

wendy

is that wrong I would kick them out your brother probably doesn't want to lose the friendship he's not getting involved the dirty work is up to you check them out I'm the villain done I went three money was hanging out how you saw with Jordan yeah I'm good so I've been...
seeing this guy for about six months and during sex I'm very loud does evil for me no do you ever remain no um his aunts not home and sometimes we will have sex and was the dark of a roommate he lives with his on yeah sister bro that's worse than a woman we'll have sex and I think he's bothered by it because he would make comments afterwards and I'm wondering should I feel bad and change it or shy continue to do me you should be respectful of his aunts house because you never know when she's gonna come home early from work and I get why he'd be embarrassed do you live in your own place I don't I live with my parents awesome okay then you have roommates - yes try Danielle's here trying to add room okay listen here's the deal when one of you all gets an a

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ment and hopefully not together yeah when one of you all gets an a

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ment you can be as loud as you want until then you've got to be respectful of grown people's house absolutely okay good luck Danielle hi how are you I'm good I'm Melinda hi Melinda how you doing how you doing good um I am a confirmed Bachelorette and I like to plan girls nights out uh-huh I have one friend who's boyfriend just shows up I hate that Hey but not did not show up he's on her way no I don't know how to tell her because it's just really getting annoying well just tell her just have a nice a nice conversation with her say like listen you know we planned these nights and when...
you're when your man shows up it just kind of blows the whole changes conversation yeah look you have lipstick on your teeth no I'm gonna get I'm gonna get you a tissue and um and cuz that's what lipstick on just for you I don't normally wear thank you good luck talking to your friends everybody what would you do if your ex is trying to get a job where you work yes I would be hot are you doing into it my name is Kiki and I have a situation where my ex I dated him for four months he stopped calling it ended badly and now he's trying to get a job where I work and I really don't want him to work with me I don't want to be his co-worker is it a small office or is it thousands of people it's close quarters are you are you cool with the boss I'm cool with the boss we have a have a conversation okay it's not that you wish him bad you just don't want him working with you no and and just tell your boss okay you know if but if he's really qualified then you're gonna have to deal with it Kiki okay I have to look at him every day damn it ah yeah thanks Kiki good luck well thank you my name is Jamie and I have two girl children I have a two year old and a 9 month old and I recently lost 33 pounds trying to get my way my husband is ready to start trying for a boy how do I gently let him know that the shop is closed are you how old are you I'll be 33 next month and so you don't think that you'll change your mind when...
you're 35 woman you know it's hard to bounce back to lose that weight tell me about Ann so tell me well I mean where there's a will there's a way have a conversation with your husband though you know this is not that you're you want to get pregnant maybe you know you'll wait with that and then what if it's a girl then you have three girls he's gonna want to forth talk to him with compassion yeah okay very well you're very welcome hi Randy I'm Lisa how are you hi Lisa how you doing the other day my son he's 14 asked my husband if he could sleep over his friend and my husband said mommy said no so I get to be made the bad guy all the time so how do I get my husband to stop making me into the bag we're going through this too but we're good at it you know it's what the kids try to do is divide and conquer what your husband should have said is we said no oh yeah in other words it's because it's us against them yeah it's us against bad yeah yeah no you have to talk to your husband and just let him know you know don't let the kid divide us oh he always says go ask mommy Oh mommy said yeah everything's me no I'm the bad guy no you have to have a conversation with your husband okay yeah cuz your kids gonna start using that against both of you okay all right great very well I love your cool so thank you hi

Wendy

hi are you doing good oh yeah my name is Danielle and I'm 29 years old um I have no children...
all my friends have kids there are relationships yet I'm always being judged because I'm not where they're at in life so I'm always you know we're not on the same page how can I get my friends just to kind of back off and let me allow me to live my life according to me why don't you just tell them I have and it's like when I tell them to do certain things can we go places it's always an excuse and they always say thank you know life is different though once you once you have kids or then they're married and stuff whew or fewer relationships or just have situations going on yeah and you know but then they always come at me because I don't invite them anywhere so I don't know it's just very difficult you know it is we're not in the saying it's a real transition when a woman begins to have children or when a woman gets married and then begins to have children and unfortunately it's usually the crossroads in our relationships with our single and childless friends doesn't mean that the relationships end but they definitely change a lot but then it's like I get do you have a career yes yeah well do they have careers um yes slightly I would say well no I'm just like career you have a career judged by how you're dressed look enjoy your life and don't these work by that what quick it happens to all of us women I think doesn't it it does it's natural okay good luck thank you pressure