Alex Rodriguez ruined his friendship with Derek Jeter ... and then they became teammates

(suspenseful music) - Here are

Alex

Rodriguez

and

Derek

Jeter

in the 90s.

They

were opponents but loved each other so much that it bothered their

teammates

. Here are

Rodriguez

and

Jeter

in 2017, so uncomfortable that sitting through an interview together is a chore. What happened to this close

friendship

and what replaced it? Was it beef? (suspenseful music) It was the furthest thing from beef at the outset.

Jeter

had just been drafted by the Yankees when a starstruck

Rodriguez

, still in high

school, met him at a college baseball game in 1993.

Rodriguez

was drafted that year by the Mariners and thereupon began the blossoming. Their careers blossomed as

they

worked their way into the Majors. In 1996,

Jeter

became

Rookie of the Year and helped the Yankees win their first World Series since the 70s. A-Rod

became

an All-Star, MLB Batting Champion, and AL MVP runner-up, but his Seattle team fell short of the postseason, and their

friendship

blossomed. A-Rod and

Jeter

would sleep at each

other's homes when their teams played and were so chummy during Mariners-Yankees games that

teammates

would tease them about it. In fact,

Jeter

got publicly chastised by teammate, Chad Curtis, for goofing off with the opposing A-Rod during a Yankees-Mariners brawl in 1999. But the two were inseparable.

They

were the cover boys in a 1997 Sports Illustrated about MLB's great young shortstops, and, well, I can't mention that without showing you the famous shirtless shortstops photo on

the inside. I didn't expense this magazine, for the record. This is coming home with me. (upbeat instrumental) So, things were going great, but an interesting dynamic was forming, a familiar one in the beef history universe. A-Rod was better at baseball. He managed to stand out even in lineups featuring monsters like Ken Griffey, Jr., Jay Buhner, and Edgar Martinez, but the Mariners lacked pitching outside of Randy Johnson and never went far, and A-Rod's national popularity perhaps

lagged behind his individual excellence.

Jeter

was much more famous. He was young and good-looking in New York which got him more attention from fans and press and Mariah Carey.

Jeter

's numbers were quite good in their own right, and he was part of a historically dominant Yankees team that won the World Series again in 1998 and

then

in 1999 and 2000 as well.

They

made that last World Series by defeating A-Rod's Mariners in the ALCS, and

they

were definitely A-Rod's Mariners at that

point, having traded both Johnson and Griffey in the years prior. A-Rod was unbelievable in that series, and

Jeter

wasn't much worse. The Yankees won and Jetes went on to be World Series MVP.

Rodriguez

became

a free agent that winter, and the Yankees had interest in his services, though

they

'd want him to move to third base since

Jeter

had shortstop locked down. A-Rod said nah, he'd rather beat the Yankees than be a Yankee.

They

've already won enough. But

Rodriguez

did flirt with

the crosstown rival the Yankees had just vanquished in that World Series. Super agent, Scott Boras, came to the New York Mets not only looking for a massive contract but for big market perks and fame surpassing

Jeter

's. A-Rod wanted his own office and marketing team, billboards galore, access to a private jet, and so forth. The Mets said nah, man, nevermind. A-Rod wound up with the lowly Texas Rangers, signing what was, at that point, the richest pro sports contract ever, 252 million dollars

over ten years. With much less fanfare,

Jeter

was in the process of negotiating a new longterm deal to stay in New York, and the newly mega-rich A-Rod had some thoughts. On ESPN Radio, in December 2000,

Rodriguez

speculated who, if anyone, might match his record salary and ruled out his pal,

Jeter

. He didn't have the power numbers, didn't do the same stuff defensively.

Rodriguez

even threw out some guesses on the money for which

Jeter

would eventually sign, and the papers noticed.

Jeter

dismissed the comments. He wasn't trying to break salary records. He was trying to break championship records. Doesn't mean he wasn't getting paid though. In February,

Jeter

agreed to stay with the Yankees on a ten year, 189 million dollar deal. While finalizing baseball's second largest contract, he simply stated, "I don't play for money. "I play to win. Everybody makes good money." Man, I wish I was good at sports. So now both friends were making yacht loads

of cash, but

Alex

wasn't done talking. Esquire gave

Rodriguez

a big profile that ran around the start of the '01 season.

Jeter

's name came up a few times. He came up when

Rodriguez

grumbled about how sportswriters, like Mike Lupica, rank

Jeter

"way up there," while painting himself as a "dickhead," and

Jeter

came up again when, provoked a bit by Boras,

Rodriguez

said

Derek

had "been blessed with great talent "around him," never really "had to

lead," and was never the main "concern" in a killer Yankees lineup. All fair points, but maybe not the coolest thing to say to the national media about your best friend. As soon as the article published,

Jeter

was ambushed by reporters at spring training. He told them he would have to chat with A-Rod about his intentions in saying stuff like that.

Rodriguez

, who was privately flabbergasted at how he came off in the article, insisted the comments were taken out of context and he

would never dog his friend like that. He even enlisted the article's author, Scott Raab, to fax

Jeter

an apology to which he got no reply.

Rodriguez

realized the blame would fall on him and drove from Rangers spring training to

Jeter

's house in Tampa to ask forgiveness.

Jeter

was dining out at the time and supposedly prolonged his meal to delay the confrontation as long as possible. The next day

Jeter

reportedly looked miffed and still said he was confused about the whole incident but

told media that he and

Rodriguez

had talked, he'd given his friend the benefit of the doubt,

they

'd stay friends, and he had a feeling

Alex

was done running his mouth like that. So, not exactly forgiveness, but

Jeter

wanted more than anything to stop talking about stuff that wasn't baseball. This will be a theme. And that did put a stop to things. A-Rod said he loved his friend, and he was indeed done talking about him. In his next game at Yankee Stadium,

Rodriguez

got booed and

then

he homered to help the Rangers to a rare victory. And the interactions between the two at the All-Star Game were only noteworthy because

Alex

introduced

Derek

to pop star, Joy Enriquez, his date for the occasion, and she ended up

Derek

's girlfriend. After that taste of beef, a little slider, an empanada, perhaps, things had quieted down and

they

stayed that way for a few years.

Jeter

's Yankees hit their version of a drought, losing the World Series in 2001 and 2003 and failing to make

it that far at all in 2002. Meanwhile,

Rodriguez

was putting up MVP numbers over in Texas, but the Rangers spent the whole time losing. After another crappy season in 2003, Texas realized paying one dude a gajillion dollars wasn't worth it if

they

were just gonna lose all the time, so

they

tried to trade

Rodriguez

to the Red Sox in a big, complicated deal that would have changed the parameters of his contract and netted the Rangers Manny Ramirez and Jon Lester. It would've been a big

deal, but the Players' Union shot it down because

they

didn't want

Rodriguez

voluntarily diminishing the value of his contract like that. Texas was now ready to move on with A-Rod, but

then

the Yankees came calling by surprise. The Yankees were loath to mess with

Jeter

's role even with a better shortstop available, but

they

did have a hole at third base after Aaron Boone suffered a freak off-season injury. So what about A-Rod joining the Yankees and shifting over a position. Kind of

weird, but

Rodriguez

wanted to get the hell out of Texas and a deal was done. The best shortstop in baseball was now a Yankee, but he wasn't playing shortstop, and the guy who was playing shortstop maybe still had a grudge against him. The ensuing press conference, in which a kind of glum looking

Jeter

dressed A-Rod in his pinstripes, was fittingly awkward, but the two of them were saying the right things, and

Rodriguez

took his move to third base in stride. Both players knew their

relationship would be under scrutiny.

Jeter

claimed the worst thing that could happen for the local media would be for him and

Rodriguez

to get along.

Rodriguez

joked that paparazzi would have to see them holding hands and going to a movie to declare any beef dead.

Jeter

, ever wary of drama, tried to downplay any discomfort at spring training, no problems, let it go, it's over.

Rodriguez

also said any feud was behind them, but he was characteristically more candid. He revealed to the

public that drive he'd taken to

Jeter

's house for forgiveness in 2001, and he acknowledged that friends, who had one been tied at the hip, didn't have the same relationship anymore. Those were the kind of statements that would keep the media spotlight on the two of them, intentionally or not, and definitely annoy

Jeter

. Throughout that first season, the two of them were careful not to betray any tension and things mostly quieted down, but

Rodriguez

had some dramatic moments on the

field against the rival Red Sox. In July, he provoked a huge brawl at Fenway. In October, he was arguably the face of the Yankees historic ALCS collapse against Boston. He batted two for 17 during New York's losses in games four through seven. That included the bizarre moment in Game Six when, instead of simply running out the weak grounder he hit with

Jeter

on first, A-Rod slapped the ball out of Bronson Arroyo's glove, screwing up New York's momentum that inning and generating a

controversy that lasted well after Boston's eventual World Series victory. Noted asshole, Curt Schilling, drew unfavorable comparisons between A-Rod's lack of composure and

Jeter

's class. Months later, Trot Nixon said

Rodriguez

"couldn't stand up "to

Jeter

" or some other longtime Yankee greats. Kevin Millar joined in, too. The Red Sox deliberately and repeatedly used

Jeter

's name to pick on A-Rod.

Jeter

, naturally, was asked about those comments but refused to

stick up for his teammate. That was really the shape of this relationship for a few years. A-Rod generating stories, and

Jeter

trying so, so hard to avoid them. (upbeat music) The two never went directly at each other, at least not openly. There was a flimsy rumor that

they

'd physically fought after a throwing error in a 2005 loss to Tampa, but the Yankees shot that down hard. The signs of tension came from indirect, passive aggressive acts, like, in 2006, when Yankee fans booed a slumping

Rodriguez

,

Jeter

kind of shrugged off any responsibility to stop them. When A-Rod briefly broke that slump, with a game-winning homer,

Jeter

didn't project enthusiasm. He didn't even wanna talk about it. He was just like, "Ask him how he feels... "Hopefully this gets him going." Later that year, when former Yankee, Darryl Strawberry, suggested

Jeter

ought to support

Rodriguez

more, he was like what do you want me to do? But it's hard to distance yourself from A-Rod

drama when you stand ten yards away from him every game. In August 2006, the Yankees were getting crushed by the Orioles, and a routine pop-up brought the two old friends together.

Jeter

stared two holes through the back of A-Rod's head and didn't even go grab the ball. Both players tried to dismiss the moment as a meaningless mishap, but New York management had enough. Yankees manager, Joe Torre, gave his players a talking-to, GM, Brian Cashman, pleaded with

Jeter

to fix his body

language, and hitting coach, Don Mattingly, who had hated teammate, Wade Boggs, when

they

were both Yankees, told

Jeter

, "I faked it with Boggs... You have to fake it with

Alex

." Cashman said the same thing, just "fake it," pretend to be supportive. But

Rodriguez

kept making it difficult. (suspenseful music) He hit so terribly in the '06 playoffs that Torre slid him to eighth in the lineup. At spring training the following season, A-Rod said he was a "big boy."

He didn't need support. And he admitted that he and

Jeter

, once blood brothers, didn't have as great a relationship as

they

used to, but it was no big deal, and with that out there, he requested that media stop asking about

Jeter

, so he could stop lying and saying

they

were still cool.

Jeter

, publicly, said he didn't have a rift with

Rodriguez

, and it didn't matter anyway, but he also implied that he resented how A-Rod was talking about personal, non-baseball stuff out in the

open, and privately was like, "Why doesn't he just shut up?" But shutting up just wasn't A-Rod's thing. That season he generated another controversy by shouting at Blue Jays third baseman, Howie Clark, causing him to let a pop-up drop. Joe Torre publicly scolded A-Rod for yet another childish, impulsive act, something everyone knew he'd never have done to

Jeter

. Of course,

Jeter

never needed that kind of scolding. He was the homegrown, attention-dodging, man of the

people, class act with a fistful of rings, not the dramatic, me first, carpetbagger who brought no further glory to a city accustomed to it. A-Rod also won his second MVP as a Yankee that season but... (upbeat instrumental) Torre left that off-season, and after a typically rocky public negotiation, A-Rod re-upped with another gigantic Yankees contract. In 2008, the Yankees missed the playoffs for the first time in

Jeter

's career, and in 2009, things got worse. Writing for Sports

Illustrated, Selena Roberts reported that

Rodriguez

had tested positive for steroids years prior. A-Rod admitted the fact in a press conference attended by his distraught looking

teammates

.

Jeter

professed support for his teammate, - You know as

teammates

we can help him out, you know, realize it's gonna be difficult, you know, our job is to try to support him as he tries to get back on the field. - But said he cheated himself and lamented that another individual mistake would reflect

poorly on the League's many nonusing players. - I can't emphasize it enough. Everybody wasn't doin' it. - It was yet another episode of

Jeter

feeling like he had to answer for controversy generated by his former best friend, and

then

A-Rod got hurt, missing the first month of the '09 season recovering from hip surgery. He had relationship controversy swirling, a steroid scandal, and now, an injury to recover from. This was his low point, and it might have been the best

possible thing for his working partnership with

Jeter

.

Rodriguez

returned from injury with a bang, homering on the first pitch he saw,

then

helping completely turn around a team that had been losing without him. Perhaps just as important, he returned a changed man in

Jeter

's eyes, humbler, more focused, better teammate. The rest of that season was a parade of joyful moments.

Jeter

broke Lou Gehrig's Yankee hit record in September, and there was A-Rod, gleefully congratulating him. Both

players dominated the ALDS against the Twins and reveled in each other's excellence.

Then

they

were seen dining together with their famous girlfriends to celebrate. The two went on to lead New York to a World Series win and their renewed

friendship

only grew from there. Each faced separate drama before retiring, but together,

they

'd earned a ring. Feud over... Or is it? In 2011, Ian O'Connor released The Captain, a biography of

Jeter

that details many of the stories I just told you,

and so, so much more about

Jeter

's private animosity for his onetime best friend.

Jeter

publicly disavowed the book, and A-Rod never really acknowledged it, but it definitely rekindled the idea of

Rodriguez

as a selfish diva craving validation and

Jeter

as a fortunate curmudgeon unwilling to help him. And the post-book years have seemed icy. New York Magazine profiled

Jeter

in 2014, and, when prompted to talk about A-Rod,

Jeter

shut down that whole line of questioning. When A-Rod finally

retired in 2016,

Jeter

reached out and didn't hear back promptly from

Rodriguez

who said his inbox was full. And

then

there's this. Both players attended a big charity event in 2017. Both agreed to a CNBC interview, and

then

both realized, with great discomfort,

they

'd be interviewed together and asked about their relationship. Their responses were all deflections, and

they

were so awkward. - This is a treat to see you two together. Now since you've both hung up the jersey, you

guys are friends now, is that what's goin' on? - Shortstop, third base, it's exactly how we were back in the day. (laughs) - Just together, right? Both of ya? - Yep. - Side by side. - But you greeted each other warmly. The press made a little thing about the back and forth between you two. Was that real or serious ever? - I think we're hitting up stories from about twenty years ago, huh? - (laughs) There's the history channel. - Yeah, that's what we're doing. -

Afterward,

Jeter

was reportedly "beside himself angry" about the interview in which he was also grilled about potentially buying the Marlins. That same month, A-Rod was one of the few Yankee

teammates

absent at

Jeter

's jersey retirement. He claimed to have been elsewhere with his mom since it was Mother's Day but didn't quite answer whether or not he'd been invited to the event in the first place. And that's about where things stand. As their post-playing careers

continue, A-Rod and

Jeter

will praise each other publicly, but the air between them still seems frosty. And how could it not be? When

they

were young and new and unsullied by fame and fortune, it was easy to be friends, but their reputations diverged almost to opposite poles, and it rankled

Rodriguez

enough that he said some things he could never take back. A-Rod's career got messier while

Jeter

worked very hard to keep his quiet. But

then

they

became

teammates

in a massive media market

and even the slightest crackling between those two opposite personas was magnified for everyone to see. If anything, this Beef History is one of triumph, of estranged friends and foils who went through a lot of crap before finding a way to win together. But perhaps a World Series victory isn't enough. It may be a long time before

Alex

Rodriguez

and

Derek

Jeter

fully unpack their past, let alone get over it, but once

they

do, I think

they

'll find that, however privately, however

intermittently,

they

've had quite a bit of beef. Thank you so much for delighting in my beef. If you wanna learn more about

Jeter

and the Yankees and the '01 World Series, here's an episode rewinder. Or if you're just here for beef, here's an episode about an old school Yankees-Red Sox feud.