14 year old Parker stands up for his rights. Cops say he is free to go with his dad, instead of mom

We are already here, Harpy's mother's house, did you hear so much, two, three, irony, now is not the time you need to come in and we can talk about this, okay, the children told me that you want to live with him, yes, sir, okay, we will talk about it inside, I don't want to go out, do what I don't want to go out now I'm sorry I don't want to go out I'm sorry you're a child and I can't I can't make all the decisions, but you have to go out now, so it's time to come home, okay, you have to come, you know, I'm sorry, no I want to go out.

I understand, but these are no longer visits to your father. and it's time to go home it's okay, it's okay, we can talk about this I'll listen to you, I'll listen to what you have to say but there's no way there's no way you can just roll up everything's okay and you can just roll up get up and say oh, I'm not going to get off the truck and this mom is not going to say oh, okay, my son, my son that I've raised for 14

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s, see you later, I'm just not like that, I love you and you.

Obviously I've talked a lot this weekend, that's fine, maybe there are some things I need to know, but I'm not going to let you go, that's not going to happen. I love you too much, we are too close and this is not the time. right way to do it, in my opinion, this is a bit of a sneaky, disrespectful way to do it, oh by the way, hey, I'm here and that's not your fault, are you almost sure they told you this was? It's going to be a good way to do it and it's just not, it's just not very appropriate, so you need to get out of the car party, you want it, uh, how do you want to do it right?

Maybe you and I should go in and talk about it. What is going on with you that is causing you to feel this way? Maybe we need to talk to youth pastors like we were talking about last week. Maybe if something is happening I can help you. Alright. You have to get out of the car. Hey, you have to get out of the car and go home, uh, okay, honey, I hate to say this, but you're being really ugly right now, this is being super disrespectful and you have to come home now. I have to call a police officer to come help me.

I'd hate to have to do that, but I'm sure I will. Caleb is going to get into some trouble because he knows he has to get you back at 2:00 and I don't think you're being a very good role model right now, sitting there, flossing, well, this is something important to do. What are you encouraging him to do? You don't have a good eye. I can't make him get into my car, yes you can. you're his father he's a minor you can say you have to go out we have to do this the proper way you can't you can model responsibility you can choose to do that I'm not coming on Parker Parker come on it's time to go in and talk this is not the way do this, what is the way?

I already told you to come in and tell me what your concerns are, come in and talk to me if you want, no, because it is time to go in. I told you last week that we had things to do on Sunday. Well, for one thing, we're going to Nonnie's house, like a barbecue, and another thing, we're going swimming. We had fun and had fun. Fun family plans. Smile for the camera. It's not an emergency, where is that brother CJ? father, right, dad is going to call the police, you need, you need to get your 3/16, you need to do the right thing, do you feel like yes, we talked about what you feel in your heart, if this is it? the right thing to do today is not night this is the appropriate way to do this yes you really wouldn't do this to him you wouldn't do it right at the time I was supposed to pick you up you would say I don't want to go You've asked not to go before and I didn't.

I have never realized that you have been doing this for many

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s. Maybe you have forgotten some things, but that is not allowed. You can't just not prove that we. I've never done that because that's not the right thing to do. Tell me. I can't see you through this dust. Could you lower this out the window a little bit? Tell me what do you think is right? The right thing to do is simply say goodbye to your brothers. Do you think you won't live with them when it's invisible? But you won't seem that way at all because now he's not going to visit Kenneth.

I can do FaceTime. Do you think facetiming is the same? Do you think the same relationship you would have with Caleb as you had with the space-time gym? No that's not the way it doesn't work life isn't on the computer I know you left Caleb and It's so easy to be mad at me and Jason right now because you're 14 and sometimes it's so easy to be mad at everything that Whether you are 14, but the real Baba will happen no matter where you go, you will have to get there. your laundry done no matter where you go you'll have to do your homework don't you don't have a representation of that in real life it can be fun because you don't have to do anything about it we don't fight well honey maybe it's because you don't have me there They don't give you two weeks, no, I'm not going to do it, you're my son and I'm not going to hand you over to someone who has adult problems that are nothing like you.

I should worry right now, but if I thought for a second that that was a place appropriate for you to live in, if I thought for a second that it was an appropriate place right now just for you to visit, I wouldn't do it. I don't think an industrial engine business is a good place for this military school, a better place for him, he's not going to military school, okay, I'm glad to know no one said he was going to military school the other day, you and I laugh. and I said, oh my god, boy, you're driving me crazy.

I know why people go to the army. Scudder, we have time, no, it was a joke record, like when you joke, you come to hit me. I would never fire you, you were married. If you were my firstborn, you are my heart walking outside my body. I would never send you. I sent you to summer camp once and that was hard. He is

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to go. He is not minor. No. He is

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to leave the cart whenever he wants. he wants to and he's going to do it he's not being restricted by me I'm just filming that's all I know that's all you're doing is filming I know I know your game that's all you're doing are you high right now?

Caleb are you there? drunk which one is we'll let you tell you up front will you take a drug test for me? are you really going to take a drug test because if you are if you are not under the influence of anything you are great? Now what happens is that marijuana is legal and you know it is God's plan, how do you know? Because you're on Facebook screaming that I need you to know all these horrible things we have, you need what we have, all these mutuals. I never mentioned you. Believe it or not, I don't believe it, yeah, okay, believe it or not, I don't believe it.

I was in second grade and I can use my context clues, but I'll tell you right now that I don't think you. You're a proper influence, you know? Before this I was going to talk to you about the summer because there are some things we need to work on in terms of co-parenting, but they are clearly already underway. I think this is an important decision I think I know he can't get you goodnight cadence bark I think this is an important decision and I think I understand being confused and I understand that she doesn't like her parents when you're 14.

Caleb likes both of them too. I understand that, but family is family and we are set up the way we are set up for a reason and no, this is just it's so early, this is not right. I'm asking you to come into the house. and tell me about what's going on with you, if you honestly thought you were going to go to military school, I really, honestly, I don't think every time you play the punch game with me, I honestly don't think you're going to hit me, maybe I've joked with you too much, maybe we are our fun, joking family, you are internalizing some of that.

I'm willing to work with you on that, but I won't let you stay in a car with a man. I don't see that as the best influence and I know you love him and I've always said it, I've always said it's okay to leave Caleb, but he does some things that aren't some of the things we want to model. I've just done some things that I don't particularly agree with, just like I'm sure I'll do some things that he doesn't particularly agree with, but what does he do? Those are some of the things that maybe you're 14 years old.

I know. that you're big but you're still a kid but some of the things you just can't some things you just don't need to get involved in now no maybe never I'm not going to reach into the car and snatch you bald or something because I think firmly that Caleb would shoot me. I am a narc. I firmly believe he would shoot me, but as your mom right now I'm telling you that you need to get your ass back. Get out of this car and you need to get in but first I just want to hug you because I can see you're hurting, I don't even know what's wrong with you but you're fine when you leave and when you come.

When you come back from Caleb's house you have confusion every time something happens there, there are conversations that are happening there that fuel this negativity and it's not okay, you're a happy boy you need to get out of the car and I need to get in I'm going to go take my orders I'm going to receive the orders, the police are going to enforce them. How many times have I told you that I will never give up on you? How many times have I told you that you were worth it? everything, did you really think I was going to say okay, let me go get your toothbrush?

Hey, I love you and I don't know what's going on, but I want the chance to work on it with you, you've had the chance, it's bad. enough that you don't want to come home, it's pretty bad, I mean, people run away for huge things, what do you think this is normal, baby, look at that look, the footage and that you think is a What this That's all I'm sorry you're a kid but I have to say do you think that's being a good parent? Do you think this is someone who needs to have complete control of your decisions regarding you?

That's a good point when people when people give up their ability to make decisions about their children, even though there's something we can't, we can't get people involved, we can't get people to do the right thing, why? you mean? Well, there are many things. That Caleb is gone by his own choice, whatever, baby and that's fine, he does his thing, we do our thing, we raise you guys and you go and have fun at Disneyland with him, that's how it's been, but someone has to tell him. to eat your Brussels sprouts, put on your billions and wash your Blues and Gray's on Friday, no, honey, no, are you waiting for the police to come so you can get out of the car?

I don't know, do you know how many? police about me they usually send they usually send two or three cars this makes him very happy this is what he likes to do the most to cause trouble and you know what it's not really what we do as a family, we're not a problem family you know I think that sometimes children can be encouraged to do things they would not normally do. You are the calmest, quietest child I have ever met, even hating, so there is no reason to send him to anger management classes, so this is not between you and me you have completely disconnected you are flossing and this is this isn't no it's not possible that we need to go to anger management counseling because you said you got really angry that wasn't that wasn't a The bad thing is that it was a question of how can we help you process your emotions.

It is difficult to learn to manage emotions. Many adults can't do it. Impulse control like now. Oh, I want to do this right now. Impulse control is a real It's hard for a lot of adults to learn that this shouldn't have been handled this way, but someone decided, hey, let's do this, I don't know if it was, you don't know if it was Kendall, but it was on an impulse. it was 100 let's pull the trigger now and this is not well thought out this is not a mom I need to talk to you take me to Starbucks everyone everyone loves you in that house your dad and I love you I have no doubt that Caleb loves you the best he can But it's very different being the father of a child and being the father of a child, those are two separate things.

Can you tell me what every minute that you stay in this car is that he doesn't make you get out? It's not good, he's ready to go out whenever you want, yeah, be free to go out and be a father and say no, son, you need to go out, it's time to go home, we'll take care of this. I will contact your mother. We'll talk about this, we need to have a family meeting

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of just, oh, by the way, he doesn't want to go out, you know this is wrong, you weren't raised to be like that, you weren't raised to be trash like that, Caleb.

Leverett your mother would be ashamed she has expressed to me that she wants to live with me to help my son she has expressed to me that she loves you many times to do this and I don't think for a second that this is all my son is doing and I hate Parker. No, I'm not excited about doing this either. I'm just trying to help myself. I'm trying to help my son. I don't know evidence for the court or whatever you think. it's going to happen maybe you just want to go to court it's your way of not I'd rather do everything voluntarily with Ella great so why don't you voluntarily pay child support and get your health insurance?

That would be great, why don't you pay rent voluntarily? I do both, oh, okay, you know, I'm sorry, Parker. I shouldn't even say that when you get out so we don't have

cops

all over the stinking highway. you're going to have the police you really don't know this is a huge tantrum you have to get out of the car and go home this is ridiculous you call Marissa why are we waiting for the police officers why don't weYou want to see me more, but geez, that's your choice, but I'll do my best because I feel like that's my job.

I'm not going to just walk out, that one got too hard and he wanted to. go live with the ex so that's four to go that's not what it is this is not a real life that's not a real family oh well they're finally here can I take my orders please? Well, the kids are supposed to come home at 2:00 and the rest came I have four kids with my ex-husband set three right here he's filming us the way you're being you're being filmed we don't have standard orders we had a very strange we agree this man does it I don't see these kids regularly and suddenly my kids are fine when they leave and when they come home.

I have a son who doesn't want to get off this card and my ex-husband says, "Oh, he's free to do it." go whenever you want but I'm not going to make it turn out well they're filming me they're not being confrontational but you know that's all I won't touch you I won't touch you alone if this kid needs to come home he's 14 yes give him pork, sir, yes, yes, teach like Marty John, never, Caleb takes advantage, yes, sir, at 6:00 p.m. Yes, sir, the video is fine, mine is going well, thank you. I'm going to leave you at two o'clock, which was 55 minutes ago and my son told me that he doesn't want to go back there and I did go.

Per orders, I returned the four children here and he refuses to get out of the car and is free to leave. I'm certainly not saying he can't go, but he won't leave my son either. I'm not going to force him. do something I don't want to do yes, they have been with their cousin for the last 55 minutes absolutely yes. I have my saying. I received the same copy of the same court order. I mean, we're on the same page. This is just one. one of those really difficult situations where he doesn't want to come back and I'm not going to kick my son out and the camera is just to keep everyone honest and make sure everything goes by the rules, okay, you know? mobster Brendan smick Sphynx okay okay license plate number one 477 okay thanks what's going on?

Why please don't make me go there? It's not always funny, usually our mom, I'm not going there, it's hard being 14, but it's harder to do things like this you're not even who you are yeah please don't make me go this is always everything's fine and then You can't tell me you haven't encouraged this this is ridiculous I this is over like two or three years mom oh my gosh you're a kid you weren't equipped to make these decisions yeah I'm a 12+ male. I'm equipped, amazed, I thought it was an appropriate influence if we were co-parenting together on a regular basis if We were talking and it was all about you and, gee, if I really believed that's what you needed and wanted, I'd let it happen, but I don't think Be safe there and I won't let you rot.

This car I don't think is safe here because because you hit me before I'm going to hit you again and I'm going to spank you again no, no, no, you don't hit me, you hit me in the face, no, I No, yes, you do it and you show that Your grandmother once threw up before he pushed me against the ball because I made my boots and you wouldn't let me bring them. I remember because we were in the hallway next to my room no you didn't show it to me but you had your hands around my neck and you and him were cornering me and I'm not coming back here please for the love of God let me go oh please no Please make me go sir, for the love of God.

Thank you. I'll ask you what your penis always cares about. You can say? I think I could. He told her to consider letting me go. I have legal custody of you, Parker, and I'm unlocking this card. No, you're my. kid, I'm going to get you out of the car, can we ask the man to close the door, get out of the car? Bo, no, it's okay to do whatever it takes to get this baby out of the car, bring my husband, please, no, no, don't stop, get out, yes, it is. This uses your mom, friend, and I understand that you don't want to go, that's fine, but she has the right to take you out of the car now.

I know you wanted to go with your dad's mind. I understand that don't get me wrong. Yeah, I'm just saying that since you're still a kid when you're 14, she has the right to take you out of the car, but all that fighting, arguing, fighting, and trying to get her armor out of the window. It's going to turn into a riot, we need to handle this in a different way. I agree, yes, from civil to riot, you said who initiated the force, well she was trying to get the child out of the car, which is initiating her parental

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, technically that was not the case. force, it's not force, now she was, she was initiating her personal

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, okay, it's her law, yeah, okay, do you know what law it is about James, but I thought my head doesn't, but I understand all this disturbance training in disturbance?

She wasn't trying. To turn it around, I'll shoot you in your own mouth. I understand he was sitting here. I witnessed everything. I saw what happened turning into a riot and that's what we're not going to do. Well, we can talk about this civilly as adults. We have to do it that way, sure, okay, okay, he's convinced he's not going to get out and I'm convinced I'm not sending him away to my expert, we can talk about what's going on and why you feel this way. I walk around the house, but I won't send you anywhere I don't have a good feeling about it, even on your regular visits.

Well, I want him to come in and then he can't come in and mediate this. It's not his job. He doesn't believe in the courts or the police. I'm trying to do it in a less expensive way. Why don't you go ahead and tell him what you think about police officers? Nothing about you you don't respect. anyone, even your own son, you know, you even respect even your own son, to encourage him to impulsively handle a situation like this, you've been pretty calm until he was pushed, from what I'm witnessing, yes, I'm sure from your point of view. view. of view in the way you will edit, I'm sure you would mind emailing me a copy.

Could you email me a copy so I have a record of it? You're also scaring me by trying to unlock it. the door I'm going to look at I'm going to look at a little bit this morning like I said hopeless with that involving lawyers at least too many lawyers how do I deal with this and isn't it a bother for where I am? Don't bother or bother him. I mean, I've had legal custody of this child and he won't and he's there. I know what I'm doing, officer. I can't, I can't because then you start screaming and then.

You say no, please mr. B amazing yes it is I'm bewildered in your own way I'm bewildered yes I'm sure you are I'm sure so you came to bring the boy back yes for my children it's okay you don't want to I'm scared. You're scared I'm scared to go in especially after that now you think it's going to happen to you baby I just want to hug no I'm not going in but you said I could use whatever it took to get in that car and kill him that's exactly what you said yes sir yes situation and your name Roach Abed number 120 okay it's me okay right now something may have happened just make sure she knows okay now she read a report she just called me her baby but she threatening with suing me get away from him baby I'm yours I'm your baby but you were going to press charges against me because you're my not not so peaceful you know get away from Caleb right now lord no thank you thank you lever le v e r e t he got me you got me I got my good can you can't you can do a report of this or I could have a copy of this and she I don't know how it works if she called but we are involved and you all are telling me I'm free to leave but she called him saying you kidnapped her son we won't do it , you can show them the officer appears, you can show it at the end of this video.

You all have a business card about the opportunity, no sir, I don't, but like you said, I'm Officer Brennan, so that's Police Department badge number 147, okay, okay, I mean, I'm more than a little more than willing to take them to school, but uh. Ask him if you can, we're afraid to go, ask him if you can get your school things. I mean, you all leave tomorrow. More on that. Excuse my politics. I can't, can you guys wait? I mean, she's telling you that she's scared. I can't even make it to five minutes, please do it in one minute.

Ok Freiburg, oh thank you, thank you very much, good job buddy, he tried to slam the door to my room and make me stay. there I pushed her as I would say in self-defense I didn't attack her I don't see her murdered I'm completely impressed I'm proud of you son you stood your ground congratulations I'm going to pause this I'm I'll call you but I know I don't know what's going on.